Matatabi Posts
Seems we'll be reiterating our opinions over and over again so I'll cut out a bunch of points.
Yes, there will be a few (heavy emphasis on the few) who will realize they were wrong, but I also believe that the majority of those who were opposed to the project will gain an even deeper mistrust of Muslims.
Therein lies the problem and the reason why I would have suggested using a bit of tact.
I respect you for overcoming your prejudice, but not everyone is as strong willed. As I have mentioned, and I have a feeling I'll be repeating myself of this fact again, people are generalizing creatures and the way they feel towards Muslims and 9/11 incident is quite understandable, yet irrational.
You mentioned that you don't believe the Imam to be insensitive. Here's the definition of insensitive:
The reason I keep stating that the Imam is being insensitive is because he either doesn't understand natural human behavior, or he just doesn't care. If he did, and he still wished to decrease prejudice of Muslim-Americans, he would have considered a new location. As I have replied to Chlor, by building the prayer center in its current planned location, it will only harden the hate for Muslims of those who are against the building of the prayer center.
I agree, but if you had a choice between what we're justifying by stopping the project, or worsen the detrimental feelings of the Americans by continuing the project, what would you choose?
Chlor wrote...
by getting all this attention just because of a building will probably have at least a few understand how stupid it is. And a few more when they realize that the building of the Center didn't change anything.Yes, there will be a few (heavy emphasis on the few) who will realize they were wrong, but I also believe that the majority of those who were opposed to the project will gain an even deeper mistrust of Muslims.
Therein lies the problem and the reason why I would have suggested using a bit of tact.
chiwa wrote...
Actions speak louder than words, and this center could speak volumes to the public who still remain prejudiced against Muslim-Americans. To me, the Imam's intent is very clear, and I don't perceive it to be malicious or insensitive in any way.I respect you for overcoming your prejudice, but not everyone is as strong willed. As I have mentioned, and I have a feeling I'll be repeating myself of this fact again, people are generalizing creatures and the way they feel towards Muslims and 9/11 incident is quite understandable, yet irrational.
You mentioned that you don't believe the Imam to be insensitive. Here's the definition of insensitive:
dictionary.com wrote...
Showing or feeling no concern for others' feelings.The reason I keep stating that the Imam is being insensitive is because he either doesn't understand natural human behavior, or he just doesn't care. If he did, and he still wished to decrease prejudice of Muslim-Americans, he would have considered a new location. As I have replied to Chlor, by building the prayer center in its current planned location, it will only harden the hate for Muslims of those who are against the building of the prayer center.
chiwa wrote...
9/11 was the result of gross cross-cultural misunderstanding and prejudice... So why intensify the very cause of our grief by denying the construction of this center? By impeding its construction, we're only justifying the actions taken by religious extremists and doing a disservice to those who were injured or killed by 9/11.I agree, but if you had a choice between what we're justifying by stopping the project, or worsen the detrimental feelings of the Americans by continuing the project, what would you choose?
Chlor wrote...
I can honestly say that I would fight harder for my cause if people were trying to get me to back down for reasons like this, childish perhaps but I think most people would act like this as well when the ones protesting have no legal backing, and nothing more than a personal reason to why they disprove of it. The general Muslim-community is already shunned upon, and protesting against something like this just feeds the prejudices people have.I agree with everything up to this point, but...
Chlor wrote...
I can honestly see no bad side with the Cultural Center. Except that the kids hanging around might befriend a Muslim, and we can't have that, can we?This is the way I'm interpreting the quoted statement (I may be over simplifying): "Americans hate Muslims. Americans don't want to mingle with Muslims. Therefore, Americans do not want to tolerate a Muslim Cultural Center/Mosque where mingling may occur. The controversy in NYC can be explained through the aforementioned reasoning."
The problem with this is there are mosques built all over the US. There might be minor issues here and there we may never hear about, but they are still allowed to build where ever they please. This disproves your theory that Americans trying to hinder the Muslims progress just because they hate Muslims. The Americans are angry because of another factor and I think you're having a problem of adding this factor into your equation when it comes to the issue.
