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Have a question about how to approach a girl? What to do in a relationship with a woman you really like? Just have some unfathomable question that no other girl would be able to answer?

As a girl, I have my own insight as to what I like, and all the answers I give won't be applicable to every girl you meet. I believe in confident, polite men, who show me their passionate side in private. I'm a rather dominant, decisive woman, who's very outgoing and isn't very easily embarrassed.

Men with questions, ask away. Girls, feel free to answer as well.

Well I have a question. Like in my recent posting me and gf have this "bond". 2/14/09 was the day that both of us changed our "Status"[size=10](If you know what I mean.*wink,*wink.)[/h] We now live a happy life,but I want to be more involed in her life,social,sexual,personal etc,but not get in the way or make her life hard. Can you...give me advice?

Kay, you want to integrate yourself into what she does normally, right? Start looking at what she does during the day, and see what types of things are similar between yours and her daily routines. If you both like going to the bookstore, offer to take her when you're on your way there. When you're going out to lunch at a place that you know she likes, invite her. Show her that you've been paying attention to the things that she likes, and she'll be comfortable inviting you when she returns to those places again.

As for time at home, try to see what types of things she does at home. When she has free time, what does she do? Watch movies, play video games, play sports? On a day off, try to invite her over for some time around the house or at a park, to just kick back and relax.

Showing her that you can fit into her normal lifestyle will comfortably ease her into spending more time with you, and she'll be prone to asking you to join her more often.

Thanks for the advice Tsuni. I hope who the next person who ask you a question leaves with some good advice and a good friend. I'll rep you when I can...friend^-^. Oh and have a wonderful time here on FAKKU

A female? I have a question, who let you out of the kitchen and taught you how to use a computer?

I didn't think it was so weird for guys to end up with female friends. It almost never starts out with "friends" being the goal, but sometimes ends up that way. I don't know, maybe they lie a lot. They are women after all.

Uh...so I'm still on topic, and keeping the the theme of my former paragraph; Why do you think it is that women keep male friends, but guys almost always only have female friends as a result of failed sexual advances?

Thank you very much! ^^ Stop back any time you have another question, I'd be happy to give you advice!

Now why should I answer your questions if you're going to be rude to me like that? Buzz off. If you have a genuine question that you'd like answered, you'd ask nicely. Would you care to try again?

I guess you shouldn't, but I sortof only asked one so that I wouldn't be off topic and being a jerk for the sake of being a jerk, even though I was.
You ARE, however, the first girl around here to react to any anti-feminist thing I've said. Actually, you are probably the only person at all to react to it. So that's cool for me.
Well, it wasn't ALL just to be a jerk. There is the fact that I found it a little bit insulting the way you tend to phrase things like non of us have ever met a girl before. But not significantly to care, I just get mild amusement out of anti-feminism.

In any case, that last bit WAS a genuine question. I was just thinking about male/female friendships, so I figured while I was posting here anyway, I would ask what you thought about it, because I actually never have asked a girl about that.

I just really don't find much tact in recycled 4-chan garbage. Just know that those kind of comments don't fly with me.

I know that the majority of people who frequent FAKKU are men, but I don't believe that all of you haven't had any contact with women. But in the small crowd that I've been introduced to, it seems to be the case that most of them have reasons for not being involved with a woman or getting to close to them. (Shyness, religion, ect.)

Anyway. I keep male friends to do things with that I can't do with female friends. I take my female friends shopping, to go out to eat and chat with, and to do girl stuff with. But I have male friends because I'm comfortable around guys, and there are things that they do that I enjoy doing, too. I'm a bit of a tomboy myself, and I enjoy a lot of sports, video games, and especially hentai. (C'mon, what friends don't want to share porn?) I have guy friends there that I can do things with that my girl friends wouldn't enjoy. There are even some things we can all do together, depending on each of their personalities, but there are some with a definite divide. I wouldn't take my guy friends shopping, because I know they'd get bored and wouldn't like it; and I wouldn't play video games with most of my girl friends because they'd get tired of getting their butts kicked all the time.

It's the same for guys. Who they do things with depends on what they're friends interests are. You'd call the person you feel you enjoy doing the activity most with. If for guys, that activity happens to be sex, sure, you'd probably want a girl to be that friend. Girls can definitely have those, too. When it comes to still keeping friends out of a failed sexual advance, the girl did see that you had an attraction to her. She may not be interested in sleeping with you, but her catching your eye did flatter her, which is why she'd want to be friends.

