Do you want kids

One day, i promised my Best friend i would name my first kid after him whether its a boy or a girl. his name works either way.
definitely not now though, maybe when im like 25 and have a steady career.
(Funny how i see this and i just found out my brother is having a kid in July!) lol.

No, I'm certainly not planning on it. I'm not particularly fond of children. I know that everyone says it is different when it is your own child(s), but if that were always the case then there wouldn't be deadbeat parents, right?

I don't think I would be a deadbeat dad, but I'd rather not find out the hard way.

I hate babies, children, and teenagers. I like toddlers. From the point that they're potty-trained to around 5(which is when they start being brats) I generally like kids. Other than that, I can't stand them. Babies aren't cute, they're creepy little fuckers. They screech and gurgle, puke and shit. I don't really see the appeal. I don't particularly like the idea of a parasite making me fat for 9 months either, then leeching my money for another 18 years. I do not want children in the slightest.

.... Eventually. Maybe when I have a steady career, my own (decent) place, and that whole jazz. However, at the moment, no. But eventually...

If I were to frankly state my thoughts, this question never crosses my mind since my hands are always full with producing satisfactory results(which is very high and also a lot of stress) to show to my parents to make them happy.....

After giving it some thought,I think my answer is yes......

Although I'm not sure whether I can be a good parent or not,I don't want to be as result crazy as my parents......

Guess I'll learn a few new things along the way as a parent.......

What the heck, i want to have kid..... I want how will they end up in society.

Life is a mysterious thing, why don't we discover the mystery ourself by having kid's
Rise them to become a fine otaku.

Right now? No. In the future....I don't really care either way. It would have it's ups and downs which seem to me to cancel out each other.

Where's the maybe option?

Some days when I see kids, I think it's so adorable and think about how I'd like to have children. Other days I think about myself, and how there's so much I want in life and none of it revolves around children.

Kids = Has GOV. written in the womb.

Its a stone tablet saying if you have kids your either

A. Trying to maintain a relationship

Or

B. Living off of child support till they reach 18 years of age.

I'd love to have them but so many problems surface when you get them and people say
"Its a lovely journey".


From what ive seen with children is just A. and B. but theres hope for it in the future maybe. Plus we need to keep the human race alive long enough to see Earth collapse into itself.

Bunch of factors that quickly come to mind make it clear for me that raising a kid is not an option.

Not lying to myself, I'd prefer a girl. And it is this favouritism that already makes me unfit for a parent in the first place, imagine what harm that could cause. I have bad genes in certain areas, I don't take any of this "preserving the species and bloodline" crap, my family and the whole of humanity can die for all I care, I just don't want my kid to be sick. I'd also like my kid to grow up in a "better" environment, raising a kid in my current country is completely unacceptable.

The mother figure - It goes without saying how much this affects the child, I couldn't stand depending on another person to not fuck this up.

I don't have the goal in mind to raise a kid in a perfect happy bubble safe from all harm - that's certainly not the case, but I'd like my kid to be as happy as possible and prevent unecessary hardships. But a lot of these things are out of my control, and I don't want to "gamble" on the life of my child.

Same but with an additional conditions, I will have kids depending whether or not I will meet and marry the woman I love and my career status. It's the worst feeling you'll ever get, if you love your kid, if you know that you won't be able to provide your kid with at least some pleasures in life; especially if that kid never asks for anything...

I'd want a kid one day
They're a challenge to life
It's like living on in another person who is fond of me
A person with lots of memories bout me
and through those memories I'll live on

And if I fail in a dream at least my child can dream of it one day
I'd be happy to see my child achieving his dreams

The happiness of parenting after all that "So much" trouble of raising them

Yes I would like to have several children in the future. I want to have a family I can raise and know that some of my traits will go into the next generation.


People can die for any reason. And people shouldn’t have children, let alone sex, if they can’t support having a child. As for what they’ll become when they get older, that’s what parents/guardians are around for. They have to teach what’s right and wrong to their children.


No one said that being a parent is a walk in the park. There’s bound to be some difficulties in the process, for instants, how was your life to the people who raised you. No one’s perfect.

With my current mindset, no I do not want a child. I'm too immature and irresponsible to have a child anytime soon. Plus, babysitting my brother over the years have made me put the whole 'zomgiwantbabies' idea on hold.

I think once I'm more secure in the future, emotionally and financially - yes, I'll probably want one. Now? No.

I want kids, at least a few of them. And I think I will adopt some as well.

When I get much older I would want kids but not right now!

Probably. With a gun :P

Anyway, I guess I want kids (eventually)
not now, not anytime soon.

I used to want kids...but having witnessed childbirth firsthand made me think about it again...

am I really going to put my partner through that kind of suffering? What a selfish wish...

and now I'm hesitating.

Everything I like and enjoy in life is incompatible with kids and wilts away upon contact with them.
Therefore, hellno.