what do girls look for in a guy?
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CreampieHoney wrote...
someone who can hold a conversationThat's what I was gonna say =)
Also, have something about yourself to impress her. (Or if you don't then at least dress to impress.)
Have stuff going on in your life so she knows you have a life.
Don't be awkward, have confidence.
But most importantly know how to hold a damn conversation.
I find that's whats wrong with most guys. Especially in high school.
Girls don't like boring guys!
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Kalistean wrote...
rudeness. Be rude and a general asshole. Treat her like crap.sadly...theirs some sort of truth in this. :/
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Ayanami00 wrote...
Kalistean wrote...
rudeness. Be rude and a general asshole. Treat her like crap.sadly...theirs some sort of truth in this. :/
It goes back to the cave man days. We have something deep inside that says, "Hell yeah! Knock me out with your club and drag me back to your cave by my hair! That shit turns me on!"
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neko-chan wrote...
Ayanami00 wrote...
Kalistean wrote...
rudeness. Be rude and a general asshole. Treat her like crap.sadly...theirs some sort of truth in this. :/
It goes back to the cave man days. We have something deep inside that says, "Hell yeah! Knock me out with your club and drag me back to your cave by my hair! That shit turns me on!"
Funny, ain't it? After so many years, becoming such a sophisticated and intelligent society (ha...) we still let the age old instinct drive us, instead of common sense.
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it depends on who you are and what type of person she is.
the treat her like crap method does work but I've never used it and I've gotten far >=D.
Just be yourself trying to change who you are probably might ruin your chances with her if she has some sort of interest for you.
Hopefully you didnt start talking to her 2 days ago -_- and suddenly are trying to get advice.
the treat her like crap method does work but I've never used it and I've gotten far >=D.
Just be yourself trying to change who you are probably might ruin your chances with her if she has some sort of interest for you.
Hopefully you didnt start talking to her 2 days ago -_- and suddenly are trying to get advice.
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
Sleep with her sister.
It shows her that you find her so attractive, that you are wanting to even sleep with girls who remind you of her.
It shows her that you find her so attractive, that you are wanting to even sleep with girls who remind you of her.
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Not every girls the same..
Chuu..
>3>
Usually, girls go for looks, no lie; SADLY..
Like 10% go for personality.
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I like a guy who I can play video games with.
:3
[/h] Chuu..
>3>
Usually, girls go for looks, no lie; SADLY..
Like 10% go for personality.
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I like a guy who I can play video games with.
:3
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Alex~kun wrote...
neko-chan wrote...
Ayanami00 wrote...
Kalistean wrote...
rudeness. Be rude and a general asshole. Treat her like crap.sadly...theirs some sort of truth in this. :/
It goes back to the cave man days. We have something deep inside that says, "Hell yeah! Knock me out with your club and drag me back to your cave by my hair! That shit turns me on!"
Funny, ain't it? After so many years, becoming such a sophisticated and intelligent society (ha...) we still let the age old instinct drive us, instead of common sense.
Eww, neanderthals :P I blame the limbic system for all those primal needs. LOL, this topic is taking a funny turn...
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CreampieHoney wrote...
Alex~kun wrote...
neko-chan wrote...
Ayanami00 wrote...
Kalistean wrote...
rudeness. Be rude and a general asshole. Treat her like crap.sadly...theirs some sort of truth in this. :/
It goes back to the cave man days. We have something deep inside that says, "Hell yeah! Knock me out with your club and drag me back to your cave by my hair! That shit turns me on!"
Funny, ain't it? After so many years, becoming such a sophisticated and intelligent society (ha...) we still let the age old instinct drive us, instead of common sense.
Eww, neanderthals :P I blame the limbic system for all those primal needs. LOL, this topic is taking a funny turn...
Actually, scientist have recently discovered that neanderthals mated with humans in the past.
I bet doing it with a burly, stout Neanderthal had the same stigma back then as doing a black guy has today.
"Once you go Neanderthal, there ain't no going back"
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neko-chan wrote...
CreampieHoney wrote...
Alex~kun wrote...
neko-chan wrote...
Ayanami00 wrote...
Kalistean wrote...
rudeness. Be rude and a general asshole. Treat her like crap.sadly...theirs some sort of truth in this. :/
It goes back to the cave man days. We have something deep inside that says, "Hell yeah! Knock me out with your club and drag me back to your cave by my hair! That shit turns me on!"
Funny, ain't it? After so many years, becoming such a sophisticated and intelligent society (ha...) we still let the age old instinct drive us, instead of common sense.
Eww, neanderthals :P I blame the limbic system for all those primal needs. LOL, this topic is taking a funny turn...
Actually, scientist have recently discovered that neanderthals mated with humans in the past.
I bet doing it with a burly, stout Neanderthal had the same stigma back then as doing a black guy has today.
