So I may be a dad sometime soon

So basically we've come to a few agreement's.

Seeing as I am 95% sure I am the father and she is 99% sure, and her parent's would castrate me if I ditched on her any time soon. We've gone form friend's with benefit's type relationships to a more open relationship. Me and Zoey... HER NAME! LE GASP!... are openly in a relationship.

My limitation's are:
- no vaginal sex
- no smoking around her
- no drinking around her

But giving up those liberties I still get to fuck other women, and she's willing for the time being to anal, BJ's and HJ's.

all im going to say is my wife got pregnant for my first child at 19 and it was the best thing to happen to me and now i have three wonderful darling kids and i wouldnt change anything. so i say to you congrats your going to love being a father it the best job in the world

Actually... you should consult your doctor before making that kind of decision, since it appears to me that it is made solely on pseudo-science.

In actuality, it has been shown, statistics wise, that exposure of the father's semen seems to help the developing baby somewhat, which if I remember correctly, was supposed to help prevent miscarrage and other things.

But you should still consult your doctor about that, regardless of any studies. However, all information I've learned (from proper authority) seems to agree that vaginal sex is not harmful at all, and may in fact be beneficial, to the fetus.

Oh, that and preggo sex rocks... or so I'm told.

EDIT: No smoking or drinking of any kind, even after birth. Second and third hand smoke damage a lot of the child's nascent body systems. You may also influence the child to experiment with alcohol, which will fuck his developing brains the same way sandpaper would. You have been warned.

The sex is her idea not mine, the smoking/drinking is mine.

Tomorrow and the next day are going to be big steps forward and I mean BIG STEPS.

First, I'm going to talk to Zoey's dad and ask for her hand in marriage. Then I'm going to try and rebuild bridges burned in the last few years, when my family found out about how IO was making 50-60k a year. But yeah, I still have that little bit of doubt about if the child is mine or not but then I have a lot of growing up to do, I'm in the peak of my life, I need to calm down and settle down.

I'm a jaded person, who has a past that not too many people would like to admit to having, Zoey looks past all that and treat's me like a human begin and not a piece of meat, like I had been when I was working as an escort. Whenever I'm acting like an immature douche bag she throws it right back, and somehow coaxes me to calm down.

As for my parent's I expect them to open the door then close it right on my face, maybe even call the cop's on me. But you never know.

I'm more or less open to that idea but then if this child is not the fruit of my loins I'm still going to be it's father.

Hmm, even if your parents do close the door on you, I'm sure if they see that you've calmed down and made a home, they'll come around eventually.

Unless they're a-holes... then you'd best just be on your merry way.

Bump with good reason.

Update on situation's:

Zoey never told me the sex of the child because she wanted to keep it quiet that she is HAVING TWINS. So now that was slipped out, I'm going to be a Dad to one boy and one girl(hopefully) who's names will be James Joesph Jenkins III and Mary Jane Jenkins. Names we both decided on.

I have no idea why, possibly because I never asked and at first I had doubts that it was mine(It's still there just a marginal doubt now). But no matter my place is a townhouse apartment, 3bed 2 bath, why I live her alone is beyond me. But moving on, Zoey's moving in with me here in a few week's, soon as we decide on who's stuff get's storage united. And I'll lose my office, but meh.

Also for other news I mentioned in another thread that I've proposed, and no big wedding, I don't mind her having one she just wants something easy, I've said I can afford to pay for a decent wedding(100-200 guest easily). But a civil union by the county magistrate is all she says she need's with family at hand so to the courthouse we go when she moves in.

Oooooh, dizygotic twins.

I'm chinese, and in my culture it's seemed as lucky. I believe they call it "dragon-phoenix twins" or "ying-yang twins" because of the opposite gender. Signifies good luck, so go by some lotto.

Also... that's gonna be twice the college funds bro. You ok with that?

And come on man, invite some of us to your wedding. It'd be so awesome to have Jacob there don't cha think?