Would You Date A Bisexual?
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ZiggyOtaku wrote...
Then why even bother stating your position if you have no intention of explaining why? If you have that mentality then you wouldn't of said anything at all already knowing the result by all the 'conservative' responses you mentioned in your first post.I already said a while ago - I'm not going to tell you that you're flat out 'wrong' or tell you that you shouldn't do that. Yet you continue to act as if I'm going to tell you that you're wrong and should change your ways.
I wouldn't want to be in a promiscuous relationship simply because it goes against my personal morals. I feel by being in a monogamous relationship it shows commitment for the significant other, that you want to be with them and only them. I would expect the same from them.
There's absolutely no other reason then that.
But if you have no intention of sharing anything, then next time maybe just say nothing at all.
I already did state my views. I said that I think the idea of having a monogomous relationship wasn't necessarily important in a serious relationship. I think that my partner and I can have fun with others and still know that we only love each other. What more do you want me to say than that? Do you want me to explain why I feel that because I can't. It just happens to be how I feel.
It's just like you. You haven't really explained why you feel the way you do. Sorry, but saying that it is your personal morals doesn't explain why you feel that way at all. Morals are just an arbitrary way of viewing something, it isn't your reason for feeling the way you do.
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This is ridiculous. Assuming bisexuals are more promiscuous than other people with different sexual orientations is like assuming all lesbians have short hair. It might be true is some cases but that doesn't make it a general rule. I've met people of about every different sexual orientation that I can think of and the only ones I know of that have been abused or are total ho bags are actually the straight people. Should I go around assuming all straight people are sluts? No because I could take 2 minutes to find someone who was of whatever sexual orientation who isn't. And it's pathetic to be worried about a women or man who looks at another person of their gender and is turned on. You're just as likely to have fidelity issues if they don't display outward signs or if they're only attracted to the opposite sex. People are sluts because they're sluts not because of sexual orientation, religion, or anything else.
Also you're kinda a sad and shallow person if you can't look at an attractive person of your gender and admit they're attractive even if you're straight. You still know what makes a person attractive even if you aren't attracted to them.
Note: I don't find there to be anything wrong with being generally slutty unless you're in a relationship with someone who doesn't know you are or who expects you to behave otherwise. What you do with your body is your own fucking choice. Anyone who spouts morality crap about it can shove it because anyone who knows what they're talking about knows that morality is entirely subjective and completely arbitrary. If your only reason to not do something is because it's morally bad that's not actually a reason at all.
Also you're kinda a sad and shallow person if you can't look at an attractive person of your gender and admit they're attractive even if you're straight. You still know what makes a person attractive even if you aren't attracted to them.
Note: I don't find there to be anything wrong with being generally slutty unless you're in a relationship with someone who doesn't know you are or who expects you to behave otherwise. What you do with your body is your own fucking choice. Anyone who spouts morality crap about it can shove it because anyone who knows what they're talking about knows that morality is entirely subjective and completely arbitrary. If your only reason to not do something is because it's morally bad that's not actually a reason at all.
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Brittany
Director of Production
Tsurayu wrote...
I already did state my views. I said that I think the idea of having a monogomous relationship wasn't necessarily important in a serious relationship. I think that my partner and I can have fun with others and still know that we only love each other. What more do you want me to say than that? Do you want me to explain why I feel that because I can't. It just happens to be how I feel.
It's just like you. You haven't really explained why you feel the way you do. Sorry, but saying that it is your personal morals doesn't explain why you feel that way at all. Morals are just an arbitrary way of viewing something, it isn't your reason for feeling the way you do.
No, but I mean the factual basis again. Do you feel it'd be a monogamous relationship with the girl you'd love, while adding more sex partners to do a spin?
I do know why I'd prefer things my way. If I had other girls in the relationship, I'd probably end up killing them. I'm -way- too territorial with my relationships to allow some other girl to be crawling on my significant other.
Plus there'd be insecurities on whether or not one person was better at something than I was. I would constantly feel I have to be better than them.
As for Ramsus:
Ramsus wrote...
This is ridiculous. Assuming bisexuals are more promiscuous than other people with different sexual orientations is like assuming all lesbians have short hair.*sigh*
ZiggyOtaku wrote...
I'm not saying bisexuals outright cheat, but they somehow rationalize that additional partners are acceptable.
The vast majority of this are like this, from what I've experienced and Fpods experience with bisexuals. Of course there's going to be -some- with more traditional views with relationships.
ZiggyOtaku wrote...
I did state that there were bisexuals who did want a normal relationship with either a male or female, but the majority seem to disconnect sex from love and an act of intimacy - therefore them acting in more promiscuous behaviors.
I've become friends with people as far as swingers with their husbands, to a bisexual woman who was with her girlfriend and was happy with just being with her. They were a good match for each other.
As I said. From my experience, and even FPods experience, almost all the bisexuals I have ever come across, asides from one - have a more promiscuous outlook when it comes to relationships.
It's not even like I'm insulting bisexuals by saying the word promiscuous. It just means:
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Use promiscuous in a Sentence
–adjective
1. characterized by or involving indiscriminate mingling or association, esp. having sexual relations with a number of partners on a casual basis.
2. consisting of parts, elements, or individuals of different kinds brought together without order.
3. indiscriminate; without discrimination.
4. casual; irregular; haphazard.
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Use promiscuous in a Sentence
–adjective
1. characterized by or involving indiscriminate mingling or association, esp. having sexual relations with a number of partners on a casual basis.
