gizgal Posts
thats-against-the-ruuruus wrote...
gizgal wrote...
Ouch! I have a close friend with MS... it's not fun, from what I see.
Honestly one of her biggest issues is exhaustion from pain.
That could be happening in your guy's case as well: he may want to get intimate with you but he could reallllly put a damper on it. It's hard to stay horny when you feel like crap :(
I know he's been really exhausted lately, so that may be why he didn't want to go any farther than just fingering me a little bit ago, even though I was offering to "help" him as well.
Ah, that's tough! MS is going to be difficult to work with, but not impossible: if you are there by his side, that's gonna be the best thing for him now.
It's great that you even still support him after his diagnosis: that really speaks well of you (to me, and to him I am sure!!).
Now might be the time to strengthen your non-physical connections as he adjusts to his condition. While you both clearly love each other from what I'm hearing, it sounds like at the moment his libido is overwhelmed by other senses and yours is not being serviced.
If you want to pleasure him, for now, I'd say stick to non-sexual things unless he really seems up for it.
If you want to receive pleasure, like artcellrox said, try some new things that require a little less on his end but work for you. :)
yurixhentai wrote...
Used to hate them, but with these ones I don't have to listen to cars driving past when I'm walking...inb4 you are unsuspectingly run over by a car after failing to hear it. @_@
artcellrox wrote...
I need some action too, giz!
Then play something more realistic?
Maplestory is low action... seriously, chibi avatars, that's not that intense lol.
thats-against-the-ruuruus wrote...
artcellrox wrote...
How's communication between you two? Really? Because I know for a fact all men have healthy sex drives, unless they have a condition or something.Seriously, try talking it out with him and ask him what's wrong, what he likes to see, what you can do to improve, and so on. Work on it from there.
Pretty good, although I do get kind of shy when it comes to talking about anything sexual, really.
But I think I may try to talk about that next time I go over to stay the night, part of me thinks it might be because of his MS, but I can't be too sure x:
Ouch! I have a close friend with MS... it's not fun, from what I see.
Honestly one of her biggest issues is exhaustion from pain.
That could be happening in your guy's case as well: he may want to get intimate with you but he could reallllly put a damper on it. It's hard to stay horny when you feel like crap :(
DirtyIchigo wrote...
penelopesays wrote...
ONE DUDE IS NOT YOUR ONLY CHANCE AT HAPPINESS.next
It's not about that one dude. It's who I'm comparing everyone else too. Because I honestly can't see myself with any guy who wouldn't do those things with me. Which is self explanatory, but I said it anyway -_-
Well, stay friends with the guy if you can. Clearly he's at least a good friend at his least.
Just keep the sex out of it from now on, and detach that from him in your mind, I suppose?
Pretty much anyone you meet in college knows of 4chan by now, at least in name.
Unless they're not into net culture.
Unless they're not into net culture.
artcellrox wrote...
Cormac wrote...
Maple story is a awful game with a even worse community and I can't understand why anyone would want to play it. What MMO would you recommend?
HELLO KITTY ONLINE IS WHERE IT'S AT YO~
Anesthetize wrote...
Maaakooo wrote...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4MnpzG5Sqc&feature=g-all&context=G2315d8cFAAAAAAAAHAAActually Kony 2012 is a look into the human condition, what matters as people and how we can help..with a sprinkle of they want our money.
I pledged and gave them 55 bucks cause my dad is a survivor of those harsh times in africa :P
you do know invisible children only gives like 30% of their donations to actual charity work? Most of it goes to the people making the films and their employees. GJ wasting your money and not donating to a credible charity that has saved millions of lives like unicef or the red cross.
Yeah, I was about to say.
Don't beleive us? Seriously, just read this. All cited data and evidence. They look pretty shady imo.
visiblechildren.tumblr.com
Randumb wrote...
I believe in choice, but I do not support abortion, not even in the circumstance of rape. I just don't think I have the right to tell a woman what not to do with her body....wait what?
You want choice, but no choice BESIDE having a kid in any pregnancy?
That's not choice, pal. Letting a woman do what she likes with her body includes the right to abort.
Good cause, but sounds like they go at it from a poor (and possibly corrupt) angle. And have for a while now...
http://visiblechildren.tumblr.com/
(they cite sources if you don't take their word for it)
Just a taste, more at the link. The whole project sounds realllly misguided.
http://visiblechildren.tumblr.com/
(they cite sources if you don't take their word for it)
"Invisible Children has been condemned time and time again. As a registered not-for-profit, its finances are public. Last year, the organization spent $8,676,614. Only 32% went to direct services (page 6), with much of the rest going to staff salaries, travel and transport, and film production. This is far from ideal, and Charity Navigator rates their accountability 2/4 stars because they haven’t had their finances externally audited. But it goes way deeper than that."
