I Love My Best Friend. Confess? Don't Confess?

Hello,

I've recently notice that I've had feelings towards my best friend. We've know eachother since highschool and now whenever I think about all this I can't decide if I should confess or not.

To me she's more than important, I'm 19 and sh'es been in my life for 7 years now. I don't want to risk destroying the most important relation in my life for the reason that I'm in love.

I've thought about it over and over, I even cried over this situation, and I only know that I truly love her and thats all there is to it.

So what do you guys think?

EDIT: Its not been 7 years that I love her. Just recently.

If she thought you were fuckable she would have let you know in subtle hints that weren't actually subtle.

You never gonna get out of the friend zone. Move on kid.

Thats incredebly mean *pushes report button*

Yes, that sort of bitchness is exactly the reason why she would not find you fuckable.

Girls like a man whose a man. Not one who waits 7 years while "in love" and doesn't do anything about it.

Girls might say they want a sensitive guy, but that doesn't mean they want a crybaby bitch.

this whole thing reminds me of my friend. exactly like my friends situation
anyway they got together and everyone was like 'saw it coming' they have mutual understanding that they'll still be friends if it doesnt workout but she has the HIV it complicates everything, so yeah
i say go for it. why watch some idiot take her away when you can be that idiot

1st. I havn't said I liked her for 7 years. Read more next time

2nd. Stop commenting if you've got nothing important else to do but trolking.

3rd. REPORTED

4th. I'm not replying to you anymore so don't bother with it

When you make a list you need to use : after the number, not a period.

I would say confess. But if you feel the slightest nerve that you can't then don't force yourself to confess. It takes time.

I would say confess, and do it soon, because anything could happen that can cause her to leave out of your life and you will always regret not saying anything.

EDIT: 7 years? Why the hell did you wait that long?

Spoken like a true man

Honestly, if the girl found you interesting at all, it would have been several years ago. And she would have dropped hints to you about it.

Girls are really good at being unsubtle. Where they act like they're being subtle, but they're not.

Either way, if she did find you fuckable at one point, she sure doesn't find you it anymore. You would know if she did and you wouldn't be posting about whether or not you should confess.

Don't date your best friend. I did that and now she no longer feels that way about me and it has been the toughest I have ever gone through. We dated for 2 years and it was fantastic at first but then she slowly fell out of love with me despite everything I tried to make her happy. My advice is date somebody you don't know so if things don't work out you won't lose your best friend (or in my case, my only friend),

Nah, it's kinda hard. I know how it feels, I fell in love with a friend that I knew for 8 years. I was't in love with (friend) for those 8 years, just recently that I have feelings for that friend. It's not something that you wait for, it's unexpected and something just sparks after all that years.

Another point I shouldn't have to bring up to your pussy ass. What is this shit about confessing? It's cute and expected in high school. But that time is over. People don't 'confess' at that age anymore unless they're stuck in high school and really creepy.

You do things like ask if they want to go out on dates and such. Even if she did have any interest in you after these seven years (she doesn't) it would all go out the window if you confessed that you've been in love with her. Cause that shit is creepy.

I dont think you should date your best friend because it would ruin the strong relationship that you both have had.

Chances are, even if you're a great guy, the Westermarck effect is cock-blocking you. This is why crushes on childhood friends tends to be unrequited.

Depending on what age you two were when you started to interact, it may have hit her a lot stronger than it hit you.

you know what, i think you need to watch this video sir

Get it over with and confess