Ask Bun Bun - Circe's Advice Column

My other online pseudonym is CirceBunBun so...me!





No preparation necessary. You don't even know her yet. Just be yourself, have a good time, and if a connection happens then it happens.



First, stop using the word "submissive" to mean something else. Being submissive isn't appropriate in this context, because it implies that someone has authority or power over you.

If you are very accommodating and helpful towards others, there is nothing wrong with that personality trait. It does not make you weak. If you think it makes society think you are weak, then you are most likely the only one who thinks that and you just need to adjust your thinking.

If someone is mistreating you or taking advantage of you and you are accepting it, that is a different problem. Letting people walk all over you is a problem with a quick fix. You simply need to pull your balls out of your ass and learn to say "no" to people.



More of this <3

I should of known but I ask to see the origin of the name.

Thanks for the advice. Usually I am able to assert myself when I think I'm being taken advantage of. I want to be a nice guy without knowing I'm being walked all over.

I got two more questions:

I'm a social idiot around women, what do I do to remedy this social idiocy or should I keep my social idiocy as a quirk to use to my advantage?

I can't really look at people in their eyes, do you find this to be problem? And if so, what can I do to remedy it?

should I stop being someone who doesn't care about the world, or should I stay as my self?

and something for circle~

Okay, I'll play nice. Have a cookie!

I'm very bored. Bored enough that I don't even know what I want to do.

What to do?

This is pretty fun.

Define or give an example of "social idiocy".



The only time you need to look at people directly in their eyes is when you're trying to explain something, and even then too much eye contact can make people uncomfortable. There's kind of a fine line, and I myself have not found where it lies. Don't worry about it.

Today's theme is: Be yourself. Stop trying to adjust things about yourself because you think other people won't like the way you are naturally.



The word "should" is very dangerous. It indicates that you have some pre-conceived notion of what the right thing is, are trying to fit that mold, and are worried that you won't be able to fit.

You already know this answer. Be yourself.



Go outside for a walk. Say hello to a random stranger. Have a conversation. Buy the stranger some ice cream. Ask them about their life and genuinely listen to what they have to say. New friend acquired.

Or masturbate. That works too.



None of mine have turned out this cool. They just look like a woman's reproductive system, lol.

So far, I know how to make Filipino soup-based viands. What should I study next if I want to learn more about cooking?

You should probably start with the comfort foods of your culture, like your favorite things your mom made as a child. It will inspire you to cook because you already know you love it. Then you can add or change how you see fit. From there, just buy a discount cookbook or search online recipes until something catches your eye. There are also a lot of chefs on youtube that can visually show you how to make things.

[align=justify][color=green][font=verdana]You love that "should" advice, I realise.

[color=#9172ec]It's all contextual, my love.

Makes sense. I'll do that.

I am quite enjoying this, lol. Hopefully...I can help people in my own way...

I'd want to ask you something, but cant think of a question :/
can you help me?

I have a lovely bunch of coconuts THAT I KNOW NOT WHAT TO DO WITH.




Also, thingstuff.

You put the Lime in the Coconut...

Lime Coconut???

WHAT MADNESS IS THIS.

You've never heard that before? haha

Go rob a bank. Then come back and you may have a question or two for me :)



I suggest an epic adventure in search of treasure through the desert with nothing but a bag of coconuts on your back.

Or you could masturbate. That works too.





I suggest chocolate. Or matching friendship bracelets. Or maybe just a long talk and a girly movie.

Or start a blog together about girly things!!

I think your friend might be afraid of another chorus letdown. If you can give her some assurance that it will turn out better and that the participants will be professional and mature.....she would probably want in. In fact, she probably already wanted in but didn't think she would be allowed to >_>