"Still, the bulk of Invisible Children’s spending isn’t on supporting African militias, but on awareness and filmmaking. Which can be great, except that Foreign Affairs has claimed that Invisible Children (among others) “manipulates facts for strategic purposes, exaggerating the scale of LRA abductions and murders and emphasizing the LRA’s use of innocent children as soldiers, and portraying Kony — a brutal man, to be sure — as uniquely awful, a Kurtz-like embodiment of evil.” He’s certainly evil, but exaggeration and manipulation to capture the public eye is unproductive, unprofessional and dishonest. "
"As Chris Blattman, a political scientist at Yale, writes on the topic of IC’s programming, “There’s also something inherently misleading, naive, maybe even dangerous, about the idea of rescuing children or saving of Africa. […] It hints uncomfortably of the White Man’s Burden. Worse, sometimes it does more than hint. The savior attitude is pervasive in advocacy, and it inevitably shapes programming. Usually misconceived programming.” "
"Still, the bulk of Invisible Children’s spending isn’t on supporting African militias, but on awareness and filmmaking. Which can be great, except that Foreign Affairs has claimed that Invisible Children (among others) “manipulates facts for strategic purposes, exaggerating the scale of LRA abductions and murders and emphasizing the LRA’s use of innocent children as soldiers, and portraying Kony — a brutal man, to be sure — as uniquely awful, a Kurtz-like embodiment of evil.” He’s certainly evil, but exaggeration and manipulation to capture the public eye is unproductive, unprofessional and dishonest. "
"As Chris Blattman, a political scientist at Yale, writes on the topic of IC’s programming, “There’s also something inherently misleading, naive, maybe even dangerous, about the idea of rescuing children or saving of Africa. […] It hints uncomfortably of the White Man’s Burden. Worse, sometimes it does more than hint. The savior attitude is pervasive in advocacy, and it inevitably shapes programming. Usually misconceived programming.” "
Just a taste, more at the link. The whole project sounds realllly misguided.
Gravity cat wrote...
gizgal wrote...
So generic twintails hair is now deemed stemming from Velvet Kiss?Lawl.
She's got the "I hate everything" expression as well.
She has a single pixel for a mouth. I'm honestly not seeing it.
artcellrox wrote...
GodofAethism wrote...
Subete o kui tsukusu kuro wrote...
Am I the only guy who gets sad and angry when you see a nice girl get cheated on. and she crying, upset and they break up. then the guy gots the nerve to ask her out again then she agrees. Makes me sad to see her go out with such an undeserving douchebag. It happened A few days ago to this girlfriend (girl that is a friend) in one of my classes. Well one, yes it is sad. The guy is a douche. But if the girl is stupid enough to date him again, then it's her fault.
Pretty much this. First time, you'll have my sympathy. After that, you're on your own.
I'd agree in some sense, but in cases of abuse or emotional battering, I'd certainly sympathize.
chichan wrote...
I'm sure I'll get a couple of interesting comments...to say the least but I want advice from someone other than friends or family for obvious reasons. I've been online dating a guy for 1.5years and a part of me still loves him but it seems that our relationship has gone stale and there's only so much you can do at a computer.... A couple of guys recently confessed to me, and I'm particularly attracted to one friend. We both seem to share a common interest in each other and lately it's been hard to resist. I'm worried that if I got to meet my boyfriend more in person then I wouldn't be looking at other guys...Should I break it off with my boyfriend or stay with him?
I have to say the sexual tension between my friend and I has been heating up recently >.<. Plus he's easy to talk to, funny, has cool talents, and isn't afraid to be himself around me. Whereas my boyfriend is pretty expressionless even though I'm sure he loves me in his own way.
Online exclusively?
Sigh... if so, that's not really dating. Yes, it can be intimate as all get-out, but in the end it lacks that element of reality. Unless you met irl or something?
Consider how likely it is that this boyfriend a) will ever want a "real" bf/gf relationship with you, b) is being as loyal to you as you are to he?, and c) that you want to keep such a relationship going if you're going to feel torn.
Is the guy you are "dating" currently your age, your area, or even someone you want to hold out for?
I don't like to judge love that's based in only words, but sometimes love confessed in text needs reinforcing in person.
...how old are you?
To be honest this sounds like middle school aged behavior to me.
That, or she's not really sure what she wants yet.
To be honest this sounds like middle school aged behavior to me.
That, or she's not really sure what she wants yet.