[Question] What do girls want in a guy?
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I know it's a pretty lame question, girls tell guys what you want because almost all guys want he same thing 8)
some girl: immature bastard..
some girl: immature bastard..
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Sense of humour and enough social awareness to hold create sexual tension without being creepy.
Unless you get more specific this topic is now over.
Unless you get more specific this topic is now over.
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I've heard that a good sense of humor and confidence can make a girl like a guy, even if he doesn't look that good. Too bad (for girls) that it doesn't work the other way around. I admit it, we guys are horrible. Even if you're the funniest girl around and exude confidence, if you're ugly, we won't touch you.
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Uwah~ this question is so open that I could write paragraphs, but basically to summarize...
[list]
*Smiles & has (most of the time) a non offensive sense of humor.
*Is not over flirty to the point it makes you think something might be going on.
*Is sensative to a womans feelings and willing to meet halfway (none of this men rule crap)
*Good communicator (in all things)
*Shows emotion (not crazy overly sensative guys though...)
*Is positive
*Won't push their religious beliefs on me (or children if married)
*Likes my family and mine likes him
*Willing to defend me from harm[/list:u]
Sexually....I look for someone who is willing to get a test before sleeping with them. If they are not willing to get a test then they are not willing to keep me safe and are a waste of my time. (this is a big one for me)
That's about it...and yeah, like Shaggy said too, if you have all of those qualities, but are ugly, well, if your willing to work on that I'll totally makeover a guy to look more savy and stuff, but if they don't want that, then yeah, won't touch ya.
[list]
*Smiles & has (most of the time) a non offensive sense of humor.
*Is not over flirty to the point it makes you think something might be going on.
*Is sensative to a womans feelings and willing to meet halfway (none of this men rule crap)
*Good communicator (in all things)
*Shows emotion (not crazy overly sensative guys though...)
*Is positive
*Won't push their religious beliefs on me (or children if married)
*Likes my family and mine likes him
*Willing to defend me from harm[/list:u]
Sexually....I look for someone who is willing to get a test before sleeping with them. If they are not willing to get a test then they are not willing to keep me safe and are a waste of my time. (this is a big one for me)
That's about it...and yeah, like Shaggy said too, if you have all of those qualities, but are ugly, well, if your willing to work on that I'll totally makeover a guy to look more savy and stuff, but if they don't want that, then yeah, won't touch ya.
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Ayase wrote...
Uwah~ this question is so open that I could write paragraphs, but basically to summarize...[list]
*Smiles & has (most of the time) a non offensive sense of humor.
*Is not over flirty to the point it makes you think something might be going on.
*Is sensative to a womans feelings and willing to meet halfway (none of this men rule crap)
*Good communicator (in all things)
*Shows emotion (not crazy overly sensative guys though...)
*Is positive
*Won't push their religious beliefs on me (or children if married)
*Likes my family and mine likes him
*Willing to defend me from harm[/list:u]
Sexually....I look for someone who is willing to get a test before sleeping with them. If they are not willing to get a test then they are not willing to keep me safe and are a waste of my time. (this is a big one for me)
That's about it...and yeah, like Shaggy said too, if you have all of those qualities, but are ugly, well, if your willing to work on that I'll totally makeover a guy to look more savy and stuff, but if they don't want that, then yeah, won't touch ya.
AYE IM OVER HALF OF THOSE, BE MINE <333
Lol I'm just kidding, but i am emotional sometimes
:what a faggot..
>.>
Thank you very much for a very detailed responds :D
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yasha507 wrote...
AYE IM OVER HALF OF THOSE, BE MINE <333Lol I'm just kidding, but i am emotional sometimes
:what a faggot..
>.>
Thank you very much for a very detailed responds :D
LoL
I like it when a guy can tell me his feelings. But I wouldn't want someone who whined because I wanted to hang out with my girls once a week or something. Though I doubt most men would do that since they like the whole guys night out thing too hehe.
aznstoner wrote...
Short Answer: MeLOOONNNG Answer: My penis
You know the way to a womans heart! =p
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What do girls want in a guy?
Very easy...
You have to be:
1. A friend
2. A companion
3. a lover
4. A brother
5. A father
6. A master
7. An educator
8. A cook
9. A carpenter
10. A plumber
11. A mechanic
12. A decorator
13. A designer
14. A sexologist
15. A gynaecologist/obstetrician
16. A psychologist
17. A psychiatrist
18. A therapist
19. Audacious
20. Organizer
21. A good father (for the children)
22. Very clean
23. Pleasant
24. Athletic
25. Gentle
26. Thoughtful
27. Gallant
28. Clever
29. Funny
30. Creative
31. Tender
32. Strong
33. Understanding
34. Tolerant
35. Cautious
36. Ambitious
37. To be able to do something
38. Courageous
39. Determined
40. Reliable
41. Respectful
42. Passionate
DO NOT FORGOTTEN TO...