Did that answer your question?

Recycled 4-chan garbage? This seems irrelevant to the conversation at hand. blatant and obviously stupid insults against generalized populations may be the favorite pastime of that place, but don't let it be considered the source of it. People are capable of that sort of meaningless shit on their own. It isn't hard. And there isn't supposed to be tact to it. Tactlessness is pretty much the point of it.
Also, everyone wants to be unique and an individual. It's a boring and useless trait in a person. The only thing more annoying than an "individual" is probably an "intellectual."
But that's another subject entirely.

Oh, and the whole never meeting a female thing, like I said, wasn't too significant to me. I didn't feel your intentions were ever bad, just maybe the phrasing was poor. But it doesn't really matter.

Of course that answers my question, I asked how you felt about something; the only way you could have not answered my question was by saying nothing or lying.
When looking for the reason behind something, I try to look at it in the most simple way possible. In the most basic terms, females are physically more vulnerable than males, but are more significant to the survival of the species, especially when pregnant, so they keep males around with whom they will not mate, but will use for protection. I guess it isn't so basic in the modern world, when people have feelings or whatever noise, but it does help explain why most men don't have many female friends, and why men tend to see women only in sexual terms. That basic survival of the species instinct.
But I've met a few girls who had more male friends then female, so I wanted a female perspective on the issue, I guess.
Thanks and shit.

Me, personally, I like a guy who can cook. I like to eat good food, and I'm not the best cook in the world. I can pull off dinner, but I actually like guys who can teach me about things that I'm interested in, like cooking.

If the girl you're looking at doesn't like cooking, then you're exactly what the doctor ordered. If she does like cooking, then you have something to do together or trade-off doing. I'd say that being able to cook is a winning skill.

same here..........

....got some questions........
1st
-do girls really masturbate(on ther own will)
2nd
-do girls cum?(like .....erm.....orgasm)

wow that is exactly why i chose not to have one either

live still long, someday you'll find one.
Gossips can be really annoying, but its human nature.

Er gossip tends to only last temporary. I got that a lot during high school but of course it was high school and gossip pretty much fills the air then. But things get easier in college cause most girls are more chill and mature and their easier to talk to. This is just my personal experience though.

@Crimson: Yes, girls do masturbate of their own will. What do you think we have vibrators for? And yes, we do orgasm. Whether or not a girl actually secretes any of the fluid depends on the girl. When girls climax, their kegel muscles contract, and it tends to resemble convulsions, which makes it easy to determine whether or not a girl is lying about climax. But girls who know how to control their kegels could fool you just as easily.


@Shinichi: I agree with you on the gossip, however I am guilty of doing it from time to time. I just like to talk, which whatever topic that has hold of a conversation usually gets me to talk. I don't mean for it to be hurtful, but I'm just carrying on the conversation and whatever opinions I have. If gossip is a real problem for you, your best bet is to talk to the girl you're interested in about it. Not every girl gossips, and not every girl's an easy talker. High school does tend to be the "he did that" or "she did that" type of central conversations, but when getting out into college or into the working world, people tend to grow up and talk about more interesting, critical topics.

I'ma have to side with dante just a little bit here... even though hes being a bit of an ass hat. Your original post does come off as a bit insulting in the sense that you take us all to be complete losers with no interaction with the other sex. Just don't flatter yourself too much... you aren't the one single gateway into this other bizzare and strange land of women.

That being said, welcome to fakku.

Ditto. There's other girls here.
They're just less obnoxious about their female presence.

It's cool that you see yourself as a level headed girl that can offer advice, but like Dante and Static have said - a lot of the guys in here have more experience with the opposite sex then what you may think. Many of them more so then myself so I can't exactly come across like I've been around the block once or twice and know how things work.

As stated your intention was harmless, but the way you came off totally conflicted with your intention.

So here's my advice to you:
Get used to being on a male dominated site. You'll hear things that you may not always agree with, and you can either defend it and get nowhere or just roll with it and just laugh with them.
And believe me, it's hard sometimes because not everyone will be the white knight and stand up for you. You'll occasionally get someone who wants to challenge you and possibly try to get you upset.

Don't expect everyone to be intellectual with you either. This is a porn site and most of the guys come here for the porn and the luls, not to have an intellectual conversation with a feminazi.