Virgin Complexes?
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Ikaros Type Alpha wrote...
I actually wouldn't date a girl knowing she's not a virgin. Experienced or not, I could not date a girl who has lost her virginity, unless under special circumstances.inb4 futa
I'd like my girlfriend to be a virgin, but a non-virgin has their ups too...
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I think theirs no need to worry ever Virgin tends to go though this every now and then,hey it happen to me the feeling comes and gos when it pleases but if you feel down and think that being a virgin is awkward just don't you will find the right person out their you will see and when you do you will the that sex will come naturally to everyone it's in our nature as human beings.
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I used to feel like this, and actually am still more attracted to virgin girls.
Psychologically I think it stems from my domination complex. I regard even my friends as my possesions at some level, and a girl who has had sex with someone else is sort of "used goods" to me.
However at this point it's strictly psychological, and I can get out of that mindset rather easily.
That is actually a very good point. It'd probably be a more enjoyable experience with a guy who knows what he's doing, as opposed to someone as clueless as you.
Of course the latter situation gives you the chance to learn together, but either one has it's merits.
Psychologically I think it stems from my domination complex. I regard even my friends as my possesions at some level, and a girl who has had sex with someone else is sort of "used goods" to me.
However at this point it's strictly psychological, and I can get out of that mindset rather easily.
SimplyBasic wrote...
[size=11]o - o As a virgin I'd perfer a guy to have more experience. If not for sure I'd make the situation awkward xD[/h]That is actually a very good point. It'd probably be a more enjoyable experience with a guy who knows what he's doing, as opposed to someone as clueless as you.
Of course the latter situation gives you the chance to learn together, but either one has it's merits.
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BackdoorLover wrote...
I used to feel like this, and actually am still more attracted to virgin girls.Psychologically I think it stems from my domination complex. I regard even my friends as my possesions at some level, and a girl who has had sex with someone else is sort of "used goods" to me.
However at this point it's strictly psychological, and I can get out of that mindset rather easily.
It's all mindfuck dude it's all about just not thinking about it right.
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Here's my story: (feel free to skip) I am not a virgin, but I don't take sex lightly either. The girl that I lost my virginity to lost her virginity to me at the same time. We had been dating for 1 year and 2-3 months before we had sex. She had been molested by her ex-bf, and thus, wanted to take things slow. I obliged, as I am not one to push anyone into anything. She wanted to have sex, but it just took her a long time to be ready for anything, which was fine, as this was my first 'serious' girlfriend, and I was inexperienced as well. When we did finally have sex, we then had sex like rabbits lol. She came to my college on her spring break, and I think we had sex like 20 times in 5 days lol. But I digress.
I am kind of a hypocrite. I am not a virgin, but I would like to find someone who is a virgin. Probably because I would see her as "used goods" and don't want her to compare me to other guys. Don't get me wrong though, I have had other interests since then, both virgins and not, so I don't really care when it comes down to it. It just depends on the person/situation then. I do like it when a girl knows what she wants though, and I have often been excited when the girl is in control. So there are positives and negatives.
tl;dr: Not a virgin. Would like a virgin, but I'm not that picky.
I am kind of a hypocrite. I am not a virgin, but I would like to find someone who is a virgin. Probably because I would see her as "used goods" and don't want her to compare me to other guys. Don't get me wrong though, I have had other interests since then, both virgins and not, so I don't really care when it comes down to it. It just depends on the person/situation then. I do like it when a girl knows what she wants though, and I have often been excited when the girl is in control. So there are positives and negatives.
tl;dr: Not a virgin. Would like a virgin, but I'm not that picky.
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zachwolf wrote...
here is my story:Im a virgin.
The end
tl;tr virgin, end
me too,and if can i want a virgin one~
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Tofu_Shinobi wrote...
BackdoorLover wrote...
I used to feel like this, and actually am still more attracted to virgin girls.Psychologically I think it stems from my domination complex. I regard even my friends as my possesions at some level, and a girl who has had sex with someone else is sort of "used goods" to me.
However at this point it's strictly psychological, and I can get out of that mindset rather easily.
It's all mindfuck dude it's all about just not thinking about it right.
Everything is really, I'm a strong believer that you can overcome anything your subconscious controls with conscious brainpower.
It's well known that the subconscious is much more powerful than your conscious mind, but I believe it's possible to change that.
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zachwolf wrote...
