So my friend popped me some questions...

It almost seems as if they have a problem with the notion, something most dreadful. Homosexuality leads to spontaneous combustion, nuclear winter AND global warming after all.

On a serious note, who cares if someone likes that sort of thing, it's their choice after all and if it it's "disgusting", "immoral" etc so what it's between 2 consenting adults in private, something which doesn't concern you in the slightest. (not you artcellrox, you're obviously not the type to be like that)

I was partially joking on the basis that while I do believe that it is gay.....because it is.....I only posted that because I found it funny and normally it wouldn't be my business but it is on a public forum and all......

Hey no problem, I feel its part of my calling to share correct information with people, especially when STI rates are on the rise all over the world. The better people are educated, and the less they are shamed for gettinfg something the better things will get. Its downright sobering to hear what some people think they know about STIs. I really feel a big part of it is substandard sex education based around the idea that "you aren't going to be having sex, so we dont need to tell you about it". That mentality is hurting everyone, especially those of us having sex when we dont even know how to make educated decitions about our own health.

Anyway sorry to get so far off topic lol
What ever you end up doing I hope things go well with you and your friend =3

Nah, I'm too straight right now to take up that offer. So my answer is no.

My rule of thumb is to never do something that you would feel ashamed of if others knew of it. We don't live in a perfect world, so the chances of it coming to light eventually are very high.

Also, since you asked... I wouldn't do this even if the circumstances were ideal. It just isn't like me to pursue a sexual relationship without a romantic aspect involved. For me, it isn't a matter of it being straight or gay (I happen to be bisexual), but just a matter of morals. I'm not judging you (nor anyone else) if they would choose to pursue this course of action, but I just feel like for me it would be wrong - ultimately. It wouldn't bring me the kind of happiness that I would want.

I think we need freaky to enlighten us on this...(just a suggestion). since he has experience on both sides.

if it helps you, I had a similar experience but we were both girls. she's my best friend and the topic also went up similarly to what you just wrote...
so what the heck! we tried it out we kissed and touched each other (first base, second base and a little fingering). but not to the point of pussy eating. afterwards, we didn't feel awkward. because we TRUSTED EACH OTHER. we went for some more make out sessions probably a couple more times... when it came to the point that we get to have our own boyfriends. we kinda asked each other's permission.

EDIT: the point here is,
do you trust yourself and him well enough to push through this?
do you think you would regret it?
do you have enough confidence as to your sexuality and not be ashamed?

Well I guess its cool your ok with it.. but aren;t you worry that after you cross the line that your not planning to cross.. there wont be turning back... =.=

You know... This could get awkward fast... I tried something like this with a female soldier back when I was in the Army... Things went great... At first. Both of us being bisexual was fun, a lot of variety, typically involving other female soldiers, but being that it was casual, there developed 2 major problems. First was eye-contact, something you probably ruled out by the "I'll close my eyes" notion, after a while making eye contact gets... awkward... not during, but after. Afterwards in a casual setting if you make eye-contact you'll make the connection and quickly look away. It becomes weird in everyday situations, bear that in mind. 2 is much less of a concern for you. We were both homeward bound (in a transitionary company) and towards the end of our escapades (if you will) and we started developing feelings for each other. Things got weird when we noticed we each got jealous when we would include one of our regulars. We would each look at the other with barely contained jealousy whenever our focus waivered. Granted it was fun, very, very fun (no STDs btw, I worked in the TMC (Troop Medical Clinic at the time, so I had access to medical records, especially useful after the test after each leave was mandatory to ensure that we were clean.) The thing is, remember every other moment outside of doing it.

Which kind of morals are implied?

Mine. I thought I stated that clearly.

Oh, you mean you would not pursue sex without romance. It's ok.

haha.. thats the reason why I would never sleep with my colleague if its just for fun.. but I guess its a good experience.. thanks 4 the share.. ^^
But after all that do u guys still have frequet sex or relationship?

He's now engaged to another woman.

That... Well, not only that. When she went back to Washington (state, not DC) we agreed to end it. Also, she still hasn't taken care of her divorce, so it's unofficial and will probably remain that way... It's not legally possible to meet a married woman...

On a side note, I was hoping how horrible of a person I was would fade over time, but it seems to have stuck... I know it's more to ask for than I deserve, but can you try to forget those topics so I can go on with my life without feeling like I'm still a colossal asshole, it's been months...

Eh. Whatever.

Even if you don't mean it, I lament my words and I want the people who read those threads to know that.

Well good luck with your love life... as long as both of you happy and everbody needs a happy ending in our life... ^^

Ignore the wrong words and whatnot, I'm operating off of my phone and swype likes to put in the wrong word...

Platonic sex doesn't exist.

Feelings are always involved.

It's why things like sex friends rarely ever work as just sex friends.

[align=justify][color=green][font=verdana]I'd say, considering what I've read, not to go for it. Some people can label it "curiosity", whereas I label it "uncertainty". You need to get straight in your mind what exactly you like and want. If you're only being drawn to it by the prospect of free blowjobs... then I'd say bail. Things will get hella awkward between you and your friend if you do decide to go down that path.