"Once you go Neanderthal, there ain't no going back"
EDIT: Teehee, your version made me grin (~_^)V and it sounded so much better! It could be a possibility that neanderthals rutted with humans, too.
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Eezyville wrote...
Confidence. Something I am lacking.Kalistean wrote...
rudeness. Be rude and a general asshole. Treat her like crap.while being an asshole does seem to work sometimes, i think it's just mistaken for confidence.
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nice teeth <.<
articulate
medium sized wang (srsly)
i like small built guys
gamers, geekers, humorous (dry is good too)
nice shoes?
articulate
medium sized wang (srsly)
i like small built guys
gamers, geekers, humorous (dry is good too)
nice shoes?
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it all does depend on the girl but for me these are a couple of things i've noticed about myself:
1. hate guys who only follow me around like a puppy dog and throw a ton of compliments. i think people might mistake these for the so called "nice guys" that have a rep for never getting the girl...well...for me the issue is i want equality in a relationship and do not want to feel superior to person i am with. so for this reason, while i love romantic gestures and so on, i don't like to feel as though i am being worshiped. i don't want a submissive guy. to that end, the asshole is much more attractive compared to the worshiper.
2. i tend to run the other way when a complete stranger asks me for my number. maybe i'm kinda shy, maybe i'm kinda easily creeped out..dunno, but this is a risky move.
3. i love guys that get to know me first, we talk for hours, makes me laugh and slowly starts his advances. if we have things in common, like music, way of thinking on some issues and so on....!
4. the asshole...well, i've really only fallen for one of these...i think it started with us somewhat fighting at first and me calling out his bs, then finding we have things in common, then me being utterly puzzled at the way he views the world, me fascinated at this bizarre creature, and then finding that we connected at a much deeper level.
so as far as the asshole conundrum...mayhaps the above helps? don't know if other girls agree with me..
btw.....i know girls that treat guys like shit under the same rationale that guys come back for more...so seems like the asshole thing goes both ways...
1. hate guys who only follow me around like a puppy dog and throw a ton of compliments. i think people might mistake these for the so called "nice guys" that have a rep for never getting the girl...well...for me the issue is i want equality in a relationship and do not want to feel superior to person i am with. so for this reason, while i love romantic gestures and so on, i don't like to feel as though i am being worshiped. i don't want a submissive guy. to that end, the asshole is much more attractive compared to the worshiper.
2. i tend to run the other way when a complete stranger asks me for my number. maybe i'm kinda shy, maybe i'm kinda easily creeped out..dunno, but this is a risky move.
3. i love guys that get to know me first, we talk for hours, makes me laugh and slowly starts his advances. if we have things in common, like music, way of thinking on some issues and so on....!
4. the asshole...well, i've really only fallen for one of these...i think it started with us somewhat fighting at first and me calling out his bs, then finding we have things in common, then me being utterly puzzled at the way he views the world, me fascinated at this bizarre creature, and then finding that we connected at a much deeper level.
so as far as the asshole conundrum...mayhaps the above helps? don't know if other girls agree with me..
btw.....i know girls that treat guys like shit under the same rationale that guys come back for more...so seems like the asshole thing goes both ways...
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Fi wrote...
it all does depend on the girl but for me these are a couple of things i've noticed about myself:1. hate guys who only follow me around like a puppy dog and throw a ton of compliments. i think people might mistake these for the so called "nice guys" that have a rep for never getting the girl...well...for me the issue is i want equality in a relationship and do not want to feel superior to person i am with. so for this reason, while i love romantic gestures and so on, i don't like to feel as though i am being worshiped. i don't want a submissive guy. to that end, the asshole is much more attractive compared to the worshiper.
2. i tend to run the other way when a complete stranger asks me for my number. maybe i'm kinda shy, maybe i'm kinda easily creeped out..dunno, but this is a risky move.
3. i love guys that get to know me first, we talk for hours, makes me laugh and slowly starts his advances. if we have things in common, like music, way of thinking on some issues and so on....!
4. the asshole...well, i've really only fallen for one of these...i think it started with us somewhat fighting at first and me calling out his bs, then finding we have things in common, then me being utterly puzzled at the way he views the world, me fascinated at this bizarre creature, and then finding that we connected at a much deeper level.
so as far as the asshole conundrum...mayhaps the above helps? don't know if other girls agree with me..
btw.....i know girls that treat guys like shit under the same rationale that guys come back for more...so seems like the asshole thing goes both ways...
MARRY ME!!!
joking aside, I'm practically the guy on your dreams (wait.. didn't I say jocking aside?)
the thing is that I have all those stuff you just said... (I'm no one to judge myself for that anyway)
but I still cannot find a GF... Maybe it must be my horrible luck
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Lennart wrote...