43. Do compliment (often)
44. Adore shopping
45. Don't make story with her
46. To be very very very rich...
47. Don't stress her
48. Don't look other women
IN THE SAME TIME YOU HAVE TO...
49. To be careful with her but not jealous!
50. A good understanding with her family BUT have the time for her.
51. give her space but be worried when she goes somewhere.
IT'S VERY IMPORTANT TO...
52. NEVER FORGOTTEN:
=> Anniversary (her, dog, cat, first date?)
=> Engagement
=> Wedding
Unfortunately even if you fallow all of these rules, her happiness is not guaranteed. She could be submerged by a perfect life and go away with the first drinker, casanova fucking bastard she meet...
No, it's just a joke, I know, it's impossible to do this XD
I think both men and wowen must have an arrangement in the beginning of the relation between them.
Why it's just the man who must change? I'm not agree ^^
Very easy...
You have to be:
1. A friend
2. A companion
3. a lover
4. A brother
5. A father
6. A master
7. An educator
8. A cook
9. A carpenter
10. A plumber
11. A mechanic
12. A decorator
13. A designer
14. A sexologist
15. A gynaecologist/obstetrician
16. A psychologist
17. A psychiatrist
18. A therapist
19. Audacious
20. Organizer
21. A good father (for the children)
22. Very clean
23. Pleasant
24. Athletic
25. Gentle
26. Thoughtful
27. Gallant
28. Clever
29. Funny
30. Creative
31. Tender
32. Strong
33. Understanding
34. Tolerant
35. Cautious
36. Ambitious
37. To be able to do something
38. Courageous
39. Determined
40. Reliable
41. Respectful
42. Passionate
DO NOT FORGOTTEN TO...
43. Do compliment (often)
44. Adore shopping
45. Don't make story with her
46. To be very very very rich...
47. Don't stress her
48. Don't look other women
IN THE SAME TIME YOU HAVE TO...
49. To be careful with her but not jealous!
50. A good understanding with her family BUT have the time for her.
51. give her space but be worried when she goes somewhere.
IT'S VERY IMPORTANT TO...
52. NEVER FORGOTTEN:
=> Anniversary (her, dog, cat, first date?)
=> Engagement
=> Wedding
Unfortunately even if you fallow all of these rules, her happiness is not guaranteed. She could be submerged by a perfect life and go away with the first drinker, casanova fucking bastard she meet...
No, it's just a joke, I know, it's impossible to do this XD
I think both men and wowen must have an arrangement in the beginning of the relation between them.
Why it's just the man who must change? I'm not agree ^^
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From my experience, modern girls want a guy who's honest about how he feels, but his honest opinions don't make her feel bad. He should think highly of her regardless of what he truthfully admits to seeing in her. He should be sensitive enough to cry when he feels like it, but strong enough to hold her and comfort her when she needs him too.
You need to be self-sufficient, but at the same time, make her feel like you need her. You need to be romantic, and you need to let her know just how much she means to you each and every day.
You need to be self-sufficient, but at the same time, make her feel like you need her. You need to be romantic, and you need to let her know just how much she means to you each and every day.
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Ayase wrote...
yasha507 wrote...
AYE IM OVER HALF OF THOSE, BE MINE <333Lol I'm just kidding, but i am emotional sometimes
:what a faggot..
>.>
Thank you very much for a very detailed responds :D
LoL
I like it when a guy can tell me his feelings. But I wouldn't want someone who whined because I wanted to hang out with my girls once a week or something. Though I doubt most men would do that since they like the whole guys night out thing too hehe.
You know the way to a womans heart! =p
what's a guys night out? I'm guessing guys going out together to have "fun". If so; kinda gay...
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ShaggyJebus wrote...
I've heard that a good sense of humor and confidence can make a girl like a guy, even if he doesn't look that good. Too bad (for girls) that it doesn't work the other way around. I admit it, we guys are horrible. Even if you're the funniest girl around and exude confidence, if you're ugly, we won't touch you.This is why I have a hard time tolerating guys irl ;p Because of shitty responses like that.
And yes, a good sense of humor and confidence means a lot. Sometimes if your innards are attractive, it radiates to the outside and makes you seem attractive.
But 'even if you're the funniest girl around and exude in confidence, if you're ugly, we won't touch you' <- that is why I detest the male gender and have a hard time dating. I don't trust your kind ;p
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yasha507 wrote...
I know it's a pretty lame question, girls tell guys what you want because almost all guys want he same thing 8) some girl: immature bastard..
some girls like it when you're close to them, be like a diary to them get to know them. In my eyes that's a good thing that girls would want just someone to talk to
PS I KNOW I JUST REPLIED TO MYSELF I'M WEIRD LIKE THAT
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ZiggyOtaku wrote...
