mister advicer is here!!!tell me your love problem!!!
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the part with "ask for love for bithday gift" is just perfect ^.^ , also i said to her that i love her (read my post again :P) she started avoiding me and we got to that part of "just friends"...she didn't gave me a straight answer
-when i asked her if she loves me she said "maybe"...
-if you have something to say to me just say it ... i like and respect the sincere kind the most
-i just remembered i once asked her if she hates me and she said no , and that she needs to be alone a while...it's been 2 months since i last gone out with her(i did see her a few days ago but for 5 min :( )...it's a good thing that both our birthdays are so close ^.^ a last ray of hope
-when i asked her if she loves me she said "maybe"...
-if you have something to say to me just say it ... i like and respect the sincere kind the most
-i just remembered i once asked her if she hates me and she said no , and that she needs to be alone a while...it's been 2 months since i last gone out with her(i did see her a few days ago but for 5 min :( )...it's a good thing that both our birthdays are so close ^.^ a last ray of hope
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kman1256 wrote...
Spoiler:
Do i sense a familiar event ..
Oh it has happened to me before .. but the good news is, she makes me wait for more than 1 year ..
before it happened to you as well .. ask her to go out again and again ,,
don't be like me .. that's all
tell her that you are tired of waiting .. and you need clearer answer than just "maybe" ..
translation : man up and tell
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Hey i'm back kman1256 account dosen't work (don't know why thought)...so my birthday has passed and that girl that i like didn't give me an answer to my feelings ... i feel turn down(not totally rejected) ...but then again you don't get all warm and touchy with just anyone ... she had to go finish a project and we part with a warm hug ... i don't know if she's still confused about how she feels or ...she just dosen't wanna be with me :( , I wish for a quick reply from old-jenkins (if you have the time) or anyone for that matter ^.^
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Didn't read anyones problems on here. But short answer is "Don't be a puss just fuck her and get on with life.
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kman1257 wrote...
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I can answer nothing other than your desire and your true feeling to her ......
Here it is, my long story short ..
Spoiler:
Want that to happen to you as well ?
So, i want to know ...
do your love for her is some kind of eternal [size=10]okay lame analogy, i know[/h] .. like you cannot live without her, or everything along the line ?
do you can answer it, if i ask "You sure that she love you 100%?", do you trust her enough ?
answer that .. and you will get some solution by yourself ...
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kman1257 wrote...
anyone for that matter ^.^looks to me like she just wants to get rid of you without hurting you too much. Her actions seems pretty straight forward to me, telling you to just be friends after you two went out, kiss and all, which clearly surpassed the level of friends.
The "maybe" answer is probably just because she can't answer 'no' considering what you two did together in the past, and she dare not answer in 'past tense' because it difficult to say plus it's like stabbing a arrow to you, so 'maybe' is the easy-way-to-go!
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well it seems recently my girlfriend and I have been getting into arguments alot lately over petty things. Personally I think it's because that I'm back from school and we haven't seen each other in awhile (3 months to be exact) but I could be wrong
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Glandor The Space Rapist wrote...
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You are right .. perhaps ...
do some romantic approaching ... and see her response ...
if it is good ... then maybe she just miss you
if it is bad ... well .... quickly fix it if you think that you have do something bad to her
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oh shi- need some middleman help here.....
(my current task)
stick is:
one of my guy's friends asked me for help.
he likes a certain girl and wants me to help him set her up with him.
noted that he's UBER shy and let me did most of the talking intros.
after that while they went into some dates, and i thought i was off the hook.
one day he couldnt come and then asked me to fill in.
both of us got into a good mood together, laughing and enjoying each others company.
then she asks me for help with the guy she likes.
at first i was all scared thinking it was another guy (it would be a problem) she liked, but fortunately, she likes THE guy that asked me for help in setting him up with her, since she also is UBER shy.....
this is the problem now.... guy wants to break the ice with her and confess.....
so how in the world would i do that?! i know im a middleman but im no cupid....
(my current task)
stick is:
one of my guy's friends asked me for help.
he likes a certain girl and wants me to help him set her up with him.
noted that he's UBER shy and let me did most of the talking intros.
after that while they went into some dates, and i thought i was off the hook.
one day he couldnt come and then asked me to fill in.
both of us got into a good mood together, laughing and enjoying each others company.
then she asks me for help with the guy she likes.
at first i was all scared thinking it was another guy (it would be a problem) she liked, but fortunately, she likes THE guy that asked me for help in setting him up with her, since she also is UBER shy.....
this is the problem now.... guy wants to break the ice with her and confess.....
so how in the world would i do that?! i know im a middleman but im no cupid....
