So I may be a dad sometime soon

just live the things as it was.. babies are cute though

Honestly, not really. Condoms and birth control are not perfect and there still lies some risk of pregnancy. If you deem the risk worth it and have sex. You shouldn't try to bail if a pregnancy occurs.

Any other action we take, we accept the consequences. Why does sex somehow get exempt from the basic rules we use to make every decision in our lives?

Lets take any behavior, like driving a car for instance. If I injure someone or cause property damage through my actions then I have to accept the consequences even if it was an accident.

Random Fact: Less than 8% of all women seeking abortions did not use any form of contraception.

What? Excuse me, but that sounds absolutely ridiculous.


Okay, let's take that example then. Say, you're driving your car and one day you happen to accidentaly hit someone, causing serious irreversible injuries to said person. As the damage cannot be undone, you'd have to cope with the fact that you hurt someone beyond repair.

But let's say that you only caused some minor wounds to the person. Isn't it fair that you apologise for your mistake and move on? Like in the case at hand - unplanned pregnancy - there is a way to fix it, so why should you not try to? This is not just any accident, it's an event that will consume many years of the parent's lives, and will have a toll on another person's life as well - the child's.

Or are telling me that accidents should not be an excuse and a person should not be allowed to try and redeem himself? What about this example- a long time smoker develops lung cancer. Are you saying that this person shouldn't be allowed to receive any treatment?

She has the ability. Rights are decided by the local government.



Depends on the local "relationship" image (remember muslims) and the roles they play in it.



Can i cut your eyes out then, to relieve you from seeing how this world works?

@kuroneko
smoking and abortion are of two different weight categories for the woman involved. Imagine yourself bearing a child...
sorry, you can't.

even if it is only a pack of cells, most people just can't simply overstep their conscience and unbringing norms of behaviour.

besides, i think the man has already made his decision :)

Jichan- Yes, they are two absolutely different situations, but I was just trying to convey that it is fair for a person to try and make up for their mistakes.
I really cant imagine what it would be to bear a child. But I believe that the welfare of the child is much more important than the shame of having gone through an abortion.

Jinx- Sorry for bringing these arguments into your thread. Whatever your decision is, I wish you the best of luck.

You must raise this child as the omega weeaboo. He must have tons of mangos and animus as well as a super weeaboo name like "Zepherian". He must also be a stage 3 japanophile who you drive into their skull they must some day move and live in japan as well as learn the language.

Who knows, raising a child would be a fun experience. Through, I hope it works well with you and her since hearing you say the folks aren't pleased and it could end up like another cheap soap opera.

Btw; if it's your child, post a picture of him/her.

Apparently people don't like the idea of provoking discussion. I'd figure everybody knew I enjoy discussions to an extent that I will even debate in support ideas I'm actually opposed to.



Which part is ridiculous, the accepting your consequences or the make a conscious decision to avoid a certain activity until you can accept the consequences?


Okay, let's take that example then. Say, you're driving your car and one day you happen to accidentaly hit someone, causing serious irreversible injuries to said person. As the damage cannot be undone, you'd have to cope with the fact that you hurt someone beyond repair.

But let's say that you only caused some minor wounds to the person. Isn't it fair that you apologise for your mistake and move on? Like in the case at hand - unplanned pregnancy - there is a way to fix it, so why should you not try to? This is not just any accident, it's an event that will consume many years of the parent's lives, and will have a toll on another person's life as well - the child's.

Or are telling me that accidents should not be an excuse and a person should not be allowed to try and redeem himself? What about this example- a long time smoker develops lung cancer. Are you saying that this person shouldn't be allowed to receive any treatment?[/quote]

Every time I get behind the wheel of my truck, ziggy's car or any of the vehicles I drive for my customers I make a mental note "I can/may hurt/possibly kill somebody or myself by driving. Do I accept that risk"? Every time I say yes because I accept the consequences of my "accidents". If I ran somebody over, I wouldn't try to cover my accident by slitting the poor bastards throat.

Again, doing this for simple discussion and because I'm bored.

Just a thought. What if you could
choose the sex of your kid what would you choose
boy, girl, or somwhere in between

sell babby 4 partz.

id say try and get her to get an abortion if not then adoption.

Shit doesnt any one read the fucking thread!
He already stated that they're keeping the damn thing!

(if this was meant to be sarcasm i appoligize)

^*rereads thread* shit ur right...srry trekki my bad.