Is Masturbation Really a Bad Thing?
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Lishy1 wrote...
NO. It is NOT a bad thing!You're asking this on Fakku. You're not going to get a different answer. It's like asking if video games are bad on IGN.
Also, not the Bible, nor' Quron, NOR' Torah ever mention masturbation. Read it and see. (But many pastors who don't believe their own religion would disagree.)
i have to agree that it isn't bad since medically it is good but religiously bad because of certain effects it would bring like, people who crave for more that would eventually lead to rape and other stuff.
The religion borders these stuff especially Muslims to prevent these things, even the slightest because I have to admit that guys can live without fapping for quite some time.
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YES. Masturbation is a horrible, horrible crime against nature and that's why I'm on this site.
Now stop bumping this thread and start discussing something useful instead.
Now stop bumping this thread and start discussing something useful instead.
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jmason
Curious and Wondering
Here's the lowdown - masturbation is not different from buying a hotdog in a bun because you just felt the urge to stuff your stomach. It's simply human desire, just in the form of sexual satisfaction.
The only reasons masturbation is called a bad thing are (1) bad reputation stemming from sexually-related crimes, (2) it being looked down upon certain religions and cultures, and (3) propaganda by certain public groups with ties to either religion or conservatism.
But just like any desire, it's also subject to moderation. Overdoing it, or overstepping what is considered social courtesy, civility or sanity is definitely bad.
The only reasons masturbation is called a bad thing are (1) bad reputation stemming from sexually-related crimes, (2) it being looked down upon certain religions and cultures, and (3) propaganda by certain public groups with ties to either religion or conservatism.
But just like any desire, it's also subject to moderation. Overdoing it, or overstepping what is considered social courtesy, civility or sanity is definitely bad.
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I have a high libido and with out a girl-friend, I tend to do it several times a day (which I've read is not good for you). The way I cope is to go out running and I'm less likely to do it so often. Though just as is too much is not good too little to not at all is also not healthy for you.
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eimii wrote...
Masturbation is just one of those religious hypocrisies that doesn't make sense in modern times. If I rub my clit in ecstasy, I'm doing the devil's work? If I do good deeds and 'praise the lord', will that offset my sins of masturbation and get me into heaven? I know that ejaculation and orgasms are GOOD for you. Based off personal experience, it relieves stress and tension and makes me HAPPY.
happy + you = good you
vs
unhappy because of no ejaculation + you = evil, mad, cranky you
Jesus would want you to be good :)
Ejaculation has been scientifically shown to ease stress and depression, relieve pain, boost cardio health, counter prostate cancer, heal wounds, and fight aging.
MSNBC
The only negative side to male masturbation would be erectile dysfunction and penile damage.
WebMD
Yikes I heard it cause premature cumming but not ED.
And the bible actually says that if you masterbaute then you need to do it outside your village and then clean yourself afterwords it's in the first 5 books of the bible but I'd have to read it again to know the exact place where it is.
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I too, was raised by a very conservative mother. Telling me, anything that has to do with sex or masturbation is wrong, sick, unclean. Wrong how? Sex is an essential part for the survival of our species. We have libidos in order to secure our survival, we have theese feelings because were human. Because were ALIVE. But that's all VERY back to basic, producing as many babies as possible isnt necessary in today society, since the progress of science and medicine have enabled us to become grossly overpopulated anyway. We want sex, if we can't get it, we relieve the need by masturbating. I say it again, as every animal there is, we crave sex because were alive. Sex is life. And thank god you can jack off in between.
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PumpJack McGee wrote...
Raised in an Irish Catholic family, I can tell you right now that it's bullshit.
Given the overpopulation- I would actually encourage people to jack it more and make babies less.
Or just start double bagging to make sure no l'il fetus rears its ugly mug.
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Masturbation is kind of like procrastination: It feels good in the beginning, but in the end, you realized you've just screwed yourself.
I don't see it as a bad thing. It's kind of like watching family sitcoms: they're both things you would do when you have nothing else better to do.
I don't see it as a bad thing. It's kind of like watching family sitcoms: they're both things you would do when you have nothing else better to do.
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-Bursts into song-
Every sperm is useful!
Every sperm is great!
If a sperm is wasted,
God gets quite irate!
Every sperm is wanted!
Every sperm is good!