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ZeKeR wrote...
oh shi- need some middleman help here.....(my current task)
stick is:
one of my guy's friends asked me for help.
he likes a certain girl and wants me to help him set her up with him.
noted that he's UBER shy and let me did most of the talking intros.
after that while they went into some dates, and i thought i was off the hook.
And you rightfully should think so. If they've already gone on dates together, then it should be obvious to them that they're into the other. As nice as a guy you are, you can't hold your buddies up forever. Help boost up his/her confidence, maybe give them advice about how to bring it up, and let them take the reigns!
If you continue to be the middleman in all of this, you're only going to breed more dependence.
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ZeKeR wrote...
oh shi- need some middleman help here.....(my current task)
stick is:
one of my guy's friends asked me for help.
he likes a certain girl and wants me to help him set her up with him.
noted that he's UBER shy and let me did most of the talking intros.
after that while they went into some dates, and i thought i was off the hook.
one day he couldnt come and then asked me to fill in.
both of us got into a good mood together, laughing and enjoying each others company.
then she asks me for help with the guy she likes.
at first i was all scared thinking it was another guy (it would be a problem) she liked, but fortunately, she likes THE guy that asked me for help in setting him up with her, since she also is UBER shy.....
this is the problem now.... guy wants to break the ice with her and confess.....
so how in the world would i do that?! i know im a middleman but im no cupid....
Give them some clues~
Like "Oh, believe me, you may try, he/she's telling me about you quite often you know...you have a good probability of success, so go ahead ;)".
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chiwa wrote...
ZeKeR wrote...
oh shi- need some middleman help here.....(my current task)
stick is:
one of my guy's friends asked me for help.
he likes a certain girl and wants me to help him set her up with him.
noted that he's UBER shy and let me did most of the talking intros.
after that while they went into some dates, and i thought i was off the hook.
And you rightfully should think so. If they've already gone on dates together, then it should be obvious to them that they're into the other. As nice as a guy you are, you can't hold your buddies up forever. Help boost up his/her confidence, maybe give them advice about how to bring it up, and let them take the reigns!
If you continue to be the middleman in all of this, you're only going to breed more dependence.
my reasons why i was FORCED to do it is:
-sadistic girls who coerce me to do it
-got some debts (not cash) from my guys
-the dreaded 'puppydog eyes' routine (this makes me shout out loud im weak vs girls)
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ZeKeR wrote...
oh shi- need some middleman help here.....(my current task)
stick is:
one of my guy's friends asked me for help.
he likes a certain girl and wants me to help him set her up with him.
noted that he's UBER shy and let me did most of the talking intros.
after that while they went into some dates, and i thought i was off the hook.
one day he couldnt come and then asked me to fill in.
both of us got into a good mood together, laughing and enjoying each others company.
then she asks me for help with the guy she likes.
at first i was all scared thinking it was another guy (it would be a problem) she liked, but fortunately, she likes THE guy that asked me for help in setting him up with her, since she also is UBER shy.....
this is the problem now.... guy wants to break the ice with her and confess.....
so how in the world would i do that?! i know im a middleman but im no cupid....
Set them on a date...and tell the guy to confess what he feels...Its all up to him...
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Yes i do love her in some kind of eternal "what you said earlier" way :P ...now i hope i'm not a idiot for using that clasic method on the internet to get your ex back ... maybe it will work hopefully (google it :) ) I know for certain that she cares for me maybe loves me but not wanting to express it ...If the method dosen't work i will use the hypnotizing book i got the other day :P also i'm sry Old - Jenkins for not replying sooner college is hard you know...
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I've got a problem.
There's this girl I've taken an interest in. Now I've only meet her once so this might be a whole "love at first sight thing", and I'm not even sure if I like her or not yet. I know all her friends, and from what they are like and what they have been telling me, she really suits the kind of personality and interests that i share. Now I'm a pretty shy guy, and think she is way out of my league, but should i try regardless? Even though I'm not entirely sure if I genuinely "like" her yet....? I mean shes been in my head for the last three weeks.
There's this girl I've taken an interest in. Now I've only meet her once so this might be a whole "love at first sight thing", and I'm not even sure if I like her or not yet. I know all her friends, and from what they are like and what they have been telling me, she really suits the kind of personality and interests that i share. Now I'm a pretty shy guy, and think she is way out of my league, but should i try regardless? Even though I'm not entirely sure if I genuinely "like" her yet....? I mean shes been in my head for the last three weeks.