ShaggyJebus wrote...
I've heard that a good sense of humor and confidence can make a girl like a guy, even if he doesn't look that good. Too bad (for girls) that it doesn't work the other way around. I admit it, we guys are horrible. Even if you're the funniest girl around and exude confidence, if you're ugly, we won't touch you.This is why I have a hard time tolerating guys irl ;p Because of shitty responses like that.
And yes, a good sense of humor and confidence means a lot. Sometimes if your innards are attractive, it radiates to the outside and makes you seem attractive.
But 'even if you're the funniest girl around and exude in confidence, if you're ugly, we won't touch you' <- that is why I detest the male gender and have a hard time dating. I don't trust your kind ;p
It's not all men who think like that, just like not all women give half a damn what's on the inside. I personally don't care if my fiance isn't a supermodel--she's perfection in my eyes all the same.
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Noutakun wrote...
From my experience, modern girls want a guy who's honest about how he feels, but his honest opinions don't make her feel bad. He should think highly of her regardless of what he truthfully admits to seeing in her. He should be sensitive enough to cry when he feels like it, but strong enough to hold her and comfort her when she needs him too.You need to be self-sufficient, but at the same time, make her feel like you need her. You need to be romantic, and you need to let her know just how much she means to you each and every day.
OOoOoO you stated that really well *nods nods* Even I'm like, wow, that's so true
yasha507 wrote...
some girls like it when you're close to them, be like a diary to them get to know them. In my eyes that's a good thing that girls would want just someone to talk toYeah, I want to be able to talk to that person and basically allow them to see my flaws and see how he reacts to them. At the other side though, one of my friends, he absolutely can't date someone who has already entered his 'friend' book. He claims if he puts them in the friend category, then he can't take them out of it because he thinks of them as family already. Personally I find my feelings grow more when I am friends with them first.
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ZiggyOtaku wrote...
ShaggyJebus wrote...
I've heard that a good sense of humor and confidence can make a girl like a guy, even if he doesn't look that good. Too bad (for girls) that it doesn't work the other way around. I admit it, we guys are horrible. Even if you're the funniest girl around and exude confidence, if you're ugly, we won't touch you.This is why I have a hard time tolerating guys irl ;p Because of shitty responses like that.
And yes, a good sense of humor and confidence means a lot. Sometimes if your innards are attractive, it radiates to the outside and makes you seem attractive.
But 'even if you're the funniest girl around and exude in confidence, if you're ugly, we won't touch you' <- that is why I detest the male gender and have a hard time dating. I don't trust your kind ;p
Unless you're defining ugly as having massive acne scarring, a cleft palette, and a goiter the size of a football then it's pretty subjective, meaning that someone will go after you. Outside of severe deformity either gender can cover 90% of the ground with a great personality and great game. If you just want to mess around with people you just need game (as a girl you don't really even need much game to get guys).
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ZiggyOtaku wrote...
ShaggyJebus wrote...
I've heard that a good sense of humor and confidence can make a girl like a guy, even if he doesn't look that good. Too bad (for girls) that it doesn't work the other way around. I admit it, we guys are horrible. Even if you're the funniest girl around and exude confidence, if you're ugly, we won't touch you.This is why I have a hard time tolerating guys irl ;p Because of shitty responses like that.
And yes, a good sense of humor and confidence means a lot. Sometimes if your innards are attractive, it radiates to the outside and makes you seem attractive.
But 'even if you're the funniest girl around and exude in confidence, if you're ugly, we won't touch you' <- that is why I detest the male gender and have a hard time dating. I don't trust your kind ;p
Switch teams if it bothers you that much. Women have their own fucking...quirks, in general.
As to the original question, as a guy, I don't care what women want in a man. For one thing, there is a natural instinct about it, so it will happen or it wont. For another, people don't change. To try to make yourself into something that women would generally want might work superficially in some ways, but it wouldn't change the dick you are underneath, so it's hardly even worth it. Who you are is who you are, and maybe some women will like that.
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Dante1214 wrote...
ZiggyOtaku wrote...
ShaggyJebus wrote...
I've heard that a good sense of humor and confidence can make a girl like a guy, even if he doesn't look that good. Too bad (for girls) that it doesn't work the other way around. I admit it, we guys are horrible. Even if you're the funniest girl around and exude confidence, if you're ugly, we won't touch you.This is why I have a hard time tolerating guys irl ;p Because of shitty responses like that.
And yes, a good sense of humor and confidence means a lot. Sometimes if your innards are attractive, it radiates to the outside and makes you seem attractive.
But 'even if you're the funniest girl around and exude in confidence, if you're ugly, we won't touch you' <- that is why I detest the male gender and have a hard time dating. I don't trust your kind ;p
Switch teams if it bothers you that much. Women have their own fucking...quirks, in general.
