Would you still date someone you wern't sexual attracted to?

That idea never came to my mind if I'm not attracted, it'll be only a waste of time for me or perhaps for both us. Plus it may lead to false hopes.

I'm in that kind of situation right now, I don't get a boner when I think about her, I don't even get any wet dreams about her, Or just being around her.

Sometimes my penis knows more than I do (Subconsciously)

She has a nice body but... somehow my body doesn't click with her, maybe its not meant to be.

Sure I would. It´s not all about how she looks it´s more of her personality.

I'd give it a try.

Back then, I wasn't sexually attracted to my partner.

Sex is an important part of a serious relationship. There needs to be that attraction and intimacy.
I would have to be sexually attracted to whomever I'm dating.
There's not even a thought to it.

There is should be more to a relationship that just se. If there is not then there is something wrong with your relationship.

Yes, there was this girl who was cool as hell, always made me laugh and I always made her laugh. But I wasn't sexually attracted to her, she had a nice body but it wasn't like "Oh My God I Have To Have Her!" But I never asked her out 'cause of my pride, so I regret that decision 'til this day.

I think so.

Why don't you ask him what he feels about it? If he's understanding I'm sure he would give you an honest answer and know what your feeling.

yes..! free stuff. XD LOL

Love isn't all about sex and such. I would date someone despite their appearance and I hope they would do the same.

It's not really about appearance. It's about being attracted to that person. Being able to get turned on when thinking of them and such.

Love isn't all about sex, but it is a major factor.

For a real loving relationship I feel like you should be attracted to the person, be their friend, and love them. (Sex, Friendship, and Love)

Without sexual attraction, I believe it's a really good friendship, but not a romantic relationship.

^This

It isn't even about looks. If their personality turns you on, if they make you feel excited were you want to wrap up in their arms, and you want to show them off, it is the same thing.

Love without sexual tension is either a familial bond or a platonic friendship - no matter how deep that love is. You need both the attraction and the love.

But to answer the question - I'd go on a date or two, just to see if an attraction exist between us. If it didn't manifest, I wouldn't date them anymore.

I agree. Sometimes a thing like sexual attraction can grow with time. However, personally, i would find it hard to keep myself interested if i did not have a sexual/physical attraction to a girl. But the thing i have learned is that sexual attraction can go away, but a strong connection cannot. If the sexual attraction is the only thing missing in the "relationship", let it grow,and give it time. People like that do not come around often, cherish them.

It would depend, if shes not sexually attractive but shes beautiful on the inside, hell yeah i would. But if shes not sexually attractive and shes a fucking cunt. Hell no.

I agree thorougly. Its never about appearance. You like a girl because you find her attractive despite other people's subjective views. Its what clicks on inside you which makes you want to be with her. If you find a girl and you not only find her attractive but interesting then its a done deal. Which is why we're all forever alone around here.

I totally agree. A lot of my friends don't really understand why I choose to date the people I do, but it's because I value their personality before conventional notions of attractiveness. I would have to say that some level of physical interest would probably be needed to warrant a long lasting relationship, but personality is the most important and most attractive part of a person.

Besides, sometimes you don't know why you love someone so much, but you end up feeling that way =O. It's downright amazing when you find that special someone tho =).

I'd probably give it a try before shoting the idea down

It depends, I don't look much on the outside appearance but well she has to somehow be attractive in her own way, especially when I don't like 3d much -.-

It depends really.

Yes only because sex is only a bonus or side thing and isn't important. But me personally, I grow to want and get sexually attracted to the ones I love naturally. But, if you aren't attracted to him in any other way aside from sexually then you shouldn't stay in the relationship..because the love just might be love from kindness and yet not because you actually care about the person..in a sense it would be almost as if you're just leading him on..but the problem is mostly him not being more active and giving you enough attention in a affectionate way..lack of compliments and such is pretty much making the relationship dull from what as far as I can tell from all the reading I have done. but, I would say talk to him about it if anything if you haven't already. See what happens then.

Think first before saying anything. It's always better if you wont hurt the feelings of others.