I Love My Best Friend. Confess? Don't Confess?
Should I go forwarc with this and:
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
Lelouch24 wrote...
Takerial wrote...
And OP, if you feel you have to say something, don't fucking confess. Just ask her out. If you just ask her out, she can just decline, and it won't put that much strain on the friendship.And again, it's creepy to confess.
I don't agree with most of what she said, but I think she's dead right about this. It also has a decreased risk of losing your friendship
She? You think I'm female?
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Takerial wrote...
Lmfao @ the asshole route. that's almost as fast a way to end up alone as confessing. virgins giving romance advice is always good for a chuckle.
Asshole route works if you do it right. And you wouldn't want it to be a permenant thing.
Trust me, I managed to get one of my friends to do it after much prodding and it worked for him.
But OP is too much of a pussy to pull it off.
And OP, if you feel you have to say something, don't fucking confess. Just ask her out. If you just ask her out, she can just decline, and it won't put that much strain on the friendship.
And again, it's creepy to confess.
i think seven years is too long to pull the drastic change of asshole. it's more of an up front play. any longer than about six months and she will know you well enough, and may see through it as an act.
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
Mr.Shaggnificent wrote...
Takerial wrote...
Lmfao @ the asshole route. that's almost as fast a way to end up alone as confessing. virgins giving romance advice is always good for a chuckle.
Asshole route works if you do it right. And you wouldn't want it to be a permenant thing.
Trust me, I managed to get one of my friends to do it after much prodding and it worked for him.
But OP is too much of a pussy to pull it off.
And OP, if you feel you have to say something, don't fucking confess. Just ask her out. If you just ask her out, she can just decline, and it won't put that much strain on the friendship.
And again, it's creepy to confess.
i think seven years is too long to pull the drastic change of asshole. it's more of an up front play. any longer than about six months and she will know you well enough, and may see through it as an act.
I didn't say he could do it. I think he's too much of a pussy to pull it off.
I just said it'd be the only way to get the change done in that type of situation without spending years apart.
But you can't be a pussy about it.
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Takerial wrote...
She? You think I'm female?woops... I wasn't really thinking when I said that
I haven't been here that long, so I don't know who's female and who's not
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artcellrox
The Grey Knight :y
As mean as Takerial is, he's right. 7 years is too long, man. And don't go for confessions at this age. Either decide you want a chance with her and slowly romanticize her (STOP BEING A PUSSY AND BE MORE FORWARD!), or you just give up on her, which may not be as rewarding, but the negative consequences are far less painful.
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Takerial
Lovable Teddy Bear
So did you actually do anything or did you bitch out?
I bet the op bitched out since he didn't post anything about it.
Or he did and got rejected hard and is now crying and being emo.
Should we start taking bets on which?
I bet the op bitched out since he didn't post anything about it.
Or he did and got rejected hard and is now crying and being emo.
Should we start taking bets on which?
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Takerial wrote...
So did you actually do anything or did you bitch out?I bet the op bitched out since he didn't post anything about it.
Or he did and got rejected hard and is now crying and being emo.
Should we start taking bets on which?
I confesed, it didn't turn out as expected but we stayed friends...doesn't kill me.
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NightLife wrote...
I confesed, it didn't turn out as expected but we stayed friends...doesn't kill me.
Good job man. You got that shit over wit. Every guy has been in this kinda situation and I bet most of the time it ends up just like this. Don't be down for too long ... so many god damn fish in the sea! The best advice is to just forget about her and start liking other girls. Join clubs and shit and just meet new girls all da time. Also, forget bout "staying friends" wit her and just slowly drift apart from her. This doesn't mean ur a dick or anything ... just means that you're moving on and also the less ur spending time wit her the less u'll still think about her. She might be one of those girls that "feels bad" that ur hurt and try to spend more time wit u... just don't ... tell her fuck off (in a nice way).
