impregnating someone

For the very first time of my adult life Im so fuckin scared!
I just found out that I impregnate someone and its already been 2 months.
7 more months and Im gonna be a father. Im just 19, Im not ready to be a dad yet and I dont even love this girl! I was so drunk that time!

I wanna ran away. If my dad finds out ugh, I dont wanna think about it.

So, if your on a situation like this what would you do?

Edit: Everythings ok now!
Were officially a couple.

You man up, obviously.

Stand by the girl. And obviously stop getting wasted. I'm sure you don't want another School Days anime ending.

What would I do? Well, I don't drink so I'm never going to knock up a girl because I was too shit faced to remember it. If I do knock a girl up, I would stand by her. Take responsibility and don't be a wuss.

"You Made Your Bed, Now Lay in it" - so yeah I would man up, despite never having a happy life anymore (maybe).

As many have been pointing out, this is happening, you can't avoid it...you need to take responsability.

You just can't pass aside and dissappear. Sorry for the harsh truth, but you need to take your part in this. Running away is not an option.

Sure, it's hard to explain something like this to both parties (both families) but it's needed.
All else I can say is good luck.

It's called man up and take responsibility for your actions. If you run away you are a coward who only thinks about himself.

Its better to get it out in the open sooner rather than later. Sit down and talk to all involved and don't get pissed and walk out in the middle of it cause it won't help. Time to grow up mate.

So you got wasted and fucked up and now going to be a father. Make that word mean something and be there for the kid, even if you say you don't love the child's mother you always gotta do right for your kid.

Assuming you aren't trolling like the swag-ass troll-boy you were being in IB, you should man up and be there for her. Help her go through with this. Time to lose that act and be a real man.

Take responsibility on what you have done. Running away doesn't solve it - it creates more problems and therefore complicates your life more.

Tell your father first. Besides, I'm sure he'll understand since it's already been done and will not have anything to do to reverse it. It's better for you to be the one to tell him than for him knowing that from others.


That, sir, is called "man up".

Follow what the other people here said.

Also, in the future you might want to avoid getting drunk if it leads to you have what i assume was unprotected sex

You take responsibility for good or worse.

Take responsibility.
Grow up and drop this stupid "gangster" act you've got going on.
Become a good father for the sake of your wife and baby.

like the above people have mentioned be man enough to face the consequences of your stupidity.
I can give you a little credit for thinking that you are only 19 and hardly cannot give a decent life to a child.

taking responsibility or manning up doesn't have to mean that you shackle yourself to marriage. so what if the kid will be born a bastard it's hardly relevant nowadays.
I kinda feel sorry for the girl(a lot sorry for her actually). because she will be the one who will be stuck with a kid and her life will be in the backseat for a while.(and you don't even love her. dude! why'd you have unprotected sex with her?!?!)
first tell your dilemma to someone who can actually do something about it like your parents.
you could ponder on options like adoption.

DON'T FUCKING RUN AWAY!!!

have you already talked to her about your feeling or about the situation? be tactful and nice.(pregnant women get very emotional).If you can't be a husband at least be a friend after all you will be sharing half a DNA with her.

It's your own fault for being an idiot that had sex with someone you don't even love. This is simply retribution. Live with it and take responsibility, or spend the rest of your life suffering court charges.

Maybe talk to the girl and see how she wants to proceed? This isn't just about you, how do you think she feels, she's the one that has to carry the kid for the rest of her term.
That is part of manning up.
The other part is making sure you can provide for the kid in some form or fashion. I suggest checking out the want ads, and looking into higher education, or even the military.

Next time wrap it before you tap it.

I was in a situation like this with a little variation to your story.

First off your life will change and nothing is going to stop that.

Your parents have to know (better they know sooner rather then later).

Talk to the girl to see how see wants to continue.

If you do not want to be in a relationship with her then you don't have to be (and don't be with her just for the sake of the child), you can be support her and the child without being in a relationship and also sort out custody of the child.

Prepare for the child (eg. save money, get a good job or study for a good job, buy baby stuff for it, etc). Pretty much you have to start setting yourself and the child up for a good life.

Hope this helps and MAN UP.

Damn! I knew everyone will say the same thing. I cant believe this is happening to me.
Hope my body can hold up for my dad and her dads beating.

Man up and deal with the situation faggot. That's your problem and now find a way out.

You should've thought about that before you started poking people with your penis. Take responsibility for what you've done, no excuses.

Abortion is the only way out.

You don't love her, you're too young to be a father and she probably isn't ready either. Hurry because you can abort only during the first 3 months. Talk with her.