Fi wrote...
it all does depend on the girl but for me these are a couple of things i've noticed about myself:1. hate guys who only follow me around like a puppy dog and throw a ton of compliments. i think people might mistake these for the so called "nice guys" that have a rep for never getting the girl...well...for me the issue is i want equality in a relationship and do not want to feel superior to person i am with. so for this reason, while i love romantic gestures and so on, i don't like to feel as though i am being worshiped. i don't want a submissive guy. to that end, the asshole is much more attractive compared to the worshiper.
2. i tend to run the other way when a complete stranger asks me for my number. maybe i'm kinda shy, maybe i'm kinda easily creeped out..dunno, but this is a risky move.
3. i love guys that get to know me first, we talk for hours, makes me laugh and slowly starts his advances. if we have things in common, like music, way of thinking on some issues and so on....!
4. the asshole...well, i've really only fallen for one of these...i think it started with us somewhat fighting at first and me calling out his bs, then finding we have things in common, then me being utterly puzzled at the way he views the world, me fascinated at this bizarre creature, and then finding that we connected at a much deeper level.
so as far as the asshole conundrum...mayhaps the above helps? don't know if other girls agree with me..
btw.....i know girls that treat guys like shit under the same rationale that guys come back for more...so seems like the asshole thing goes both ways...
MARRY ME!!!
joking aside, I'm practically the guy on your dreams (wait.. didn't I say jocking aside?)
the thing is that I have all those stuff you just said... (I'm no one to judge myself for that anyway)
but I still cannot find a GF... Maybe it must be my horrible luck
haha! well, what's your general approach when you see a girl you like or when you have a crush on a girl you know? also what do girls tell you when you get rejected?
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To speak generically, it really does depend on the girl in question. Some prefer shy guys, others prefer assertive guys- and some just like class clowns or, in some cases, complete weirdos.
As a member of the female persuasion myself, I look for a degree of 'assertiveness', so yes- I enjoy dickheads to a degree, but I know from past experience that there's no point staying if there isn't that wonderful, cliche 'soft side' underneath all the rude 'get me a sam'mich BITCH" stubbornness.
-terrible as it sounds, being attractive can mean a lot, but that's also pretty vague. I like guys who are taller than me, because I'm shallow like that- but I also like them to have facial/chest hair. Hair anywhere else is a bonus.
I don't give a damn if they're anorexic, fat, muscular or not, just make them be able to keep up with me if we walk from my house to the nearest chinese place. I'd prefer that they not have that sallow, unhealthy 'I've been down a well, rubbing lotion on my skin' look to them.
They also have to share a few of the same interests. Currently I'm enjoying my relationship because we both like anime (although, he only likes mecha/samurai anime- and I'm into pretty much everything except mecha/samurai) we both play the same kinds of games- though admittedly he's better, I'm not a hardcore girl gamer- and those things really help us bond and have things to do/talk about together.
To put it shortly (which I should've done in the first place) there's hope for you out there. Worst comes to worst, wait for the woman to hit 30. Apparently we're desperate for anything at that age.
As a member of the female persuasion myself, I look for a degree of 'assertiveness', so yes- I enjoy dickheads to a degree, but I know from past experience that there's no point staying if there isn't that wonderful, cliche 'soft side' underneath all the rude 'get me a sam'mich BITCH" stubbornness.
-terrible as it sounds, being attractive can mean a lot, but that's also pretty vague. I like guys who are taller than me, because I'm shallow like that- but I also like them to have facial/chest hair. Hair anywhere else is a bonus.
I don't give a damn if they're anorexic, fat, muscular or not, just make them be able to keep up with me if we walk from my house to the nearest chinese place. I'd prefer that they not have that sallow, unhealthy 'I've been down a well, rubbing lotion on my skin' look to them.
They also have to share a few of the same interests. Currently I'm enjoying my relationship because we both like anime (although, he only likes mecha/samurai anime- and I'm into pretty much everything except mecha/samurai) we both play the same kinds of games- though admittedly he's better, I'm not a hardcore girl gamer- and those things really help us bond and have things to do/talk about together.
To put it shortly (which I should've done in the first place) there's hope for you out there. Worst comes to worst, wait for the woman to hit 30. Apparently we're desperate for anything at that age.
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Fi wrote...
Spoiler:
so as far as the asshole conundrum...mayhaps the above helps? don't know if other girls agree with me..
btw.....i know girls that treat guys like shit under the same rationale that guys come back for more...so seems like the asshole thing goes both ways...
I think both guys and girls stick with someone who is maybe considered a jerk/bitch because they find a challenge in having a relationship with that person. The fact that they can't control them and that they are unpredictable makes you want to tame them to some degree.
I also think if that person ever stopped being a jerk then you would actually stop being attracted to them because the relationship will become stale. Since you "won" and "tamed" them, you don't really have anywhere else to go in that relationship.