You may say all lumping everyone in the Muslim faith together is wrong, but looking at the overall picture, people will view that they've all fallen from the same tree.
For example, in a professional workplace, if one employee screws up, in the eye of the customer the whole business has failed to provide the service they've promised.
Is it true? No. But is it human? Yes.
If you really wish to make a difference, we can continue with my analogy:
If a business wants to get back in good favors with the customer again, they often comply with the customer's irrational demands instead of plowing through with their own logic. This would only incite the customer further into thinking the company is worthless even if the corporation is in the right.
What I'm trying to get at is this: If the Imam was really making an effort to bridge the gap between the two factions, he would have found another place.
Again, I am not saying Americans are being rational, and what I said above is the action the Imam should have taken. I am just writing to let you know that he is unintentionally rubbing salt on a wound that hasn't been closed yet, which is also the missing factor in your equation.
Tegumi wrote...
Perhaps it was froth with consideration, just not practicality? I'd garner that the proposal was made before they realized how overly bigoted the American public is.I think it's just normal human behavior. Opinions.
shinji_ikari wrote...
but I'm pretty sure we got our revenge when we dry fucked their country for oil...You do realize the REASON for why the American public thinks the whole war happened is 2 blocks from where the mosque will be situated? You don't think that's going to set anyone off?
Yes, they have every right to build where ever they want, even on top of the grounds the twin towers stood. The law definitely says they are free to do so as long as they have the right to the properties, and I am not confused about this fact.
But the fact remains that it is definitely not an act froth with consideration. If any of you are educated in proper etiquette, there shouldn't be any confusion as to why the American people are angry.
Quite frankly, I don't care where they're situated and I don't think it was Rauf's intention to rub salt in America's wound. But if he was really aiming for a better relationship between the people, then I don't see why he would be so adamant in building in a location that has set people on a rampage. Even if unintentional, he has accidentally knocked some salt on America's wound.
Chlor wrote...
And try to make it so that every Muslim in the NYC goes there. This way more people will see how these assumed terrorists are not so bad, that most of them are good, honest and, hardworking people not so different from you and me.This will not improve relations between people of Islam and Americans. While I believe it was not Rauf's intention to piss off the American public, I also don't believe it was his intention for a better relationship between the Islam and US citizens. These two groups will hardly mingle with each other in their day-to-day lives for a change in relationship with increased contact. In fact, it might have the opposite effect now with this controversy. Some might not like the fact that there are people attending services in a building they were against.
Chlor wrote...
People shouldn't be hurt because of something like this, these Muslims had nothing, absolutely nothing to do with 9/11.Generalization isn't something new. Look all around the world (perhaps even in the middle east), and throughout history. Might be insightful.
chiwa wrote...
For those who doubt the Imam's intentions, I encourage you to read this Time article as a starting point to learning more: http://www.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,2008432,00.htmlThis article's bias has reached Fox News levels. Anyways, it didn't change my outlook of the Imam in the least. I still don't think he had either good or bad intentions.
Shinji Ex wrote...
False! do not reply to such mailOnly you can delete your account
What? That is totally legit bro. He needs to fill it out so his gmail doesn't get deleted.
Fi wrote...
hmmm...i guess i fail to understand your methods. if he posts something decent it is still banned, but why? how can he redeem himself if you don't give him a chance to do it? One is above logic when they're a mod.
spectre257 wrote...
Personally I believe nuclear power is the way forward to provide the bulk of the energy required to power (in my case) Australia and possibly the rest of the world.As right now nuclear power offers the most power for your money, it's relatively clean produces its own fuel (fast breeder reactors) and there are newer designs that reuse old waste.
I would actually like to see more nuclear power plants built. Other than the fact that they still haven't gotten over the issue of safely storing depleted uranium, I think it's a pretty good source of energy.
spectre257 wrote...
