impregnating someone

"The age of consent in the Philippines is complex. Interpol lists the age of consent of Philippines as 18.[53] However, the adult involved in perpetrating the lewd act cannot be prosecuted due to limitations in the law. Sex with a child under 12 is considered rape, under Article 266-A."
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_Asia#Philippines

he's from the Philippines?

well that changes everything

at least the laws there can be lenient(more like not really upheld at all). there are laws but its only to the rich unfortunately.

alcohol and cigarette can be bought even by a five year old in a store in flipland. only in big stores with names (like malls or groceries where they really comply with the laws that they do not sell to minors).

Sounds like they arent that strict on underage sex so he probably wont go to prison, her father might kill him, but he wont go to prison.The OP can always get a job and dole out some cash every month (depends on the child support laws in their country) and he will be alright. her life on the other hand is fucked.

Ah, the wonders of the difference between a developing country and a developed one. Our laws are drastically different. You're still a dumbass, but lawfully it seems you'll actually get home free(well, depending on the definition of free. You'll possibly have to pay for the kid. But if you were here in the U.S, that'd be the least of your worries :D)

You better man up and take care of that kid. It's your own fault that you are in this situation, and saying that you were drunk is no excuse. It's not too late for an abortion yet, but such a procedure is up to the mother and in addition to this, it is very expensive. Given the situation, you don't have to love the girl (just get along decently enough), however if she is truly planning on keeping the child, don't just run away; take care of your kid. It's time to become a man or you'll just be a boy paying child support.

Edit: 16?! Man you are in some deep shit -___________-

that's the thing
the girl's life is pretty much screwed
you can't get an abortion in the Philippines
legally anyways, (unless you really have a lot of money)
you can only avail of it in dubious or much worse 'unhealthy' sources

Well that was stupid. And you're, without a doubt, totally screwed since you come from the same Homeland as I do (FYI, I'm still living here. Dota? :D)

Like the bunny above me said, Abortion isn't legally accepted in the Philippines since we are, as OP must know, totally into the whole "Family-comes-first" gig. You can get an abortion using two ways:

1. Illegally in the Philippines
2. Fly to some other country where Abortion is legal

The whole "Family comes first" comes with a lot of benefits, like no family member will be left behind, no matter how much you screw up, or when like OP's Dad did, he still accepted his son. BUT it still comes with a downside.

Since we are much more family-oriented than other countries, not to mention uptight Christians everywhere, that means that Abortion is still a no-go, since the child is a precious being ("It's a child, not a choice", I heard from a priest once).

But i'm sure OP will get through this. It's not the end of the world. After the child is born, there is always a choice to go back to school for either one of them (they can't go back to school simultaneously, since I'm sure the girl will get dropped from school due to the pregnancy)



At times like these that, sometimes, I feel like being a "Socially Awkward Penguin" (look it up) isn't so bad. Then I remember my only girlfriend is my right hand, then I just want to kill myself.

You're stupid and irresponsible.


Those are shit excuses. You need to take responsibility for what you've done and make some adult decisions. What you've done wasn't a mature decision, are you prepared?

P.S. https://www.fakku.net/doujinshi/kanojo-ga-koibito-wo-suki-ni-natta-riyuu-02-english/read#page=13

I already did it!
Before I say what happened, let me tell those who throw the blame at me what really happened.
In this case, lets call the girl that I impregnate as CHI.
My little bro brought me to a party of his friend Rosalie, who is actually that girl's best friend.
Her best friend is the one who set us up!
When I was drunk, Rosale brought me to a room and told me to wait for someone.
My vision is a bit blurry, but I can still remember the sounds, I heard someone in the shower.
After a few minutes, the door from the bathroom opens and I heard someone screamed but not so loud.
She sits on the bed and gave me a kiss.
As I pretended to be asleep, I couldnt hold back anymore.
I pulled her to bed and take off her towel.
She said something that translates as [Wait, I only want to kiss you. We cant do this]
I said [Its all your fault, I cant hold back anymore]
She said [At the very least, wear a condom]
I said [Sorry, I didnt brought any]
I continue to kiss her as I hold her hands.
At first she was resisting, but seconds later she finally give in.
I let go of her hand, we did it all the way.
So now you know that its not totally my fault.

So now, heres what happen when I meet her parents.
Chi already explain what happened before I meet them.
They say that the only way for them to forgive me is to marry their daughter when she becomes 18.
I am a little bit shocked but I need to agree on this, or I might go to jail.
I just agree and told them that I want to get to know her better.
So yesterday we had a date.
Shes actually a fun person to be with and she is so sweet.
When we are about to go home, she told me that the reason that they set me up is that she likes me.