Every sperm is needed,
in your neighborhood!~
But, no. Masturbation isn't bad. Although, let's be honest... it's more taboo for girls than it is for guys. It's kind of.. odd.. in my opinion. Sometimes I wonder if a lot of teen girls have sex because they don't actually realize they have the option of pleasuring themselves instead. When I was in highschool, I asked my classmate if she masturbated/knew what a female orgasm was. She seemed stunned that I'd even ask, and she proceeded to tell me that 'it was gross' and 'girls shouldn't do that, but it's okay if guys do.' lolwut? Y? D;
Every sperm is useful!
Every sperm is great!
If a sperm is wasted,
God gets quite irate!
Every sperm is wanted!
Every sperm is good!
Every sperm is needed,
in your neighborhood!~
But, no. Masturbation isn't bad. Although, let's be honest... it's more taboo for girls than it is for guys. It's kind of.. odd.. in my opinion. Sometimes I wonder if a lot of teen girls have sex because they don't actually realize they have the option of pleasuring themselves instead. When I was in highschool, I asked my classmate if she masturbated/knew what a female orgasm was. She seemed stunned that I'd even ask, and she proceeded to tell me that 'it was gross' and 'girls shouldn't do that, but it's okay if guys do.' lolwut? Y? D;
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Jaston wrote...
^Well...At least she's blunt...True that. And her avatar still kills my libido. SQUEEE! :D
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Na of course its not a bad thing, its just a way for religious leaders to shame harmless sexually activities. Break a man down into shaming something natural, then you got him wrapped around your little finger. And lets face it, thats pretty much a must-do thing when it comes to organized religion. That being said "Dont masturbate" is usually aimed at guys because people think women have little to none sexual feelings/frustration. That and the whole shit about how its 'unlady-like' to talk about sex or masturbation.
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Masturbation is viewed as "bad" because it isn't procreation (which is only a problem in some peoples' eyes), and it can lead to the spread of STD/STIs if people are really unsanitary about it.
Like almost everything else, it's only a problem if people are doing it wrong.
Like almost everything else, it's only a problem if people are doing it wrong.
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Can anyone define 'masturbation addiction' for me? I have been masturbating from the 5th grade and i usually masturbate as frequent as 4 or 5 time per week if i have the time. Am I an addict? I dont feel its affecting my life as I treat it as a daily routine.
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nightpeltz wrote...
Can anyone define 'masturbation addiction' for me? I have been masturbating from the 5th grade and i usually masturbate as frequent as 4 or 5 time per week if i have the time. Am I an addict? I dont feel its affecting my life as I treat it as a daily routine.Are you a food addict if you eat thrice a day?
Seriously, this discussion is getting silly.
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Salaryman Man wrote...
nightpeltz wrote...
Can anyone define 'masturbation addiction' for me? I have been masturbating from the 5th grade and i usually masturbate as frequent as 4 or 5 time per week if i have the time. Am I an addict? I dont feel its affecting my life as I treat it as a daily routine.Are you a food addict if you eat thrice a day?
Seriously, this discussion is getting silly.
you are the silly one, is eating the same as masturbating?
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Religion always finds something bad in human nature, for example a couple of centures ago it was considered evil if you used your left hand for writing, if you used any other position than missionary when a couple had sex. Masturbation is a natural thing especialy for men, don´t let religion tell you otherwise.
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nightpeltz wrote...
Salaryman Man wrote...
nightpeltz wrote...
Can anyone define 'masturbation addiction' for me? I have been masturbating from the 5th grade and i usually masturbate as frequent as 4 or 5 time per week if i have the time. Am I an addict? I dont feel its affecting my life as I treat it as a daily routine.Are you a food addict if you eat thrice a day?
Seriously, this discussion is getting silly.
you are the silly one, is eating the same as masturbating?
Technically you can survive without food for almost a month, so why do you eat so often? It's not the same thing but it's kinda the same argumentation. You could say it's an addiction to masturbate when you don't technically need to, but wouldn't that mean you're also addicted to food? Or to escalators? I mean, you don't need to use them when there are stairs, but you do it anyway.
And it's like you say, it doesn't affect your life in any way (except that you might be more relaxed and that you keep the sexual tension at a minimum, which is only good) so that's why I think this discussion is silly.
Also, masterbation is natural. And if you don't do it, the body will do it for you.