impregnating someone

Not sure if trolling or just fucking stupid.

If she won't abort it then I suggest you man up and take responsibility.

Well you have your reasons but for what it's worth if it's yours and she wants to keep it then you need to take responsibility, if your both worried about not being good parents instead of aborting it, have the baby then put it up for adoption, that way if you don't believe your ready for it, someone else with the mental and financial means can take care of it. It a LOT more of a respected move then just running away since the past is the past, but it will follow you no matter how fast and hard you run

I'm personally not for abortion. If you two really don't think you're ready or even capable of getting ready for a baby within the allotted time, I'd suggest adoption.

Granted, opting for adoption is always a great emotional hurdle for young mothers, as in one fell swoop they see their baby's face, feel the twinge of maternal love while simultaneously handing the infant off to a stranger.. To my understanding, abortion is just as difficult, but in different ways.

It's her body and her baby and you'll have to respect her wishes, but I don't think anyone feels that abortion should be the very first go-to 'resolution'.

Please also note that while trying to find adoptive parents can be challenging, confusing, and even heartbreaking.. You'd be giving a child to people who are desperate for a baby to love. It's a question you both have to ask yourselves 'Is this our baby? Or is there a couple/mother/father somewhere that could give this child everything we can't?'

Whether you two are ready or not, you are both now responsible for a budding life. I suggest your first actions taken as parents be one you give great thought to.

Let the baby grew up without a dad??? That happens all the time... but every time i see my father i kick him in the face!!!! My mom raise me and my brother by herself...and he regrets not being there. If you are leaving make you sure leave like a man... join the army or something and support them from there.

^Quite the hivemind we have in this section, huh?

Well even though ultimately you get very little say(and rights) in this matter that can change your life, you should still talk to the girl.(more, a lot more)

As others have said, Man up. This is half of the reason why you use protection. Either way, it is really your own fault.

As others said, Man up.
Else, talk to her. See if she's ready. If she's not, discuss adoption or abortion. else, take responsibility. If it's just some random chick you met in town, probably best to avoid situations like this in future. talk to the girl, and you'll sort something out.

As my friends and all of you suggested, I told it to my dad.
And as expected, he punched me.
But after a few hours, he told me that he'll help me get through this.
I'll talk to the girl and her family tomorrow.
Hope that they wont sue me, cause shes underage (16).

...you're in pretty much deep shit, no offense. Didn't pretty much catch the fact she is also underage.

Man, you did something incredibly stupid, let me tell you.

Told you that would happen. Besides, "blood is thicker than water".

My advice on meeting the girl's parents: just don't do anything stupid. Be nice to then even though they throw shit at you. It's their natural reaction. Just hope that they are pro-life so you can tell them that you will hold responsible for the baby and if you want, you can pre-arrange a wedding after she turns 18.

see! now at least you have a support. now you've survived the first half of the beating. brace yourself for the coming ones.

now about the girl...

SHE'S 16?!?!

YOU IDIOT!(SLIMEBALL!, SCUMBAG!) way to go! really ruining a girl's life

you're in deeper shit that I'd thought you to be

In what state(or country) are you?(or more importantly her)...
nah! highly irrelevant even if you tell us. better yet
learn the laws of your state she maybe is underage but it depends on the laws of the state on how much power or decision the girl has. time to read some law books for you... there is also a law where you can plead if there is not much a difference in age, two or three years I think(again it depends on what state sorry I forgot what term or legal jargon is that, I'm no lawyer but some of my relatives are).

16!?!? that is not wavy, better hire a good lawyer yo ass is gonna need it.

Given your other posts later on, a question: Was the girl as intoxicated as you are? If so, you're in more shit than you can imagine:Forget getting sued, that would actually constitute as rape, whereby the girl was no longer in a position to make proper consentual judgment. In addition to that, her being underage pretty much would seal your fate. This, of course is dependent upon the state you live in.

You better hope it's a liberal state like my own Pennylvania. But most states have it at around 17-18.

Even if you manage to avoid the significant law reprecussions(Highly doubtful), this girl is a mere sophomore probably in high school, literally no job experience ....

I'm a pro-lifer, but I'd support an abortion in this case, hell, I highly recommend it, followed by counseling. There's no reason for this young girl to go through any more trauma then you've already put her through. And the idea of parting away with a life that you gave birth to, at such a fragile, young and naieve age is potentially very devastating.

Whatever she decides, there's no wrong choice in my mind for her. You, on the other hand, I utterly despise men like you from the bottom of my heart. It's men like you, that makes the male species look like monsters. It's men like you, that's the reason for having to make a life or death decision in the first place.

I may not like op, but It takes two to tango and you can't place full blame on him if they both were idiots.

lmao she was 16 he was 19, not giving her a complete pass because dumb is dumb, but at 19 his grown ass should have known better,she was in what 9th or 10th grade?! c'mon son!! she probably still takes the school bus to school

Ok, but they both knew of the consequences of their actions and still proceeded with them. They both are idiots who decided to do something stupid while they were intoxicated.

Lawfully and ethically, it doesn't matter that they were both idiots. Hell, the point being you expect a minor to be ignorant when it comes to sexual matters. That's why there's an Age of Consent to begin with.

No matter what way you look at it, he wasn't only a dumbass, he was scum. He took advantage of the kid, impregnated her and from the looks of his opening post didn't want to take responsibility.

Odds are good at the very least, we'll see this dude on the Jerry Springer show lol.

wait what!?!? she was drunk? who was providing underage girls alcohol? man if her fam decide to press charges...i wasnt on board with running before but he and whoever was throwin whatever party yall was at better tighten your laces lol, but yea both of them were at fault but the ratio where i sit is still about 80-20, if i go to a party where they are serving little girls alcohol thats my first cue to kick rocks.

He's from the Philippines so I doubt he will be on Jerry Springer.





I'm assuming she was also drunk since he stated he was drunk in the op when he had sex with her.

what are the consent and alcohol laws in the Phillipines? he might be alright