A plea from a desperate soul.
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Cruz
Dope Stone Lion
opanihuya wrote...
Waar wrote...
opanihuya wrote...
I too believe this thread is a bunch of theatrics to kill waar's and our time.Wanted to add: not a fan of being accused of lying about my intentions with this thread. Everyone shits themselves when I do whatever the fuck I want so when I try to do things differently you question the pureness of my intentions?
You believed I or someone else could pull off a miracle in this situation? As soon as you put that pm for everyone to see, the pureness of that action was already in question. Plus after you showed that you were only interested in reward it became clear as day that you weren't going to let her back, like seriously, reward for unbanning koko? You knew from the start there would be no reward, aside ridiculing her even more. Her only hope was through Jacob but he asked you two haters to make peace. And after she put a lousy pm asking you to leave your disagreement behind what did you do, asked her to fix her attitude and try again?
You presented it to ib, fully aware what it would cause. Nothing was pure here from the start man.
You can't have a "pure" debate or trial without presenting all the evidence or facts.
Or are you implying pure = balanced.
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cruz737 wrote...
You can't have a "pure" debate or trial without presenting all the evidence or facts.Or are you implying pure = balanced.
lol cruz I see you like having trials in ib. But even you are not so dense to know this stuff would be better for her if left between the three of them.
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devsonfire
3,000,000th Poster
opanihuya wrote...
cruz737 wrote...
You can't have a "pure" debate or trial without presenting all the evidence or facts.Or are you implying pure = balanced.
lol cruz I see you like having trials in ib. But even you are not so dense to know this stuff would be better for her if left between the three of them.
It's like saying a trial would be better if it was between the judge who's slightly leaning towards the defending, the opposing lawyer, and the defending lawyer. Yes, it would be better FOR HER. Trials don't work like that though.
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Cruz
Dope Stone Lion
opanihuya wrote...
cruz737 wrote...
You can't have a "pure" debate or trial without presenting all the evidence or facts.Or are you implying pure = balanced.
lol cruz I see you like having trials in ib. But even you are not so dense to know this stuff would be better for her if left between the three of them.
What I like or dislike is irrelevant to the conversation.
Also working out a private deal has already failed. I understand where you're coming from, but avoiding the question does you no favors.
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FinalBoss
#levelupyourgrind
I don't know Koko, but based on what I've read, she seems rather annoying. I'll ignore Jacob's first impressions and say keep her banned. The only reason this is up for debate is because she doesn't have a dick anyways.
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cruz737 wrote...
opanihuya wrote...
cruz737 wrote...
You can't have a "pure" debate or trial without presenting all the evidence or facts.Or are you implying pure = balanced.
lol cruz I see you like having trials in ib. But even you are not so dense to know this stuff would be better for her if left between the three of them.
What I like or dislike is irrelevant to the conversation.
Also working out a private deal has already failed. I understand where you're coming from, but avoiding the question does you no favors.
Was there a question? I meant pure in the sense waar meant it.
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Waar
FAKKU Moderator
opanihuya wrote...
You believed I or someone else could pull off a miracle in this situation? As soon as you put that pm for everyone to see, the pureness of that action was already in question. Plus after you showed that you were only interested in reward it became clear as day that you weren't going to let her back, like seriously, reward for unbanning koko? You knew from the start there would be no reward, aside ridiculing her even more. Her only hope was through Jacob but he asked you two haters to make peace. And after she put a lousy pm asking you to leave your disagreement behind what did you do, asked her to fix her attitude and try again?You presented it to ib, fully aware what it would cause. Nothing was pure here from the start man.
I was clear from the start that this wasn't a witch hunt, I defended those that stayed on topic and berated those that attacked them. How do her words/her pm reveal my intentions? The risk was the risk of her relapsing and attacking people vs the reward of whatever she provided the site, it had nothing to do with personal gain for myself... It feels like it's getting harder and harder to get you to understand, and I'm starting to wonder if it's a lack of basic understanding of the English language. I asked her to fix the attitude the last time she asked to be allowed back and you can probably guess how she responded, this was beyond me wagging my finger at her, I wanted solutions and I wanted the community to come up with them, because if I just unbanned her the majority would harass and poke at her until she snapped again, the only way to make the community accept her is to make them feel like they had some hand in this.
I knew she had haters, and I know they would respond but as I said a couple of times hate and opinion don't sway me when I'm trying to do my job. Wanted to add you yourself said
opanihuya wrote...
I kinda like that the staff allows us to debate their decisions and that jacob's opinion could be ignored (?!)so which was it, am I allowing users to debate one of my decisions or am I using this opportunity to bully people again. She does have friends and I hoped they would speak up. Don't speak of my intentions as if you know me. You really don't.
Edit; You sure do like to paint me as a villain even when I'm doing my job properly.
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Waar wrote...
if I just unbanned her the majority would harass and poke at her until she snapped again, the only way to make the community accept her is to make them feel like they had some hand in this.Woah sorry I wasn't so shrewd. Good thing you revealed it cuz i'm probably not the only one.
Waar wrote...
so which was it, am I allowing users to debate one of my decisions or am I using this opportunity to bully people againthey aren't mutually exclusive :)
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Waar
FAKKU Moderator
opanihuya wrote...
