mister advicer is here!!!tell me your love problem!!!
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So, there's this girl that i've liked for the last 4 years who may have like dme at some point, but because of my blunt headedness I missed my chance and now we're just friends.
I can't seem to get over this girl. I've tried dating other people/having sex with other people and that always ends in ruin (2x 1.5 year relations that i didnt put my heart into). So now I've decided to give up dating, since I cant get past this girl and I don't want to hurt anyone else.
Opinion?
I can't seem to get over this girl. I've tried dating other people/having sex with other people and that always ends in ruin (2x 1.5 year relations that i didnt put my heart into). So now I've decided to give up dating, since I cant get past this girl and I don't want to hurt anyone else.
Opinion?
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Try talking to her more. Become really good friend with her. If she has any thought of going out with you, you should notice the subtle signs. If you can't tell, just wait it out and see how long the friendship thing goes.
You can also be daring and ask her out to a coffee place on a weekend or something. Don't be like "go out with me!" since that never works xD.
You can also be daring and ask her out to a coffee place on a weekend or something. Don't be like "go out with me!" since that never works xD.
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If you're really serious about getting into a relationship with her, tell her. I know I've said long-distance "relationships" don't work, however, it is totally possible to have a long-distance crush. The big thing you need to do is confess, physically. Do not confess over the phone, internet, or mail. She will either misinterpret your confession as a joke, or it will show how little committed you are to her. If you're going to tell her your emotions, you need to fly down there and tell her, even if it was just for one night. If you're expecting an intimate moment with each other, make sure your stay at her place is only one night, you must leave for Alaska by the next day.
Most importantly, don't keep in contact too much. If your relationship develops over the long-distance then, sooner or later, she'll begin to regret falling for you, once that happens, your chances are gone. This whole series of events is for the one purpose of when you two meet together again. Make sure the 2nd meeting is a permanent,"I'm staying here with you from now on" meeting. Don't EVER come back for a "visit".
Most importantly, don't keep in contact too much. If your relationship develops over the long-distance then, sooner or later, she'll begin to regret falling for you, once that happens, your chances are gone. This whole series of events is for the one purpose of when you two meet together again. Make sure the 2nd meeting is a permanent,"I'm staying here with you from now on" meeting. Don't EVER come back for a "visit".
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i hav a kinda long distance problem thing..
i like this girl.. i think this girl likes me
she does many things that i dont really like
maybe im juz being paranoid..
but plan to offically ask her out when i see her in like 2 years
so it must juz be me right..
i like this girl.. i think this girl likes me
she does many things that i dont really like
maybe im juz being paranoid..
but plan to offically ask her out when i see her in like 2 years
so it must juz be me right..
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A few months ago some new students came to my school. There were also an interesting girl among them which I thought could be an interesting girl.
So I started talking to her. The first week was great and I was on very good terms with her. Then in the second week on monday after school I went to her and said her that I like to be her friend or something like that. I never wanted a relationship with her or to be her boyfriend. I just wanted to be on friendly terms with her. The next day she ignored me and that held for the next two weeks. I was shattered. I wasn't even brave enough to ask why. On Sunday of the second week, she told my per a chat messenger that she was sorry about that. She was perplexed when I told her that and thought I wanted to confess my love. I was so glad to hear that but then a few days later she ignored me again.
That hurt me and I thought long about what could have happened and I blamed myself for everything.
I asked some friends for advice. One of them suggest me to forget her. I couldn't accept that awhile.
But time passed and the more time goes by the more I realise that she never really cared about me. Actually we haven't a lot in common except that she likes anime, manga and japanese culture. But what does that count in this context?
After all she isn't that interesting to me anymore like she used to be.
Actually I can laugh about it somehow.
Well, I guess I'm getting over it.
There're more interesting people out there.
And I still got my family and friends.
& you, the FAKKU Community. :)
Just wanted to tell. I feel better now I guess.
Write something if you want.
So I started talking to her. The first week was great and I was on very good terms with her. Then in the second week on monday after school I went to her and said her that I like to be her friend or something like that. I never wanted a relationship with her or to be her boyfriend. I just wanted to be on friendly terms with her. The next day she ignored me and that held for the next two weeks. I was shattered. I wasn't even brave enough to ask why. On Sunday of the second week, she told my per a chat messenger that she was sorry about that. She was perplexed when I told her that and thought I wanted to confess my love. I was so glad to hear that but then a few days later she ignored me again.
That hurt me and I thought long about what could have happened and I blamed myself for everything.
I asked some friends for advice. One of them suggest me to forget her. I couldn't accept that awhile.
But time passed and the more time goes by the more I realise that she never really cared about me. Actually we haven't a lot in common except that she likes anime, manga and japanese culture. But what does that count in this context?
After all she isn't that interesting to me anymore like she used to be.
Actually I can laugh about it somehow.
Well, I guess I'm getting over it.
There're more interesting people out there.
And I still got my family and friends.
& you, the FAKKU Community. :)
Just wanted to tell. I feel better now I guess.
Write something if you want.
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gunmaster999 wrote...
i hav a kinda long distance problem thing..i like this girl.. i think this girl likes me
she does many things that i dont really like
maybe im juz being paranoid..
but plan to offically ask her out when i see her in like 2 years
so it must juz be me right..
long distance problem? my first time is in hong kong, before i came back we had one last night together and after sex she asked me would i forget her? she cried and bit my shoulder and told me to remember her.
got a call for her everyday, for a week. now im number two
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Ok, got a problem about that, well before I've really like this girl in school, simple, sweet and inteligent. I've been her friend but unfortunately it never moved from there, so after almost two years with her I tried to show signs that I wanted more to be just a friend, nut when I made that well I'm stick being a friend. After that (well not right away anyway), we didn't have much contact in school. I know I might have made something wrong but the thing is after that incident, it seems that my interest in meeting other girls just vanished or something, in short currently loveless. It's kinda annoying seeing people around you having their soulmates with them while I'm thinking if I'll ever find mine. Well hope you can help guys tnx! :D
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blind_assassin wrote...
I like how the guy disappeared after making this topic.Theres some good advice here regardless. Lol
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rengo wrote...
blind_assassin wrote...
I like how the guy disappeared after making this topic.LOL :lol:
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crimson875 wrote...
wheres the thread creator?......who cares let's just go on without the creator....
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My turn ... i'm with this girl for about 5 months , we kissed ,hang out,no sex(sadly), and on a simple day she started to not go out with me ... a few more days has passed i got to talk to her and she was like "i don't know what to do...i'm so immature...let's just be friends"(we first kissed on new year's eve ,we gone out every week,i said i loved her on valentines day)and she's been avoiding me for 2 months ,now our birthdays are closing in and she said that she will make no plans on the day of my bithday and i was thinking that this is my last chance to get a clear answer from her or to make her sure of my feelings for her...long story short , can anyone give me advice on what to do , i'd much appreciate it ^.^
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kman1256 wrote...
Spoiler:
Ask her love to be your birthday gift ?
probably before confessing to her .. you should ask why she avoid you .. reason ?
if her only reason is "immature" ..
be optimistic .. see her eyes when talking .. man up and tell that you love her ..
it's not easy to get it work .. but not impossible as well
anyway, good luck