Is Masturbation Really a Bad Thing?

I'd rather have pre-teens masturbating than try things out on each other resulting in some accidental pregnancy or something.

Okay, I know that's far fetched, but it's a total necessity to the path to adulthood. I learned how to masturbate when I was 11. After further reading, mandatory sex-ed classes at school, I discovered what I was doing and I was convinced that I was a filthy, dirty person. This resulted in me never quite knowing where my third hole was. My first time with my boyfriend was the most awkward shit because I didn't know where it was supposed to go. I still don't know how to use tampons.

Masturbation is important, because it teaches you how to use your body (and in my case, where things are)
I don't have a source, but I do remember my mother telling me a story about a married, Chinese couple that didn't know what sex was and thought that simply sleeping in the same bed would result in pregnancy, and when it didn't, they consulted a doctor.

Masturbation has actually been linked to helping reduce risk of prostate cancer. So for us guys that can't be all that bad. I also know masturbation is a stress reliever and stress can cause many things from a simple neck ache or headache to heart disease and even affecting your immune system.

In Moderation YES! Too Much can kill you.....Heard one from my mom that a guy in Germany fapped too much as a result busted his blood vessels in his penis bleeding him to death....I dont know where my mom found it, probably google or somethin....

Strict religious house holds usually have a standard for children, cleanliness ETC. so they make crazy facts that are probably selfishly biased (such as saying that Islam is a religion for the devil and that god is the one true way) it gives them a sense of control and power. There usually blown out of proportion though.

Too much exercise has killed people, too.

Anything to an extreme is probably bad for you. That's why it's considered "extreme," lol.

From what i read on the internet, to FAP is to make pleasure, right? And basically, there's this hormonal thingy that comes out only when youre "HAPPY".

So, as a fact, mastubation is like exercising vigorously for a moment in your bed/bathroom. :P

I take the hormone's called ENDORPHINE, ???. I dunno. All i know is that it's basically what most of us do.

Although I am an advocate to masturbation and consider it a healthy habit, I do admit there's a line. Doing it in public is just asking for a flogging, and doing it more than two or three times a day can get worrying in some context. Keep it in the privacy of your home, or better yet your own room. Do it to relieve some stress, or to get rid of boredom. But unless you're getting paid for it, you should probably put a limit to the amount of times you perform it. That's just my opinion, though, so feel free to ignore me.

Your asking about masturbation in a masturbation website.
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Jokes aside...
I see sexual frustration as a cup being constantly filled up.
Masturbation empties some of the water before it overflows.
No masturbate = overflow = bad.

But people outside generally look down on masturbation (perhaps because it seems primitive?) so best not to let people know.

Yeah. Thanks for the additional info.

I fail to see how anyone on this site can oppose masturbation and still be considered coherent.

Savour what you can guys. Fapping is generally more boons than banes for men, and sadly since women have no prostrate, our form of sexual relief only leads to mere calorie burning and infection. FML

And idk, I think it's generally a thing more males are open about and not so females. Most of my guy friends admit they masturbate and when they do the girls around me just pull a really disgusted face (and by societal standards I have to play along too, LOL). I guess it's just a thing in Asian societies.

I want to ask if any other people from Asia experience the same thing?

Well simply put I find nothing bad about it at all(obviously).

In fact Ill go as far as disproving one argument -> "Your Killing potential Babies!" HAAHAHAHAhaahAHahaha Nope. during an Ejaculation millions of sperm are released, only one of them gets through, period. In fact many many many MANY guys, more often than you think, cum during their sleep, wasting even more.

So no, unless you are flooding your room with tissue paper and rubbing your self raw the entire argument about "Is it a bad thing" is bull.

It's perfectly natural and also healthy for the body.....

Why does God forbid us masturbating when it is HE who created the ways of it....

People take this matter way to serious and don't believe everything religion tells ya.... if it's natural then it's ok...


JACKERS LETS GET JACKIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I take a medication that makes me take about 1-2 hours to jack off... seriously. So in a way, for me, it can be a bad thing, because I can actually rub my junk raw!

But that's not what you're talking about... so... um... Yeah, I can't imagine how anyone on fakku would say it's a bad thing.

