Gays vs Lesbians

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Thank you all for all the replies.

Looks like no one thinks 'Gays are ok but Lesbians are not' yet.

Anyway, I guess Fakku does have a greater number of male members, so there's generally more votes on Lesbians.

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And for me, though I claimed that I was fine with gays, I found that I am actually not that okay afterall. My impression of a friend changed quite majorly after finding out he is gay, and I sort of feel a little uncomfortable with him around. I know it is mean, but I am trying to change my thinking. I need more time to accept that fact I guess.

Isn't most of this common sense? kuniyomiyako, I think you're mixing thoughts of people with sexual urges.

If a guy is straight, he's not going to look at gay porn. That doesn't even need explaining. But what kind of porn a person looks at does not definitely reflect how that person feels about groups of people. If a guy doesn't watch gay porn, that doesn't mean he hates gay people, be they male or female. Of course, if a guy watches lesbian porn, that doesn't mean that he likes lesbians either. It is entirely possible to be sexually attracted to two chicks kissing but hate homosexuality on a fundamental level. And that doesn't have to be hypocritical because we cannot control what we are attracted to.

Personally, I watch lesbian porn, but I don't watch gay (two or more guys) porn, because I am a straight man (I don't like seeing only dudes). I am not prejudice against gay people, male or female. I may dislike individual homosexuals, but I may dislike individual people, regardless of sexual orientation, so I cannot say that I feel any differently towards homosexuals than heterosexuals.

Yes sir, you do make a point there. I think I wasn't being specific enough. Gay porn and Gays should be 2 different issues I guess.

I am more on the topic of Gays, as in them in the society, and how people feel about them. But I think opinions of lesbian/gay porn is suited for this topic too.

I am pretty confused about what I am thinking too honestly. From a social point of view, my mind is telling me I can accept a homosexual friend. However, my mind just naturally links homosexuality, to sex. That's where my imagination starts to make me get turned off, and I feel awkward, I guess.

So after reading your post, I thought about it.

I think my mind is telling me this :
I am ok with guys/girls liking each other, but I am not ok with them having sex.

But this 2 tend to get mixed together I guess.

That doesn't make much sense(?). You're okay with homos kissing but not doing eachother?

I understand where you're coming from, but think about this: Old people having sex is fucking nasty, right? But it happens. Your grandparents (if they are still alive or together) probably have sex. But you don't dislike them, do you? They don't make you sick, do they?

I also have a strong imagination, I guess you could say, and stuff like that pops into my head, too, sometimes. But you have to be able to put it out of your mind, otherwise you'll never be able to talk to anyone. If I saw my friends, who are other straight males, having sex, I'd probably throw up, even if the chick was smoking, because my friends aren't the best looking people in the world. (Not like I'm any better though; I also wouldn't watch myself having sex.) You just have to remember that almost everyone has sex, and almost no one is incredibly attractive. It's best not to think about anybody having sex, unless it's you and someone you find attractive.

Whatever rocks their boat is fine with me....if two them together is happy, Im happy, if not to the extreme of causing major birth problems..
Sexually, meh Im fine too if both of them are happy just dont tell me anything about it and im a happy guy too.

I accept what they do, but still i dislike it, but I damn well accept it.

EDIT: oh and sexually i meant gays only, if lesbians I do not dislike it nor it rocks my boat so i guess its fine for me anyhow

Refers to my other post in the yuri thread, but somehow in general people don't like to see two dicks together compared to having two holes together. I can't explain it, but that's what I've observed.

(I wasn't meaning to imply that I think all homosexuals are disturbed, or horrible people, or that the small sample I have met in person does say the least thing about them.)

Out of the homosexual people of either gender I have met in person, all had enormous issues with treating heterosexuals as their equals. Or with even only accepting that straight people exist and aren't "just homosexuals still in the closet". I've rarely ever met straight people who were as grossly intolerant.
Furthermore, all of them also had serious problems with following the most basic societal norms necessary for even only day-to-day interaction with their surroundings.
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This may very well be grounded in their situation within the context of society, but the fact remains.


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For example:

Out of the homosexual males I've met, one was a chronically unemployed, staunch neo nazi; one was an alcoholic opera singer; one was a pathological liar; one had a clinical anger management problem.

Out of the homosexual females I've met one was a middle manager at my workplace who was later arrested and banged up for stalking; one was a kleptomanic secretary who got the sack after four weeks; one was a junkie.

had a gay friend all throughout high school, never met anyone more hilarious and upbeat about life. Surprisingly, when you actually ARE gay in high school, like when it's obvious? People don't tend to care enough to make fun of you as ou would think they would. Seriously what are you gonna do? Make fun of them just because they don't like the opposite sex? Like you're gonna change them? Believe it or not this is one aspect where teenagers are beginningto mature...I am actually a bisexual...which to most ofmy guy friends just means I'm gay. But meh, at least ehy aren't afraid I'm gonna rape them up the ass at night.

Well, if someone is gay/lesbian there is probably little you can do to change that. I find them both acceptable (never met lesbians before but know a handful of gay couples).

I guess one of the weird subconscious fears is that gay people will come and rape you at night (this is not my opinion I just heard this from an acquaintance). Seriously though, just as a straight person does not want to have sex with everyone in the world, gay/lesbians probably don't either. Yet, societal expectations in their rigidity often highlight these individual differences to project "otherness" which as unfair as it sounds is the truth.

For me, rejecting gay/lesbians is a bit like excluding people such as vegetarians. It is a matter of personal choice.

I'm fine with homosexuals across the board. Granted one could say that only because I'm bisexual, but I've been open to the concept long before that.

Intriguing... So people either:
Are fine with Lesbians but not Gays
Don't like either
Or are fine with them all.


Man-on-man action is the barrier, it seems. That's where the scale tips... Odd, considering Anal sex is growing in popularity.


Myself? I don't mind anything. I don't expect people to judge or question my sexual preferences, why should I judge others'?

Eh. I don't mind Gays or Lesbians. They can do what they want for all i care. In fact... I don't care what they do. I don't support it, or reject it.

Edit: although, i voted that both are fine.

That was exactly what I was thinking as well.

Anal sex, blowjobs are accepted if it is guy on girl, but never so when it is guy on guy. What is the factor, that is turning people off, about gay sex?



Actually, yes.

Both are fine, My uncle was gay and a good friend of mine is gay, so no problems here.

Saw that video a few days ago and it has very good points.
IMO let people be them self's.

Edit : As for porn, nty to gay/yaoi porn. MOAR Pl0x to lesbian/yuri.

Touching another guy's dick &/or him touching your butthole.

In all honesty, I don't really care whether a woman is a lesbian or if a guy is gay. Personally it does not bother me, but I want to ask everybody who is against it;
Why does it bother you?
(I mean is it the kissing/sex/touching/love/etc.)

*I'm curious because my cousin is against all gays/lesbians and I asked him why and he could not give a straight answer without using the old "It's no what god wanted" blah blah. As a response I told him; Why do you care, are you going to hell because some guy you don't know is gay...

I don't really have a reason to not liking homos/lesbos. I just don't like it. I'm not saying I don't like the people who are gay, I just don't like the thought of gay loving/ touching/ sex. It disgusts me.

I don't really care about them as long as they just stay away from me and do not disturb me, and also as long as they are not harmful in any way.

The thing is I hate gays which pays dudes for BJ.