I couldnt remember it before, but she told me that 4 years ago we went to the same highschool.
At that time, I was in 4th year and she was in 1st year.
I saw her crying cause she lost her wallet and she couldnt go home because she got no money to take the bus.
So I just gave her enough money to ride the bus.
After that, she told me since that day. She has been secretly following me around all day.
Thats kinda like creepy for me, but I am a bit happy cause I got a cute stalker.

As we go home, she said that [Do you really plann on marrying me? You dont have to push yourself if you dont wanna, you dont even know me that much]
She looks a bit sad, so I cheered her up and said [well, we still got 2 years. Anything could happen]
And I saw her smiling while crying.

At first, I thought this was a nightmare.
But this might be a dream come true for me.

How is that not totally your fault? You pressured a young girl to have sex with you even though she said multiple times that she wasn't ready/was uncomfortable. You are 19 years old! You know better then this. At the very least, you knew to wear a fucking condom. The fact that you just ignored this girl - who was RESISTING you - and got her pregnant... If it didn't sound like rape before, it does an awful lot now. I hope you get what's coming to you. You're scum. Even more so for making excuses!

I can't believe I stood up for you and said that it was both of you faults. You may have been intoxicated, but you knew what you were doing and continued to pressure a girl who was not ready to continue, which is rape. Overall, eat shit.

"I cant hold back anymore" then pull a underage girl on the bed and proceed to have sex with her even after she resisted....sounds like rape to me...or at the very least profound weakness and stupidity, yea she was stupid too but you as the adult should have stopped the situation. you can rationalize and justify it in your mind all you want but aint no getting around the fact that you did wrong.

And like Say What said; Eat SHIT. Lots of it, you continue to make excuses after violating a young girl, violating the law. You shouldn't even be posting right now, or on FAKKU at all. You need to devote every waking hour of every day to this girl, whose innocence you stole. And maybe, JUST MAYBE that'll be repentance. Just maybe.

Hey, if it wasnt for her best friend setting us up, we wouldnt be on this situation.
Also, I mentioned that when I let go of her hand she did not resist.
It also means that she wanted it, so its not rape! Its mutual feelings!

I can't believe you are still trying to blame someone else for your mistake. You were responsible for your actions and you continued even when she "resisted". Eat shit and own up to your mistake and stop trying to blame others when it was your fault kid.

She didn't give you consent, before, when you forced your way on her, she saw your bigger presence and psychologically she felt powerless. That's why we call it rape to begin with, wherein sex was used to overpower an unconsenting partner.

I mean, you're on freaking Fakku, read a forced doujin or two? The woman actually resists pretty strongly, but when the trauma reaches it's breaking point, she has no choice but to mentally shut down and 'accept' her situation. I mean, seriously what was the alternative if she actually tried to resist(especially in the case of your intoxication). You already put your hands on her.

There's no way in hell she'd resist you, and logically so. The pregnancy is actually, *potentially*, the lesser of two evils. Had she resisted, physical violence from you isn't out of the question.

Stop shifting the blame thats what children do, if you couldnt man up that night and resist a young girl, at least man up now and own up to your mistake. its not her friends fault, its not her fault, its not the towels fault for falling to the ground its your fault you were the adult and in the situation.

alright already! Its my fault, but dont throw all the blame on me!
Also, when I let go of her hand, I was planning to stop.
But instead she hugs me, a sign that shes ready to go all the way.
She agree cause she has feelings for me, you didnt read the whole story have you?

like i said its about 80-20 blame ratio, the fact still remains you took advantage of a underage girl when at any given time you could have manned up and pushed that little girl off of you, you knew how old she was even tho you were drunk you were completely aware of what you were doing...


Take this L and live and learn.

Since you already called him out on the rape thing, I'm just gonna post the Anti-Rape Law of the country here, just for the hell of it. >:3



And you! Don't be bringing body language into it. Where I'm studying, "not resisting" or "physically giving in" is not true consent. If she's not sober, clear-of-mind, AND verbally giving consent, it's non-consensual, for all anyone cares. And don't go placing blame on Rosalie; she just set you up, but you, even while slightly intoxicated, could have not given into temptation. This could all have been avoided had you just not gotten so horny, you had to do the first girl that came on you.

You dun goofed, boy.