Would You Date A Bisexual?

Well ive dated two bi-girls and one is my current gf, they seem more open to sexual-orientated stuff lol
so to answer ur question yes and i have lol

Just because a girl is bi doesn't mean that's the key to being more open about sexual relations. If you're in a relationship with somebody it's expected that they're loyal to you and keep their hands off of other people.

The only difference I would see is that they're willing to touch a woman sexually and I'm not. Though if you're with this bisexual girl in a relationship I would assume it's between just you two.

hell I would a girl who does other girls hell yeah I find that kinky ask for a three some. sorry
but yeah I don't care as long as she wants to be with me.

That's definitely a more liberal stance than a lot of folks on here apparently. XD

I'd like to think that you can still have a healthy relationship with someone like that. Not everything has to be conservative, one man-one woman until the day they die. I'd spice things up myself if I could.

See, that right there is why I wouldn't want to date a bi-sexual person.
They're not satisfied with just a happy couple, they have to 'spice things up' by involving other people and never having a serious commitment.

I'm all for interesting sex positions, foreplay, and games in bed - but don't involve another person.

What's the point of having a relationship with somebody if you just want to sleep with other people as well?

I'm too territorial with my partners, I don't care about friends and so forth - but if they're dating me, they're only going to kiss me, only going to have sex with me, and only going to be intimate with me.

The same applies for myself, I wouldn't ever do anything listed above except to the person who is in a relationship with me.

It's stupid to claim to having a 'serious' relationship that's 'open ended' by allowing other partners to join.

If people want to have casual sex, that's fine - but what's the point of a 'relationship'?

I don't have an issue with man-man, girl-girl, male-girl relationships whatsoever. That doesn't bother me, what bothers me is when people with an orientation of anything that has two legs and feels that they're entitled to however many partners for relationships they feel like they want.

Haha, and I completely disagree with you.

I find there to be nothing wrong with want to have sexual relations with more than just your partner. I'm not very old fashioned when it comes to defining intimacy. I don't think it has to be exclusive to the one person I really love. To me, intimacy isn't nearly the most important part of being in a serious relationship with someone. I can still love my partner, and both of us understand that without having to limit our sexual experiences. If we both want to broaden our sexual experiences by having someone else then I am all for that.

That's fine, but you just prove my point further as to why I wouldn't want to date a bisexual.

That doesn't necessarily have anything to do with being bisexual. I mean even if I wasn't bisexual, if my girlfriend/wife wanted to introduce someone else then I would at least take it into consideration. Then again I can't say that for sure since there is little point in speculating what I would think if I wasn't bisexual, but I don't think it is a stretch for me to assume I would at least do that much.

If you were straight, and your girlfriend wanted to bring in more partners. That would mean she's bisexual - therefore proving my point that bisexuals have difficult times remaining faithful to a monogamous relationship.

I'm not saying bisexuals outright cheat, but they somehow rationalize that additional partners are acceptable.
The vast majority of this are like this, from what I've experienced and Fpods experience with bisexuals. Of course there's going to be -some- with more traditional views with relationships.

If I felt a connection with someone, their sexual orientation wouldn't matter.

I have done, she had a girlfriend who was bi, thus equaling a simple threesome without the troubles of a love triangle.

I don't date so I don't have to worry about this or any other relationship problem.

That's the cheaper option =_=

Not all bisexuals are insatiably horny. Srsly people, bisexuals can, and more importantly want to commit to a relationship. And besides, if they really miss having sex with the other gender, there are dildos and such for that.

That's what I said in the beginning, I completely agree. However, if they later told me they wanted to add someone into the relationship - it would be a big Goodbye. They can then have that person all to themselves.



I did state that there were bisexuals who did want a normal relationship with either a male or female, but the majority seem to disconnect sex from love and an act of intimacy - therefore them acting in more promiscuous behaviors.

I've become friends with people as far as swingers with their husbands, to a bisexual woman who was with her girlfriend and was happy with just being with her. They were a good match for each other.

I'm not going to tell somebody they can't act a certain way, and that goes for myself as well.

Tsurayu can sleep with has many male's/females as he wants. But when it comes to me - I would never date someone who wanted to act in such a way within our relationship.

If she is cute, yes of course

Oh great wording there. I appreciate the vote of promiscuity there. *rolls eyes*

What the hell is your problem?
Don't get butt hurt because I wouldn't want to be in a polygamous relationship.
I said it's fine if you want to do that, I'm not going to step on your feet and tell you how you're supposed to live your sex life - frankly I don't care.

The only thing I mentioned not understanding is how a bisexual can rationalize having a monogamous relationship yet adding on third wheels and still consider that 'serious relationship' monogamous.

You're not arguing on a factual basis. You're just getting uptight and not responding to my questions or arguments against the few statements you have made.

It's not even like that kind of behavior would prevent me from being able to get close with them. Like I said in my earlier post - I was very good friends with a swinger. I didn't understand the concept of her relationship - respected her decision, and she respected mine by not pushing her concepts onto me.

Haha, I'm sorry. I was being sarcastic. I don't really care either way. Guess that is the last time I use "rolls eyes" instead of XD or lol. People really can't predict sarcasm on the internet. *shrugs*

Anyway, I didn't realize we were debating anyway. I'm not going to sit there and argue back and forth about how I can have a serious relationship because we obviously have a very different opinion of what constitutes a serious relationship. I'm not going to waste my breath when there isn't a snowballs chance we are going to see eye-to-eye.

I mean that sounds like something Waar would expect - arguing for the sake of arguing.

Then why even bother stating your position if you have no intention of explaining why? If you have that mentality then you wouldn't of said anything at all already knowing the result by all the 'conservative' responses you mentioned in your first post.

I already said a while ago - I'm not going to tell you that you're flat out 'wrong' or tell you that you shouldn't do that. Yet you continue to act as if I'm going to tell you that you're wrong and should change your ways.

I wouldn't want to be in a promiscuous relationship simply because it goes against my personal morals. I feel by being in a monogamous relationship it shows commitment for the significant other, that you want to be with them and only them. I would expect the same from them.

There's absolutely no other reason then that.

But if you have no intention of sharing anything, then next time maybe just say nothing at all.