"90% of men masturbate, 70-80% of women masturbate, and the rest lie."
If everyone's doing it, I consider that a very normal, human, thing to do.
In fact, it's a very normal ANIMAL thing to do, the only ones opposed to it are those with their religious hierarchy.
If you don't like it, go eat some cornflakes or something, they are supposed to reduce your sexual urges :D Don't work for me though.

I'm not so sure bout' you guys but... I guess I can say this out loud...

Ya' see... Masturbation... It's a sexual-biological act... People have been doin' this kind of thing for thousands of years...

Ya' see here... If we wanna talk about sex this, sex that, love this, love that... Many factors are intertwined...

First, you've gotta consider the history of human society... Some of the most important aspects would be to focus on how the ancients did their 'spiritual stuff'... Heck, those guys and gals had it goin' on in ragin' orgies in temples and stuff... But, they did that cuz' they wanted to restore 'energy/mana' or something to the Gods and Goddesses.

Next, consider the nature of 'sexuality' itself... Besides the oh-so-obvious biological processes... The nature of sexuality also encompasses the individual psyche... Things like whether the individual perceives him/her as a 'sexual being' and so on and so forth... (Actually, I can tell WAAAYYY more but it's TOOO long cuz' it's got a lot to do with psychology and philosophy and stuff...)

Also, think about how men and women lived from WAAAYYY back then till' today... Do you still see guys who 'dominate' women? Yes, that's exactly it...

Besides the basic psychological aspects... Such as love, pleasure and all... The act of sex has always been something of a very 'topsy-turvy' kinda thing. Sex has always been somehow 'mixed/associated' with the male-female struggle as well as 'power', and a whole lotta 'hate' and 'loneliness' and 'hopelessness'... Yes, hopelessness... I think I finally figured out the one weird feeling we get when we see people initiating orgies and stuff that really turns people like us off... Since sex triggers powerful emotions and feelings and solid beliefs within us... It ain't a surprise that pretty morbid things can be a part of the human sexual experience...

'One' of the 'generally accepted' ideas is that when the Roman Empire faced its worst era... Which is the era of decadence... When the Romans partied here and there... Killin' each other in the Arena and non-stop booze parties and massive orgies... Not to mention the wars, the raping, the looting and the barbarians... The people in the empire wanted something different... A way outta this really morbid and freaky cycle of negative emotions and atmosphere... So they turned to an upstart religion that promised them 'HOPE' and 'CONTENTMENT'...

However, somehow one way or another... Later-day 'heroes' like St. Thomas Aquinas, St. Augustine (I hope I got these guys correct) started to write about stuff pertaining to the sexual act and calling it a 'sin', and 'EVIL'... Later on, the Church started to spew all sortsa nonsense about the relationship between men and women and so on that later on sex became a horrible thing... So, generally speaking, whenever you wanna know why those religious dudes think that sex is 'evil'... Just remember that the situations of their time back then was desperate and filled with chaos and 'true immorality'...

And so the sexual revolution came in the sixties and coupled with today's current air and version of hopelessness... We could agree to say that there IS a reason why all those conservatives are indeed, freaking out about society's sexual misconduct...

Phew, it seems I wrote a ton... Sorry, I get super excited when I get to express my thoughts like this... BTW... If you wanna know what I really think... I think that masturbation is a pretty 'humorous' thing... It actually amuses me... And also, it ain't really a bad thing... It's only 'bad/unhealthy/wrong' when it furthers our state of hopelessness, desperation and loneliness... Remember everyone, when you perform sex acts... Just make sure that you're not doing it because you have to or that you're afraid that you're gonna be lonely or that you're 'running away' with sex... That is one sure fire way to get you REALLY depressed...

I'm not going to go any further then the male side of the argument and state "If a male does not reach orgasm through sexual intercourse or manual stimulation then he will orgasm in his sleep"

I heard whenever you beat it you lose hair....that true?

The only possible way this might be true is if fluctuations in testosterone cause hair loss. There is a trend with high testosterone and baldness, but I don't know how this would correlate with that.

Unless you mean pubic hair, in which case, yes, you do lose a few strands...