Why would a girl stay with an abusive guy?
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I have a friend I have known a long time and she has such an abusive douche bag of a boyfriend. Long story short he beats her and she insist he loves her, so she stays with him. I'm a guy so she gets hurt more if we hang out. I just can't understand for the life of me why she would stay with a person like that.
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Get rid of the douche, and replace with yourself in his place if you like her enough.
Otherwise, just make sure he disappear like trash should.
Otherwise, just make sure he disappear like trash should.
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So... he beats her up and tells her he loves her?
Oh God, open the girl's eyes for her, tell her that a good man tries his best to not hurt the ones he loves.
EDIT: I accidentally typed "he loves him" instead of "he loves her" lol
Oh God, open the girl's eyes for her, tell her that a good man tries his best to not hurt the ones he loves.
x-gen wrote...
Get rid of the doucheEDIT: I accidentally typed "he loves him" instead of "he loves her" lol
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x-gen wrote...
Get rid of the doucheA guy who hits a girl, hits his girlfriend for that matter is scum. Lower than the dirt beneath my shoes.
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Dr. Faustus wrote...
So... he beats her up and tells her he loves him?x-gen wrote...
Get rid of the doucheI didn't know we were talking about homosexuality here.
Spoiler:
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Some girls stay with their abusive bf because most likely they are stupid, naive and usually think "he hits me becuase he loves me". I know it may seem harsh, but that is usually the honest truth. In other cases she may be afraid to leave me in fear of he will retaliate against her.
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No, more like she thinks "He's a good person, just a little misguided. I can change him!"
Unfortunately, that is usually not the case, and is best left for the professionals, who aren't in danger of violence.
Unfortunately, that is usually not the case, and is best left for the professionals, who aren't in danger of violence.
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shinji_ikari
Mustn't Run Away...
CPOK wrote...
Freezer + wood-chipper + lake full of fish = no body. Nuff said....ya no body...JUST A HUGE MOTHERFUCKING WOOD CHIPPER FILLED WITH BLOOD,FLESH,AND BONE...cause if the wood chipper at my job gets little bits of crap stuck in it I promise a body will be harder to clean up...and wait...WHERE THE FUCK DOES AN AVERAGE PERSON GET A WOOD CHIPPER ?!!??!?!? D:< ...the easiest way to kill him is this..find someone who has a gun...steal it ,shoot fucker in head, empty gun,take slim nailphile scratch up inside of barrel, toss gun in lake...THE END
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All of my older sisters (2) were whit scumbags like him, one even got her collarbone fractured when she tried to leave that dick (she won, thank god...)
I REALLY hate dickheads like them...
I REALLY hate dickheads like them...
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I've seen this a few times. it happened to a friends sister, so we got some other dudes, went and found him, beat the shit out of him, and told him if he ever even talked to her again, we'd kill him. he moved to another town.
this may not work in every situation. any man who hits his woman is a coward, but some may feel the need to retaliate. my best friend was in an abusive relationship, and another dude called out the douche and got stabbed for it. the douche then tried to pin it on my friend, and she wound up in prison for a year, and parole for five more. as far as i know, the douche is still inside.
maybe something like an intervetion would work too.
this may not work in every situation. any man who hits his woman is a coward, but some may feel the need to retaliate. my best friend was in an abusive relationship, and another dude called out the douche and got stabbed for it. the douche then tried to pin it on my friend, and she wound up in prison for a year, and parole for five more. as far as i know, the douche is still inside.
maybe something like an intervetion would work too.
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She's probably scared to leave him.
Talk to her alone, and get some more information out of her so you fully understand what's going on and can help her.
Talk to her alone, and get some more information out of her so you fully understand what's going on and can help her.
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Why she stays you ask? Because most women are naturally manipulative & live in their own stupid superficial fairy tale world, where in they think they could change a bad guy into Prince Charming!
I know you're gonna defend her, since you seem too emotionally attached! It's even practical to say that you're actually in love with her, & is exaggerating your story because of your emotionality!
If she's one of them, get it into your thick head, she doesn't need a tail like you! She's not a dog, a bitch maybe! All she'll need from you is someone to listen to, period! But if she's really in trouble, step up & fight for her, as a friend, unless you're just another Douchebag who was just there to steal her! It'll make you seem far lower than her jerk BF!
I know you're gonna defend her, since you seem too emotionally attached! It's even practical to say that you're actually in love with her, & is exaggerating your story because of your emotionality!
If she's one of them, get it into your thick head, she doesn't need a tail like you! She's not a dog, a bitch maybe! All she'll need from you is someone to listen to, period! But if she's really in trouble, step up & fight for her, as a friend, unless you're just another Douchebag who was just there to steal her! It'll make you seem far lower than her jerk BF!
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Talk to her bro. Convince her that what's hes doing aint right. Also if worse comes to comes to worse you can just dump the body in the ocean.
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x-gen wrote...
No, more like she thinks "He's a good person, just a little misguided. I can change him!"tell her that that phrase is idiotic, U cant be in a relationship to change each other... make her see that the guy is trash, and u support her to leave him
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This is a psychological condition.
Both partners were either abused as children, or grew up in a chaotic household (mother/father gone, abuse between parents, boundary issues, etc.). The woman's rational mind says that the abuse is wrong, but irrational parts of her psyche think that this is "normal", and a part of a healthy relationship.
The only way to counteract this is to get genuine, professional, treatment for the initial abuse.
Both partners were either abused as children, or grew up in a chaotic household (mother/father gone, abuse between parents, boundary issues, etc.). The woman's rational mind says that the abuse is wrong, but irrational parts of her psyche think that this is "normal", and a part of a healthy relationship.
The only way to counteract this is to get genuine, professional, treatment for the initial abuse.
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Sometimes people stay with abusive mates because they do not believe they can find better or are even willing to try. It is a severely difficult situation. Best thing to do is try to introduce them to new people and get them to realize they have qualities that appeal to people and that they can find a new person. This can be dangerous though as should the abusive mate find out, it will get bad... very bad.
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She might feel like he needs her. She'd feel guilty for breaking up with him because it would hurt his feelings so much. She'd rather hurt herself by staying with him than hurt him by leaving.
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NEXUS
Since 2010
huffcustom wrote...
I have a friend I have known a long time and she has such an abusive douche bag of a boyfriend. Long story short he beats her and she insist he loves her, so she stays with him. I'm a guy so she gets hurt more if we hang out. I just can't understand for the life of me why she would stay with a person like that.To put it blunt, Kick his ass and make sure you break a few bones, Abusers don't deserve any mercy especially when the person they are abusing is there girlfriend.