Woah sorry I wasn't so shrewd. Good thing you revealed it cuz i'm probably not the only one.Meh, when Jake asked me to take a look at it I did it seriously, which led me to ask myself how could it even be possible at this point. It's didn't work out because she herself wasn't able to let go of her pride but had the thread continued we might have been able to come to some understanding, it might not have convince those who truly hate her but those still on the fence had a chance.
opanihuya wrote...
they aren't mutually exclusive :)They are when it comes to my intentions, I can't have fun at others expenses and do my job properly. I would have to half ass the job if I wanted to turn this into some real fun for myself. I could have come down on you like a hammer for some of the stuff you said, and like everyone else I could have pushed you for your reasons but this is me being "professional".
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
Opan, you're quite the idiot.
You do realize that if left to just the three, Jacob would have left it up to Waar who would just say "Fuck her, she's still banned."
He has said as much that he was leaning towards that when he posted the thread.
He made the thread because he felt like there might be a chance that someone could make a convincing argument on her behalf to support her returning.
Not only did you fail that (your befuddlement just made a stronger case for against her coming back) but she herself came and destroyed all chances she could have had to make proper amends and return.
Waar is not being a bully because you're an incompetent fool and Koko is a selfish brat. Accept your shortcomings.
There are plenty of other ways that Waar acts like a bully.
You do realize that if left to just the three, Jacob would have left it up to Waar who would just say "Fuck her, she's still banned."
He has said as much that he was leaning towards that when he posted the thread.
He made the thread because he felt like there might be a chance that someone could make a convincing argument on her behalf to support her returning.
Not only did you fail that (your befuddlement just made a stronger case for against her coming back) but she herself came and destroyed all chances she could have had to make proper amends and return.
Waar is not being a bully because you're an incompetent fool and Koko is a selfish brat. Accept your shortcomings.
There are plenty of other ways that Waar acts like a bully.
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Waar
FAKKU Moderator
Takerial wrote...
There are plenty of other ways that Waar acts like a bully.You're soooo banned for that.
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
Waar wrote...
Takerial wrote...
There are plenty of other ways that Waar acts like a bully.You're soooo banned for that.
Waaah waaah, Waar is bullying me.
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This is very interesting. IMO well.. let her stay she did got the guts to talk to Mr.Jacob directly plus I believe that going to convention and still she's ban on the forum will be really awkward. If you feel that she's really a nuisance just ignore her. but what really bothers me is that I've heard she like sending guros to the people she hates. is that like sort of a threat? if yes. ban her. IMO she does make something to read worthwhile here.
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RealityBell wrote...
This is very interesting. IMO well.. let her stay she did got the guts to talk to jacob directly plus I believe that going to convention and still she's ban on the forum will be really awkward. If you feel that she's really a nuisance just ignore her. but what really bothers me is that I've heard she like sending guros to the people she hates. is that like sort of a threat? if yes. ban her. IMO she does make something to read worthwhile here.Read the thread, dummy...
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RealityBell wrote...
This is very interesting. IMO well.. let her stay she did got the guts to talk to jacob directly plus I believe that going to convention and still she's ban on the forum will be really awkward. If you feel that she's really a nuisance just ignore her. but what really bothers me is that I've heard she like sending guros to the people she hates. is that like sort of a threat? if yes. ban her. IMO she does make something to read worthwhile here.Talking to someone and pleading them to unban you doesn't require any guts at all. Even if I'm for unbanning Koko, you contradict yourself and your only real reason seems to be to point and stare at her, which we can do even without her being unbanned.
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BagMan wrote...
RealityBell wrote...
This is very interesting. IMO well.. let her stay she did got the guts to talk to jacob directly plus I believe that going to convention and still she's ban on the forum will be really awkward. If you feel that she's really a nuisance just ignore her. but what really bothers me is that I've heard she like sending guros to the people she hates. is that like sort of a threat? if yes. ban her. IMO she does make something to read worthwhile here.Talking to someone and pleading them to unban you doesn't require any guts at all. Even if I'm for unbanning Koko, you contradict yourself and your only real reason seems to be to point and stare at her, which we can do even without her being unbanned.
I contradict myself because I don't know her and I don't really see her post. but I don't want to be unfair here. I'll be honest I haven't really heard the whole story and why people wants to ban her but I believe It's fruitless to ban her account since you can make multiple accounts here. I know I'ts unfair to other people who was banned permanently but she did got the courage to reveal herself that she is really koko to jacob I think that's really what counts for me. and I feel that it's really sincere since jacob wouldn't have send a message here and consult the people here on this forum of what they feel about this. well if majority does wants this person to be ban so be it.
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devsonfire
3,000,000th Poster
RealityBell wrote...
BagMan wrote...
RealityBell wrote...
This is very interesting. IMO well.. let her stay she did got the guts to talk to jacob directly plus I believe that going to convention and still she's ban on the forum will be really awkward. If you feel that she's really a nuisance just ignore her. but what really bothers me is that I've heard she like sending guros to the people she hates. is that like sort of a threat? if yes. ban her. IMO she does make something to read worthwhile here.Talking to someone and pleading them to unban you doesn't require any guts at all. Even if I'm for unbanning Koko, you contradict yourself and your only real reason seems to be to point and stare at her, which we can do even without her being unbanned.
I contradict myself because I don't know her and I don't really see her post. but I don't want to be unfair here. I'll be honest I haven't really heard the whole story and why people wants to ban her but I believe It's fruitless to ban her account since you can make multiple accounts here. I know I'ts unfair to other people who was banned permanently but she did got the courage to reveal herself that she is really koko to jacob I think that's really what counts for me. and I feel that it's really sincere since jacob wouldn't have send a message here and consult the people here on this forum of what they feel about this. well if majority does wants this person to be ban so be it.
Read. The. Thread. Carefully. Before. You. Speak.
And what I mean is, read the thread, page by page, each posts, and then come back.