^or you could just train your subconscious mindThe subconscious can't be trained, hence the prefix "sub", meaning on a different level than your conscious. You can however, train your conscious mind to be more powerful.
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id like to disagree with that
and I tell you why
your subconscious mind is the part of your brain which does stuff for you like beats your heart, breathing, ect (knda like autopilot)
it can also efects your reaction skills (like if you drop a glass and you catch it)
when you do somthing so many time you dont have to think about it to do it. that is cuz your submind now helps to do it
so in short you are constanly traing your submind without even knowing it.
sory I had to edit this
the last one was written when my bloodsuger was low and i cant write worth shit when it down
and I tell you why
your subconscious mind is the part of your brain which does stuff for you like beats your heart, breathing, ect (knda like autopilot)
it can also efects your reaction skills (like if you drop a glass and you catch it)
when you do somthing so many time you dont have to think about it to do it. that is cuz your submind now helps to do it
so in short you are constanly traing your submind without even knowing it.
sory I had to edit this
the last one was written when my bloodsuger was low and i cant write worth shit when it down
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e-imi wrote...
So I personally have a huge virgin complex. I have never had a boyfriend or anything before, but I could never date a guy if I found out he wasn't a virgin. It has nothing to do that I'd be threatened by him or anything, It'd just be weird (maybe it also has to do that if I was to date a guy he'd have to be an otaku?). When I think of my friends/people I know losing their virginity (or even making out) I get really panicked too.Recently one of my really close best friends (I'd known her since grade 1) moved to another high school this year, and I was really worried about her because she has been home schooled for around 3 years. She was super shy, scared of groups, and had no guy friends asides from the guys she played MMOs with. Soon, she more or less stopped talking to me even when I started conversations with her, and suddenly started dating a guy. However, when I found out that she was in a relationship suddenly (and from other friends), I also heard that she'd make out with him in the hallways of the school and that she had lost her virginity to him. This was all in a 2 month period of her going to that school, and it upsets me so much I've had nightmares about it. Nightmares. o__o;;
I've had my complex for a lot longer than before that whole thing, but I think that has had a major impact on it.
Does anyone else here have a virgin complex? How do you think it started? Any other experiences?
I mean, it's so weird because I'm pretty much graduating now and I sound like a little kid. >3>;;
I do not have prefernce for virgins but only, if they are caring , honest and return the same respect that I give them.
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GracefulDiscension. wrote...
Nashrakh wrote...
Guess I'm one of the few dudes who would like their partner to have some experience, huh?I never got the whole virgin hype. In reality, shit is more awkward that way.
Yeah but your guarenteed not to get and STD
They could still have and transmit one to you even if they have never engaged in sexual activities before. Some STD's are hereditary.
Also, just because a girl's not a virgin doesn't automatically make her a sopping wet slut. Like somebody mentioned, experience counts for a LOT- but virgins are always cute, too. But they're a lot more prone to be clingy- which is understandable.
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
ShadowWorld wrote...
I'd perfer to date a virgin, but if I loved them with all my heart then I could deal with them not being virgins.This for me, although tbh I really can't stand virgin blood. The thought of it being painful turns me off. x_x
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Not all virgins bleed. A lot of girls' hymens are torn doing various physical activities (riding horse, etc).
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
I know... but, it doesn't have to be blood, actually. Just her looking like it's painful is enough to put me off... x_x
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mibuchiha wrote...
I know... but, it doesn't have to be blood, actually. Just her looking like it's painful is enough to put me off... x_xWhaaa? I thought guys like that "virgin first time scaredy" act...
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
neko-chan wrote...
mibuchiha wrote...
I know... but, it doesn't have to be blood, actually. Just her looking like it's painful is enough to put me off... x_xWhaaa? I thought guys like that "virgin first time scaredy" act...
Not me for sure. Me first time went funny because seeing the blood killed the hard-on. v_v
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mibuchiha wrote...
I know... but, it doesn't have to be blood, actually. Just her looking like it's painful is enough to put me off... x_xFinger her a lot before? I fingered my ex a lot before we had sex, and shew said it barely hurt at all. She was sore the next morning, but the following night wanted to do it again :)
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
Mulkao wrote...
mibuchiha wrote...
I know... but, it doesn't have to be blood, actually. Just her looking like it's painful is enough to put me off... x_xFinger her a lot before? I fingered my ex a lot before we had sex, and shew said it barely hurt at all. She was sore the next morning, but the following night wanted to do it again :)
lol, that was the solution we came up with. XP