As to the original question, as a guy, I don't care what women want in a man. For one thing, there is a natural instinct about it, so it will happen or it wont. For another, people don't change. To try to make yourself into something that women would generally want might work superficially in some ways, but it wouldn't change the dick you are underneath, so it's hardly even worth it. Who you are is who you are, and maybe some women will like that.
God damn that's bleak. I guess I've finally found somewhere that we differ. Even inadvertently people change. I'm pretty sure you aren't the same person you were when you were in grade 3 and that the person you'll be when you're 40 isn't the same person you are now. Most people stick to a general personality for long stretches of their lives (such as being introverted, extroverted, mean, nice, etc) but major events effect change too. Flirtatious people don't tend to stay flirty if they get raped. Other examples abound.
That said, most people don't like, want, or feel the need to change. Things don't tend to get done if someone doesn't get on your ass about it, you don't bottom out, or they aren't in discord with you. Most people get into a role, build a social life that supports it, and go through life rather pleasantly. Some people do this and then look around before realising "this is shit" and then become new people.
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Ayase wrote...
yasha507 wrote...
some girls like it when you're close to them, be like a diary to them get to know them. In my eyes that's a good thing that girls would want just someone to talk toYeah, I want to be able to talk to that person and basically allow them to see my flaws and see how he reacts to them. At the other side though, one of my friends, he absolutely can't date someone who has already entered his 'friend' book. He claims if he puts them in the friend category, then he can't take them out of it because he thinks of them as family already. Personally I find my feelings grow more when I am friends with them first.
hell yeah high five <3
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ZiggyOtaku wrote...
ShaggyJebus wrote...
I've heard that a good sense of humor and confidence can make a girl like a guy, even if he doesn't look that good. Too bad (for girls) that it doesn't work the other way around. I admit it, we guys are horrible. Even if you're the funniest girl around and exude confidence, if you're ugly, we won't touch you.This is why I have a hard time tolerating guys irl ;p Because of shitty responses like that.
And yes, a good sense of humor and confidence means a lot. Sometimes if your innards are attractive, it radiates to the outside and makes you seem attractive.
But 'even if you're the funniest girl around and exude in confidence, if you're ugly, we won't touch you' <- that is why I detest the male gender and have a hard time dating. I don't trust your kind ;p
I wouldn't trust guys either. We're jerks.
Though I must clarify; when I said, "Even if you're the funniest girl around and exude confidence, if you're ugly, we won't touch you," I didn't mean that there's a big list of things that make a girl pretty, and if a girl doesn't have so many of them, all guys think she's ugly. No, beauty is subjective, and what is hot to one guy is ugly to another.
That said, if a guy thinks a girl is ugly, he won't go after her, even if she is confident and funny. But just because the one guy thinks the girl is ugly, it doesn't mean that all guys think the girl is ugly. One thing about guys, we have very different tastes. Dude A will only date girls with small butts, while Dude B will only date girls with big butts, and so on.
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ShaggyJebus wrote...
ZiggyOtaku wrote...
ShaggyJebus wrote...
I've heard that a good sense of humor and confidence can make a girl like a guy, even if he doesn't look that good. Too bad (for girls) that it doesn't work the other way around. I admit it, we guys are horrible. Even if you're the funniest girl around and exude confidence, if you're ugly, we won't touch you.This is why I have a hard time tolerating guys irl ;p Because of shitty responses like that.
And yes, a good sense of humor and confidence means a lot. Sometimes if your innards are attractive, it radiates to the outside and makes you seem attractive.
But 'even if you're the funniest girl around and exude in confidence, if you're ugly, we won't touch you' <- that is why I detest the male gender and have a hard time dating. I don't trust your kind ;p
I wouldn't trust guys either. We're jerks.
Though I must clarify; when I said, "Even if you're the funniest girl around and exude confidence, if you're ugly, we won't touch you," I didn't mean that there's a big list of things that make a girl pretty, and if a girl doesn't have so many of them, all guys think she's ugly. No, beauty is subjective, and what is hot to one guy is ugly to another.
That said, if a guy thinks a girl is ugly, he won't go after her, even if she is confident and funny. But just because the one guy thinks the girl is ugly, it doesn't mean that all guys think the girl is ugly. One thing about guys, we have very different tastes. Dude A will only date girls with small butts, while Dude B will only date girls with big butts, and so on.
Yeah that's so true, if a guy say's he likes a girl for her personality that's bullshit because it's more like 70%-80% and the rest others.. we're dicks.. D:
Unless you're in love or something, then again ppl define love differently
Aye just popping up a point, some guys use the word love freely, idk i know some girls that are sensitive to that word.
"i love you"
"no you don't.."