Wind is unreliableAt this moment, wind power is providing 2% of all energy worldwide. Not too bad for an "unreliable" source and without it being fully utilized.
spectre257 wrote...
tital is good but again you can't just put them everywhere they too have an impact on the marine environment.There have already been some breakthroughs:
Tidal fences will be used to keep fishes away, and auto shutdowns are planned to be installed for the safety of larger fish. They've also created a river type turbine that dramatically decreased the death toll of the marine animals.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tidal_power#Environmental_impact
Space Cowboy wrote...
A little on thorium reactors. Much better than Uranium reactors. Which is what America is all about, has been since Manhattan. Yay, nukes. Thorium was talked about even then, by the scientists working on the project, as a cleaner and more reliable source of energy. It was shuffled aside due to the preference to Uranium, though.Sounds pretty good. Makes me wonder why it hasn't been implemented. Hardly any cons vs. uranium.
Longevity wrote...
why won't you love me? WHY?!?1. Check this thread.
2. Think about it. (Important step, many people miss this one)
3. Find your answer.
Mr.Shaggnificent wrote...
Run-on sentances are acceptable though.I noticed people who try and enforce perfect grammar throughout the site always seem to think they have achieved perfect grammar themselves. Which is, in fact, not the case.
On topic:
It's doubtful that nuclear power will ever be a major source of energy in the US. Even with experts claiming it as a safe and clean energy source, the stigma of nuclear power plants after Chernobyl will never be erased.
Hydro power isn't restricted to dams. Another source of power that is being considered for the future is tidal power. The only major issues are availability of waves and high costs.
Link:
http://www.energy-consumers-edge.com/tidal_energy_use.html
Hydro power will be the biggest contributor of power, but I doubt it will be able to fill the gap left by fossil fuel energy on its own. So, as the OP mentioned, it will come down to other alternate energy farms working in concert to provide power.
As to when this will happen? Probably when we start running low on fossil fuel and it becomes extremely expensive. Meaning, probably within a decade or two.
Waar wrote...
but for your post to have any value I needed to be super successful at getting my way, as it stands now the only thing you can truly say is that I know how it feels for my complaints to fall on def ears. It's just not that logical a point.Again, taking my post too literally.
Waar wrote...
We all complain and it gets us no where. It really just looked like you wanted to call me out for complaining in the past as well.Yes, I wanted to bring to her attention that she was defending a complainer from complaints. No one is going to take it seriously or sympathize.
It would be like defending a con man from a bunch of other con men. No one is going to take the defender seriously.
Waar wrote...
I don't see how you can say I always get my way, 2 out of 3 of those things didn't even get the response I wanted(spoilers aren't mandatory everywhere/posts still count in M&G). I will admit I've got my fair share of changes made to Fakku but it's mostly because I do it properly, with sound debate rather than "MODABUSEHALP"; most of the time forming your argument properly before bringing something up is the best way to convince someone you're right.My post wasn't literal. I just wanted LostQuartet to know she was defending a complainer from complaints by saying complaints weren't going to get anyone anywhere (the defense being in the form of a complaint about complaints).
Ethil wrote...
What do you think the person in question are thinking; "I want a dick up my ass" or "It feels good to have your prostate stimulated".I think they're thinking they would like to have their prostate stimulated while consciously choosing to have a female simulate what males do to females wearing a male organ. This is the part that makes it gay. They're consciously choosing to play the role of a woman.
Ethil wrote...
Kalistean wrote...
The very fact that you're wanting to be fucked in the ass with a fake dick can speak a lot of what type of sexual orientation you have.No it dun, the g-spot is there for all men, gay or not.
I think Kal is trying to say that wanting a dick or other imitations of the MALE genitalia inside you is gay. Doesn't matter what gender is fucking you. When it comes down to it, you're getting fucked by a male sexual organ.
LostQuartet wrote...
What did he complain about? I'm curious now.https://www.fakku.net/viewtopic.php?t=24874
https://www.fakku.net/viewtopic.php?t=33909
https://www.fakku.net/viewtopic.php?t=29200
Probably more.
The only difference is, he uses tact and bigger walls of texts.