Virgin Complexes?

What does "love with all my heart" stand for exactly?

As I've lost my virginity with a virgin partner I can say... it's weird. You could study all the porn in the world, but still you'll do it somehow wrong. And cum after, like, 10 seconds.

What if you do it right the first time?
I'm still a virgin (Don't tell anyone) and I want to lose it to another virgin lol.

Trust me, two virgins together in bed always do something wrong, it's a given. That's like giving Caesar and Marco Polo a machine gun telling them to have a showdown.
I'm not saying it's wrong or anything, it's just weird (personal experience).

My question still remains. What does "love with all my heart" mean?

To love someone with pure feelings of love, to have the will to sacrifice your life to him/her. To have the will to lose your virginity.

So if two virgins are bad how about doing it while watching some reference?

Hmpf, I've never understood that whole love thing, sounds lame.

And I don't know man, just find a virgin girlfriend (obviously the OP is your person), hop into bed and then tell me if the video references helped.

I literally laughed out loud to that. How many guys just do it to "get it over with and become a 'real man'" or because they're horny bastards?

Actually I know a good share of guys who were really concerned about their feelings to the person they lost/wanted to lose their virginity with.

I was probably just a horny bastard even though I was dating her for over a year back then.

Hmm. All guys I know "lost" their virginity quite early just because hormones acted up or they didn't want to be "the virgin" anymore.

Don't get me wrong here, it's not like I don't find the thought of "losing" your virginity to someone you love romantic myself, but some posts in here make me question some users' connection to reality.

Also, this whole debate reeks of sexism the way some people look at non-virgins as "used goods". I threw up in my mouth a little.

"Used goods"? I read that and had to say something.

A woman is not simply a "good" for you, and by no means is she "used" if she decided to open herself up to someone at the time.

This is probably just me being close-minded, but I simply can not understand any of the users who said they would not date a non-virgin except under "special circumstances". Oh wait, maybe the whole close-mindedness is the other way around?

These "used goods" comments are, in fact, quite hillarious, considering the fact that about 90% of F! users have never had a sexual intercourse.

So, basically they don't want to be with a girl who's had more experience than themselves? How charming.

Well, that ONE GUY who said he wouldn't consider dating non-virgins is not a virgin himself anymore, which makes him even more of a hypocrite.

Well I can quite get the point why they're scared of it, you know shooting your load before you even get to the real thing (and it really happens to virgins, especially to adolescent guys) is something a lot of guys are scared of.
But who would admit that, right?

Edit@Nash: that's a funny thing, too. How goes the saying? "If a man had sex with 20 women, he's a stallion. If a woman had sex with 20 men, she's a whore."
Funny how some people think.

@Nash: That's so stupid. "I can have sex all I want, but if the girl I want to be with had sex, she's used goods." Also, I'm assuming he's planning on having sex with the virgin girl. To all the people who say they want one, does that mean it's okay for her to make you wait a very, very long time until she feels you're "the one" to have sex with? Because God only knows she doesn't want to be "used goods" when things don't work out with the two of you.

Sometimes, I just don't like people.

@Lamz0r: I'm confused. Are you saying guys don't want to ejaculate for the first time without a girl present?

I think he means the "embarrassment" of premature ejaculation.

Yup.

Gotcha. I didn't even think of that as a worry. Oops.

I lol'd so hard on that.

Because it's true.

So OP just find that special someone for you and you'll get over your Complex. That or just fuck some random dude (or chick if you swing that way) But in all seriousness just find that special someone. I know it wont be easy but you gotta keep moving forward.