Why is it hard...to talk to a girl?
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Don't be a punk dude. Have confidence but don't be the over confident douche. Alot of girls like shy guys but sometimes not overly shy, but have a confidence in your words and the second you start thinking to much about what words to say, words start coming out wrong. Believe i know haha
Lol i know what you mean, i also look it as cute girls > hot girls. Cute ones are normally the ones aren't slutty and looking for attention
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KnowsNoNoseBleed wrote...
it's not hard, but i keep my distance from superficial and those 'socially-slutty' girlsx
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I can relate to that...
I studied in an all-boys exclusive school, I transfer to a coed school its REALLY hard even if one of them approaches I become paranoid but still I managed of get over it, now I have a girlfriend (YAY)...
I studied in an all-boys exclusive school, I transfer to a coed school its REALLY hard even if one of them approaches I become paranoid but still I managed of get over it, now I have a girlfriend (YAY)...
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gizgal wrote...
Forget she has breasts and a vagina.Ease will ensue.
^This and learn how to make eye contact, the more you do it the easier it gets.
Also, don't make the evil eye look and stare her down, finally find common ground of some kind.
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Or you can just "nut up or shut up"
I have no trouble talking to girls because I look good and I mean damn good.
I have no trouble talking to girls because I look good and I mean damn good.
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Takerial
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I think I remember calling the op a little bitch before. I cannot fully remember as my post is now blank but it certainly seems like something I would post about this subject.
If I didn't, then you're a little bitch op.
If I didn't, then you're a little bitch op.
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I usually just don't give a fuck. It usually makes conversing easier and by the time that you're in favorable contact with the girl you'll feel comfortable conversing while actually caring. I know it's a bit confusing but it makes sense when put into action. I read something here where someone said something like making your first encounter short and with a purpose and that will considerably help you. If all else pretend that you're someone with a hint of swag a bit of confidence like someone from a movie/manga or something. If you do nothing else just don't talk about things that girls consider weird.
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If the conversation just doesn't flow and it's that awkward...I'd veer more towards there just being no chemistry than some ineptitude on your part.
So...move on until you find someone you can comfortable have a conversation with.
Also, old op is old .-.
So...move on until you find someone you can comfortable have a conversation with.
Also, old op is old .-.
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Girls are really clueless. Even if you talk about random crap just to start a conversation, they won't find it awkward since they're so oblivious anyways. Unless you're talking to a smart girl, then you gotta act smarter than her to catch her attention. Love is a battlefield; there are infinite possibilities of stratagems to win.
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Anything is hard and awkward if you're a beginner. Playing an instrument, riding a bike, going to the gym, martial arts, dancing...
You just need to practice diligently and consistently to build the skill. Once you acquired the skill, it becomes second nature and effortless.
It wasn't too long ago that I discovered...the vast majority of people don't have what it takes to practice something consistently and diligently in order to master the skill.
It was a wonderful discovery because if I put in the effort to keep practicing diligently, I will come out on top and get what I want. All you gotta do is give up the instant gratification for the long term payoff.
You just need to practice diligently and consistently to build the skill. Once you acquired the skill, it becomes second nature and effortless.
It wasn't too long ago that I discovered...the vast majority of people don't have what it takes to practice something consistently and diligently in order to master the skill.
It was a wonderful discovery because if I put in the effort to keep practicing diligently, I will come out on top and get what I want. All you gotta do is give up the instant gratification for the long term payoff.
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Uncharted territory is hard to navigate. That's it. Generally speaking, guys kick their own ass by either committing to too few options or freaking out over too many.
That being said, the formulaic approach to speaking with women takes out a lot of the earnest fun in wandering aimlessly through a sea of emotions.
That being said, the formulaic approach to speaking with women takes out a lot of the earnest fun in wandering aimlessly through a sea of emotions.
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Chocobophobia wrote...
Girls are really clueless. Even if you talk about random crap just to start a conversation, they won't find it awkward since they're so oblivious anyways. Unless you're talking to a smart girl, then you gotta act smarter than her to catch her attention. Love is a battlefield; there are infinite possibilities of stratagems to win.Wow, thanks.
Guys usually have a higher tendency to think that girls like them just from small hints and signals. Even from the smallest things like smiling. But girls also do this, just not as often. So we aren't really that oblivious.
It's so weird since from the POV of girls, their idea of a guy is exactly what you just posted except for that last part. We all think guys are clueless. ( - ಠˇ ౪ˇಠ-)
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sinderella wrote...
Chocobophobia wrote...
Girls are really clueless. Even if you talk about random crap just to start a conversation, they won't find it awkward since they're so oblivious anyways. Unless you're talking to a smart girl, then you gotta act smarter than her to catch her attention. Love is a battlefield; there are infinite possibilities of stratagems to win.Wow, thanks.
Guys usually have a higher tendency to think that girls like them just from small hints and signals. Even from the smallest things like smiling. But girls also do this, just not as often. So we aren't really that oblivious.
It's so weird since from the POV of girls, their idea of a guy is exactly what you just posted except for that last part. We all think guys are clueless. ( - ಠˇ ౪ˇಠ-)
Yeah! There are guys who get attracted from little hints. The problem is, the girl expects you to be clueless. But when you're really not, they'll just think you're peculiar.
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Girls talk to me so I never had problems having conversations. Kinda annoying considering I like studying and listening to music in peace. The reason people find it hard is because they never listen to what they are actually saying.
They also like funny stuff. I'm the type of person that tends to be unintentionally funny, so I guess that helps my cause. I usually say or do something that really makes them laugh even thought I don't find it funny myself.
They also like funny stuff. I'm the type of person that tends to be unintentionally funny, so I guess that helps my cause. I usually say or do something that really makes them laugh even thought I don't find it funny myself.
