Love doesn't need a reason, but so does hatred?
Love doesn't need a reason, but so does hatred?
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We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst of us and some evil in the best of us. When we discover this, we are less prone to hate our enemies.
-Martin Luther King Jr.
-Martin Luther King Jr.
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From what I know and have experienced both love and hatred need a reason. Im going to start with hatred.
Lets say you see someone walking by you, you cant just hate the this person unless he has done something to you. Lets say the same person that walked by you now bumps into you and then instead of apologizing he accuses you of being at fault. You can hate that person because of his attitude.
Another example is when you see someone who has become extremely famous by not so morally acceptable ways, in this case you can hate the person in question for breaking what you consider morally right or you can be jealous of the fame of this person to the point that you express hatred towards this person for being so famous.
On the other hand love is an emotion much more complicated than hatred, love is perhaps one of the most bizarre emotions that a human being experiences.
The reason why you can fall in love with someone at first sight is a deeply psychological matter.
Most if not all people chose their lovers by how much they resemble their parents, for instance people look for someone that will care for them and love them to an extent that their parents did, please note that if the parents in question have not taken care of their child like they were supposed to the extend that the child in question grew to hate his own parents(which is highly unlikely) they will look for someone which is the complete opposite of their uncaring parents.
So why does love in first sight exist?
MY guess would be that upon seeing one person you relate him to someone that cared deeply for you and loved you beyond your imagination which leads you to express the feeling of love towards him/her.
All those thing about relating people and bla bla bla happen in your subconsciousness which is why you are not aware of them when they happen.
Lets say you see someone walking by you, you cant just hate the this person unless he has done something to you. Lets say the same person that walked by you now bumps into you and then instead of apologizing he accuses you of being at fault. You can hate that person because of his attitude.
Another example is when you see someone who has become extremely famous by not so morally acceptable ways, in this case you can hate the person in question for breaking what you consider morally right or you can be jealous of the fame of this person to the point that you express hatred towards this person for being so famous.
On the other hand love is an emotion much more complicated than hatred, love is perhaps one of the most bizarre emotions that a human being experiences.
The reason why you can fall in love with someone at first sight is a deeply psychological matter.
Most if not all people chose their lovers by how much they resemble their parents, for instance people look for someone that will care for them and love them to an extent that their parents did, please note that if the parents in question have not taken care of their child like they were supposed to the extend that the child in question grew to hate his own parents(which is highly unlikely) they will look for someone which is the complete opposite of their uncaring parents.
So why does love in first sight exist?
MY guess would be that upon seeing one person you relate him to someone that cared deeply for you and loved you beyond your imagination which leads you to express the feeling of love towards him/her.
All those thing about relating people and bla bla bla happen in your subconsciousness which is why you are not aware of them when they happen.
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I believe in action and reaction, begin and end, birth and death same way to everything so love and hate must have reason behind it some people know the reason while other doesn't really care (just like love at the first sight)
someone can't hate or love something without reason no matter how silly, serious, complex that reason is. sometime we don't know why we hate or love something or someone when other ask we usually said" I just hate / love it" the truth is we do not aware the reason behind it but other people who really close to us that's mean know our background and personality could see the reason (sounds weird but it's true)
I agree with Waddup about love at the first sight
someone can't hate or love something without reason no matter how silly, serious, complex that reason is. sometime we don't know why we hate or love something or someone when other ask we usually said" I just hate / love it" the truth is we do not aware the reason behind it but other people who really close to us that's mean know our background and personality could see the reason (sounds weird but it's true)
I agree with Waddup about love at the first sight
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the adequately amused
Feck, accidentally voted "Yes".
Anyway we think we don't need a reason to hate someone, but usually there is one even if it's trivial, usually because of something we hear or learn from other people and not from our own perspective.
Anyway we think we don't need a reason to hate someone, but usually there is one even if it's trivial, usually because of something we hear or learn from other people and not from our own perspective.
