Liase wrote...
I want to thank you all for your support and kinds words... It's been a really weird holiday with him not being here (we hung out on New Year's Eve last year, and shortly after that was when our "fling" happened).
I made a thread about this because I was hoping for a lot of different perspectives/advice - there aren't many irl friends or family I can talk to about this (I'm in counseling to talk about it, and it's helpful, but usually speaking to just one person isn't enough for me) - and I find all of your comments to be really helpful. It's very interesting for me to see how other people handle events like this, and the teachings they share with other people after they make it through them. I'm a nursing student, and one of the things I try hardest to remember is that every patient copes and responds differently, even if they're facing the same situation. This doesn't mean however, that people can't adapt or try other people's methods of coping (provided they aren't destructive!), as they may find something new that works for them.
I find your words to be very comforting. Thank you so much. Happy new year.
I hope you won't mind this post. I ought to have made a reply earlier.
Thank you for your kind remarks. If you have anything else (hopefully more cheerful) you would like to share with us, you can try interacting with this community. (I suggest the Random Section) For me, doing anything, preferably productive, to take my mind off unpleasant thoughts is my way of dealing with problems.
I joined the forums due to the sense of community it provided and the fact that people all around the world post here. Would be glad to befriend you as well.