Do you want kids
Do you want kids?
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Haburi-Chan wrote...
Someday I will, of course, but right now I don't want to. I will admit that I'm not enough of a mother to take care of one, nor would I have the money to do so.Maybe in couple year, but not now.
Lol, you'd make a good mom though. The father, probably not so much... <.<;;
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FUCK NOOOOO, thats tens of thousands(if not atleast hundred thousand) of $$$$ i can be spending on hookers and better video games.
Aside the statement above, the main reason i don't want kids is, I'm simply following my mothers example, she didn't want me.
Aside the statement above, the main reason i don't want kids is, I'm simply following my mothers example, she didn't want me.
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NEXUS
Since 2010
Captain Badass wrote...
Its my DUTY AS A MAN to spread my Badass seed!!!Damn Right!!!
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It will obviously involve cumming inside a girl..So..hell yeah...in the future..inside my future wife..
Obviously, not right now..
Obviously, not right now..
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liger0 wrote...
I said yes and while we were getting all philosophical about the matter I shall let the men of Monty Python explain:Pretty much what they're saying is that children are a blessing. Even if they might make you wanna ring the life out of them at times, at the end of the day you're still gonna love your kids.
According to that clip, God must hate the living daylights out of Fakku...
I would like to put my two cents in about this, I do want to have kids. When I'm ready, of course. Despite all the horrors that may come from extending our race another generation, I still want to have children, and to be a good father. It's been the one solid "I want to be when I grow up" thing my whole life, and the only things that would stop me are infertility or the inability to properly care for a child.
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Not yet, think that am not ready yet, first i have to find the girl who understand me and be prepared to take the correct responsability of rising a children.
I have to prepare too, but yes maybe some day, why not.
I have to prepare too, but yes maybe some day, why not.
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peto453 wrote...
Not yet, think that am not ready yet, first i have to find the girl who understand me and be prepared to take the correct responsibility of rising a children.I have to prepare too, but yes maybe some day, why not.
Same here, i need to prepare first, has a good job, has living independently, and my parents lived happily --> i musn't let them down
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I voted no.
1) Pregnancy scares the hell out of me.
2) I have this weird fear of dropping infants when I hold them, which gives me the chills just as much as imagining myself tripping and breaking all my front teeth on the sidewalk. /shudder.
2) I'd be a terrible mother. I'd let my kid do whatever the hell he or she wants as long as he/she understands the consequences. I wouldn't have the heart to discipline my child either.
3) Thinking about raising a bad child for the world to deal with scares the hell out of me.
4) When I get my dream job, I doubt I'll have the income to raise a healthy, happy child.
5) I just want to have sex with my boyfriend or husband every day without wondering if my kid is going to walk in on us doing it.
1) Pregnancy scares the hell out of me.
2) I have this weird fear of dropping infants when I hold them, which gives me the chills just as much as imagining myself tripping and breaking all my front teeth on the sidewalk. /shudder.
2) I'd be a terrible mother. I'd let my kid do whatever the hell he or she wants as long as he/she understands the consequences. I wouldn't have the heart to discipline my child either.
3) Thinking about raising a bad child for the world to deal with scares the hell out of me.
4) When I get my dream job, I doubt I'll have the income to raise a healthy, happy child.
5) I just want to have sex with my boyfriend or husband every day without wondering if my kid is going to walk in on us doing it.
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It doesn't really matter how hard or whatever the reason why not to have Children.
Just believe on what you fell is good for you, if you went wrong then learn from it.
Anyway, I would love to have a son or daughter someday, Just imagine the Gift of God gave to us. I would really love to raise a child. They grow up and will say thanks dad, That's the only treasure no one can buy. So stop being pessimist guys, Be Optimistic...
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I'm not really forcing you guys but I'm just suggesting my own opinion. Well its up to you ^_^
Just believe on what you fell is good for you, if you went wrong then learn from it.
Anyway, I would love to have a son or daughter someday, Just imagine the Gift of God gave to us. I would really love to raise a child. They grow up and will say thanks dad, That's the only treasure no one can buy. So stop being pessimist guys, Be Optimistic...
Spoiler:
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I'm not really forcing you guys but I'm just suggesting my own opinion. Well its up to you ^_^
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gentle Jichan wrote...
Don't know why, but your answer gave me a warm feeling. Thought i'd reply to you.1) No need to be scared of natural. Your mother was brave enough to bring her happiness into life. And i guess she never regrets giving birth to such a loving and worrying person, seeing your other reasons for answering.
2)lol Just let your bf backstop you by lying under the kid and cheering you up. The sight will make you forget 'bout anything.
2) "I'd be a terrible mother. I'd let my kid do whatever the hell he or she wants as long as he/she understands the consequences." That is truly wounderful and very very far from terrible.
"I wouldn't have the heart to discipline my child either" Father needs a role too, you know ;)
3)Have you already decided to raise him bad? Becouse a raised child never becomes bad.
4)Child's health and happieness depends on Parent's health and happieness. It brings love and care to the family and means more than income. i am speaking from my childhood expirience.
5)Haha, that's what makes life so fun to live. Just take it that way.
Thank you so much, Jichan! I guess for bullet points 1-4, I am really thinking about what it would be like to be a single mother. I am a fun-loving person and sort of selfish, so I don't really always function well in a relationship. If something happened and it didn't work out between me and my significant other, I am always scared that I wouldn't have the power to raise a life on my own. You're right though. My mom was and is a very strong woman. My brothers and I were born into a loveless marriage but she said we are the joys of her adult life, even after the pains of divorce. Maybe having children wouldn't be so bad, especially with your outlook, but it definitely is still scary.
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I think seeing a human life grow and being able to effect it to some degree would be incredebly fascinating. I have noticed it while watching my little brothers grow and there truly isn't anything as fascinating as humans... I know I may sound cold and creepy, but that's the first thought that comes to my head and the most truthful one, I think. I know that I would love my child, I love my little brothers too, after all. But.. Humans are just so interesting, are they not?
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Kind of Important
A ray of Tsunlight.
Hell no. I'm horribly irresponsible, and I know it. Not to mention I hate children. Anyone under the age of about 13-14 annoys the hell out of me. Usually they stop being idiots around that age.