2. consisting of parts, elements, or individuals of different kinds brought together without order.
3. indiscriminate; without discrimination.
4. casual; irregular; haphazard.
Ramsus wrote...
People are sluts because they're sluts not because of sexual orientation, religion, or anything else.I never said 'when you're bisexual, you're promiscuous'
I said - it seems to be a TREND. I also stated that I could end up in a relationship with a bisexual, so long as they are on the same level of how the relationship should be.
Ramsus wrote...
Also you're kinda a sad and shallow person if you can't look at an attractive person of your gender and admit they're attractive even if you're straight. You still know what makes a person attractive even if you aren't attracted to them.What? When was that ever mentioned?
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ZiggyOtaku wrote...
Tsurayu wrote...
I already did state my views. I said that I think the idea of having a monogomous relationship wasn't necessarily important in a serious relationship. I think that my partner and I can have fun with others and still know that we only love each other. What more do you want me to say than that? Do you want me to explain why I feel that because I can't. It just happens to be how I feel.
It's just like you. You haven't really explained why you feel the way you do. Sorry, but saying that it is your personal morals doesn't explain why you feel that way at all. Morals are just an arbitrary way of viewing something, it isn't your reason for feeling the way you do.
No, but I mean the factual basis again. Do you feel it'd be a monogamous relationship with the girl you'd love, while adding more sex partners to do a spin?
I do know why I'd prefer things my way. If I had other girls in the relationship, I'd probably end up killing them. I'm -way- too territorial with my relationships to allow some other girl to be crawling on my significant other.
Plus there'd be insecurities on whether or not one person was better at something than I was. I would constantly feel I have to be better than them.
Well in the definition I can because that only applies to individuals you are married to, but even if I was married I still believe I can be faithful to my partner and still have fun in the bedroom with others if we chose to. There is more to knowing that I love, and only love, my partner than having sex.
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Waar
FAKKU Moderator
Tsurayu wrote...
I mean that sounds like something Waar would expect - arguing for the sake of arguing.
you do enjoy talking about me...
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I don't understand why being in a serious relationship with someone who happened to be bisexual is wrong. Me, my girlfriend, and most of my friends are bisexual. Do I plan to ever bring anyone else into sexual relations with my girlfriend? No. I told her that I wouldn't allow it even if she ever wanted to. Someone's sexual orientation has nothing to do with anything, it is them as a person that affects these things. The same thing that causes you to say you wouldn't be in a serious relationship with someone because they happen to have be attracted to both sexes.
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Waar wrote...
Tsurayu wrote...
I mean that sounds like something Waar would expect - arguing for the sake of arguing.
you do enjoy talking about me...
You should feel so honored.
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Waar
FAKKU Moderator
Tsurayu wrote...
Waar wrote...
Tsurayu wrote...
I mean that sounds like something Waar would expect - arguing for the sake of arguing.
you do enjoy talking about me...
You should feel so honored.
I do, my balls are spacious enough for many more users such as yourself.
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I personally find that one's bisexuality has little influence on whether I would date that person, except if the person in question actively tries to hide her bisexuality. I would be offended that she would think that I would be offended if she was bisexual, which probably would have a negative effect.
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I only just recently mentioned to any of my friends that I was bisexual. I've known since high school, but your sexuality is really just best kept to yourself unless it happens to come up in discussion. Well, it did one day for me and now I've decided there isn't any point in trying to hide it, or rather neglect to mention it.
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Tsurayu wrote...
I only just recently mentioned to any of my friends that I was bisexual. I've known since high school, but your sexuality is really just best kept to yourself unless it happens to come up in discussion. Well, it did one day for me and now I've decided there isn't any point in trying to hide it, or rather neglect to mention it.Good for you bro. Hopefully people haven't been treating you badly. It's normally gays that people attack. Bisexual is like: "Oh, okay..." But Gay people are attacked a lot.
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Meh, not that many people know. Most just my close friends and the only website I've mentioned it is Fakku. I don't really care what anyone thinks. It really isn't anyone's business but my own (and my partner's too, I suppose.)
Although I must admit, I've yet to meet someone who really hates bisexuals. Oh, I've met a few people who aren't particularly tolerant of it, but are at least civil.
Although I must admit, I've yet to meet someone who really hates bisexuals. Oh, I've met a few people who aren't particularly tolerant of it, but are at least civil.
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The good thing of date a bisexual.
If a bisexual cute girl love me & love another girl, this mean I can having sex with 2 girls right?
If a bisexual cute girl love me & love another girl, this mean I can having sex with 2 girls right?
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KURO L LAWLIET wrote...
this mean I can having sex with 2 girls right?It would seem like the only fair solution. Guilt trip your partner into letting you in and have an orgy full of awesome
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SunQuan wrote...
Trust issues and insecurity are tough things to get over. I don't hold them against anyone, let alone Shaggy. If he would prevent himself from getting too seriously involved with a bisexual woman based on his beliefs, then I respect that. It's a preference, nothing more. It doesn't matter what said preference is based on. I have a preference for Asian women with long hair, personally. I don't see that being any different than Shaggy's preference for heterosexual women.There's nothing wrong with preferences, no. But this is different.
Preferring one race to another as far as appearances goes is one thing. However, if for instance you refused to date a black woman because you believe she'll cheat on you with black men, it would be racism. And this is biphobia.
For the record, I'm twenty, bisexual, and I've never had any form of sexual contact with either gender.